what attributes of a guy/girl are most important
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girl here~
1. honesty/loyalty <- as Mr.Shaggers said, relationships dont work without honesty.
2. good childish/mature ratio <- In some situations maturity is needed (like financial issues), but in general childish is better than mature, because I can be quite childish myself D:
3. personality <- partly the same thing as number 2, but this is really important, because when I like someone, I start liking them because of their personality, not because of their looks.
4. caring <- I dont think I have to explain this.
5. common interests <- I believe this is "likes same things as I do" A bf who plays games with me and talk about them with me is a good bf.
6. Has the same drugs of choise as I do <- that means no alcohol (there's many reasons for that) or tobacco (ew the smell, and its expensive shit especially to people who smoke alot). Weed and some other drugs are fine (or a plus)
7. Face/eyes <- the most important physical feature imo
8. perverted <- it would be so boring to be with someone who wants to have sex once a month and in missionary position every time D; I wants my share of kinky stuff
9. intelligent <- I like it when my bf knows more than I do, but not too much. Somehow its just nice that he can teach me new things without making me feel like totally stupid person.
10. broad back <- Not because of muscles, but because of big bones. I like to snuggle agains my bf's back when I sleep.
I was gonna make 10, but I remembered one more: 11. taller than me <- I'm quite tall for a girl and dating someone who's shorter than me would make me feel like some macho woman :<
And I must say that I'm a lucky girl, my boyfriend has all those traits :>
1. honesty/loyalty <- as Mr.Shaggers said, relationships dont work without honesty.
2. good childish/mature ratio <- In some situations maturity is needed (like financial issues), but in general childish is better than mature, because I can be quite childish myself D:
3. personality <- partly the same thing as number 2, but this is really important, because when I like someone, I start liking them because of their personality, not because of their looks.
4. caring <- I dont think I have to explain this.
5. common interests <- I believe this is "likes same things as I do" A bf who plays games with me and talk about them with me is a good bf.
6. Has the same drugs of choise as I do <- that means no alcohol (there's many reasons for that) or tobacco (ew the smell, and its expensive shit especially to people who smoke alot). Weed and some other drugs are fine (or a plus)
7. Face/eyes <- the most important physical feature imo
8. perverted <- it would be so boring to be with someone who wants to have sex once a month and in missionary position every time D; I wants my share of kinky stuff
9. intelligent <- I like it when my bf knows more than I do, but not too much. Somehow its just nice that he can teach me new things without making me feel like totally stupid person.
10. broad back <- Not because of muscles, but because of big bones. I like to snuggle agains my bf's back when I sleep.
I was gonna make 10, but I remembered one more: 11. taller than me <- I'm quite tall for a girl and dating someone who's shorter than me would make me feel like some macho woman :<
And I must say that I'm a lucky girl, my boyfriend has all those traits :>
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Raparperi wrote...
good childish/mature ratio <- In some situations maturity is needed (like financial issues), but in general childish is better than mature, because I can be being mature can mean that you make good decisions, or that you're boring.
being childish can mean that you make bad decisions, or that you're fun.
These words don't necessarily contradict each other. It's certainly possible to be able to make good decisions and be fun, and (unfortunately) it's possible to make bad decisions and be boring :o
Nice choices btw, except for #11 (I'm short, life ain't fair)
OH, and I thought of a new one... "likes Hentai"
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For me I'm looking for these things :
1) Fighter (If I'm not around to protect her, I know she'll be able to kick their ass)
2)Manga Lover (obvious reasons)
3)Kamen Rider/Sentai/Pr lover (Yes, I still watch these. Hop off)
4) Self-esteem high (I can't deal with chicks that are always depressed about one thing or another about their bodies)
5) Semi-Cute (As in 'She isn't ugly, but she isn't all that pretty either~Kinda like a best friend) to close to model.
6) Race: Irrelevant
7)Independent, but only up to so far (If we broke up, she can support herself)
8)Religious views:You believe what you want, I will believe what I want.
9) Chest: Eh, natural B-C cup (Fake ones look weird)
10)Body over all: Not too skinny, but has some meat on her bones. (kinda like girls that are borderline chunky.) About 5'9 if possible.
11) HAS TO BE ON MY MENTAL LEVEL (I don't want to say a word then she goes 'Is that some breed of dog?)
12)Sex status: Not a virgin (It's a moral issue. I know that all ~well most~ women think sex is a special thing, and your first time should be with the person you trust the most.....I just really don't see myself as that type of guy)
13)Shaves (And I don't mean 'down there'; it's not sexy if she has more of a mustache than me, or has my afro under her arms.)
14)Age:1-2 years younger or older (At least till I hit college)
15)Pervert. (Makes life easier)
16)Has fashion sense, but not like what most girls wear nowadays (Covers her skin pretty well. And FYI, It's not appealing when you have your ass-crack showing.)
17) Good with money (knows how to save and spend.)
18)Kinky
19) Want's kids later down the road.
20)Neck length to shoulder length hair (It's NOT cute to have a brush cut. The only time it's acceptable for me (and I mean this in the most serious of ways) is if they are a cancer patient/survivor. They have a reason for their hair to be so short.)
And that's all for me. Kinda long, but it's what I'm looking for. Now, let's hear from the other guys/bis/lesbians. What's your idea of a dream woman?
1) Fighter (If I'm not around to protect her, I know she'll be able to kick their ass)
2)Manga Lover (obvious reasons)
3)Kamen Rider/Sentai/Pr lover (Yes, I still watch these. Hop off)
4) Self-esteem high (I can't deal with chicks that are always depressed about one thing or another about their bodies)
5) Semi-Cute (As in 'She isn't ugly, but she isn't all that pretty either~Kinda like a best friend) to close to model.
6) Race: Irrelevant
7)Independent, but only up to so far (If we broke up, she can support herself)
8)Religious views:You believe what you want, I will believe what I want.
9) Chest: Eh, natural B-C cup (Fake ones look weird)
10)Body over all: Not too skinny, but has some meat on her bones. (kinda like girls that are borderline chunky.) About 5'9 if possible.
11) HAS TO BE ON MY MENTAL LEVEL (I don't want to say a word then she goes 'Is that some breed of dog?)
12)Sex status: Not a virgin (It's a moral issue. I know that all ~well most~ women think sex is a special thing, and your first time should be with the person you trust the most.....I just really don't see myself as that type of guy)
13)Shaves (And I don't mean 'down there'; it's not sexy if she has more of a mustache than me, or has my afro under her arms.)
14)Age:1-2 years younger or older (At least till I hit college)
15)Pervert. (Makes life easier)
16)Has fashion sense, but not like what most girls wear nowadays (Covers her skin pretty well. And FYI, It's not appealing when you have your ass-crack showing.)
17) Good with money (knows how to save and spend.)
18)Kinky
19) Want's kids later down the road.
20)Neck length to shoulder length hair (It's NOT cute to have a brush cut. The only time it's acceptable for me (and I mean this in the most serious of ways) is if they are a cancer patient/survivor. They have a reason for their hair to be so short.)
And that's all for me. Kinda long, but it's what I'm looking for. Now, let's hear from the other guys/bis/lesbians. What's your idea of a dream woman?
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I want her to be playful, funny and nerdy. Common interests is a plus, of course.
HungLikeAZombie, that picture was pretty damn digusting. :|
HungLikeAZombie, that picture was pretty damn digusting. :|
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Drifter995 wrote...
amaiX3 wrote...
I'm a Girl BTW. I would be attracted to the:1.)loyal
2.)humorous
3.)face (depends )
4.)personality (the mysterious bad boy vibe but nice and caring maybe.)
5.)slim but a little muscular/athletic
6.)common interests
9.)intelligent (not to smart just knowledgeable enough to have a random convo? idk if that made sense... )
10.)fun (not serious all the time? We don't wanna be bored we would want some excitement right?)
11.)mature (but a little kidish at times bringing the fun back ^)
12.)A little perverted (hehe...)
Out of those I haven't really met a guy with all those quality? I wish I can find a guy like that but we never know who we end up liking. When it comes down to it, it's just about the *spark/ connection that attracts us with the other.
Sounds like me :D I try my best to give out a laugh ^^
And at times I'm mature... at times ;D
But sadly, I'm taken. haw haw, got you all excited :P
I'm taken too~ hahaha =) my bf got all those except 12...
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Drifter995
Neko//Night
amaiX3 wrote...
Drifter995 wrote...
amaiX3 wrote...
I'm a Girl BTW. I would be attracted to the:1.)loyal
2.)humorous
3.)face (depends )
4.)personality (the mysterious bad boy vibe but nice and caring maybe.)
5.)slim but a little muscular/athletic
6.)common interests
9.)intelligent (not to smart just knowledgeable enough to have a random convo? idk if that made sense... )
10.)fun (not serious all the time? We don't wanna be bored we would want some excitement right?)
11.)mature (but a little kidish at times bringing the fun back ^)
12.)A little perverted (hehe...)
Out of those I haven't really met a guy with all those quality? I wish I can find a guy like that but we never know who we end up liking. When it comes down to it, it's just about the *spark/ connection that attracts us with the other.
Sounds like me :D I try my best to give out a laugh ^^
And at times I'm mature... at times ;D
But sadly, I'm taken. haw haw, got you all excited :P
I'm taken too~ hahaha =) my bf got all those except 12...
Yeah, same with mine :/ she's a little perverted.. but not much :(
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honestly i require only a few traits. since i keep myself in shape i would like her to do so as well(only fair ^^), the ability to laugh at her own mistakes, honesty, and a desire/drive to make the relationship happen and be great! everything alse falls on the wayside for me. if i met a girl that was total opposite of me or had a habit i couldnt stand or however that would work out i would consider myself lucky, because in the long run she would keep me entertained and happy
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1. loyalty/trust/reliability
2. personality (funny, caring, considerate, mature, perverted/kinky, etc)
3. accepting/open-minded (liberal)
4. intelligent
5. looks/physical attraction (i like stereotypical nerdy looking guys)
6. sex drive is either close or on-par with mine
7. NOT RELIGIOUS
8. common interests (anime/manga, games, travel, art, etc)
9. wants to settle down someday (marriage, kids)
2. personality (funny, caring, considerate, mature, perverted/kinky, etc)
3. accepting/open-minded (liberal)
4. intelligent
5. looks/physical attraction (i like stereotypical nerdy looking guys)
6. sex drive is either close or on-par with mine
7. NOT RELIGIOUS
8. common interests (anime/manga, games, travel, art, etc)
9. wants to settle down someday (marriage, kids)
