What do...?

So yesterday everything started as normal, I woke up, lazed out of bed, drank some coffee, and went to work. And the day went on as normal, I got back from work and saw my grandma outside talking to a neighbor, and I said my greetings to both of them, I kept walking a bit, and my grandma told me, that one of my uncle's friends was inside watching TV, I was like "ok?" So I walked into the house, and saw my brother sitting on this couch thing we have that folds over and looks like a little tiny bed, I dont fucking know what its called, and nearby on a chair I saw this cute freckled pale girl, that was my uncle's friend. I went on as normal, and just walked into my room and started playing Gears of War 2, then my uncle who had been away until a few minutes after I had gotten home, called me and said if I could put some songs on his ipod and asked if I could look up a song on youtube for his friend, and I obliged, and the girl walked into my room slowly, I didnt even really look at her, and asked my uncle, what song he wanted me to look up, and he told me and I did, and while the song was still playing I continued playing Gears 2 on my TV across from my laptop. While my uncle and the girl continued watching the video. When it finished I was still playing, and I asked without taking my eyes off the TV, "Was that all?" And my uncle replied "Yeah I'll bring you my ipod later, its because Britney really likes this song." The girl's name was Britney. And she replied how he liked it too, and I said they both left my room laughing and playing.

Later on I got bored, and decided to go downstairs, my brother was not around, and instead I sat where he was sitting, when I first got home. The TV was off so I turned it on and checked what was on and stopped on America's Funniest Home Videos.

A few minutes passed, and my uncle and Britney walked in my uncle asked if I wanted some pizza and I said I didnt have any money at the moment, and he said it would be his treat, so I accepted, he sent my brother out to go pick up the pizza, on his skateboard, and so it was just me my uncle Britney and my grandma in the house watching TV, I failed to notice before, but my uncle seemed to have been drinking, but thats how he usually was sometimes. He told me to come with him to the liquor store and so I did, he bought beer and some Four Loko (a terrible fucking drink that I will never ever drink again) and we headed home, when we got there, Britney was on her cell phone, and my uncle was drinking, he offered me beer and I declined, so he offered me a bottle of Four Loko and since Ive never had it before, I took it to see if it was good I knew it had a bit of alcohol in it, but damn, before I knew it I had drank quite a few cans of that shit, and was feeling buzzed, so I went outside and sat on the porch, eating the pizza my brother had already brought back. I also didnt notice that Britney was also drinking alcohol.

So my uncle joined me on the porch and we sat there while he drank and we talked, he offered me beer again and I took it that time and so we drank together outside. Britney joined us after a while, her skin flushed, and her any my uncle began to play around, I didnt really pay them much attention, my uncle got up after a while and I assume, went to the bathroom, so it was just me and Britney outside, so she sat next to me and we began to talk a bit, and she got all giggly and whatever and started nudging me so I nudged her back, just normal playing, I really didnt think anything of it, then she said, "I will bite you." and I said "uh huh" and put out my wrist attempting to call her bluff... She fucking bit me hard.(you can barely see it in this pic though... shitty Ipod camera)

My uncle was just walking out when I she had just bit me and I said "GODDAMN!" and pulled her off my arm, my uncle grabbed her pushed her back and told her "Dont fucking be doing shit like that to my nephew" and slapped her fucking hard as hell across her face, I was like "holy shit..." Then he did the typical drunken thing, the whole "Im sorry babe...", "Please forgive me..." etc etc...

And she made him let go of her and started walking away, I assume to her house, and my uncle kept trying to hold her and tell her he was sorry, I was just standing there, awestruck still at how fucking hard he had hit her... After a little struggling, my uncle finally let her go and she started walking away crying, and he yelled "well fuck you then bitch!"

I was just thinking to myself, "god-fucking-damnit" and started chasing after her, I caught up to her and started saying every drunken, half-assed thing I could think of, something about my uncle protecting me and whatnot, and got her to calm down a bit, and she broke down in my arms.

After she calmed down I walked with her to a nearby park and sat down and I started talking to her about anything that I could think of to try and help her relax and stop sobbing... Then she started telling me about her exes... Apparently her first boyfriend beat the hell out of her all the time, and told her if she ever left him he would find her and kill her... After long abusive relationship she finally managed to break up with him, and not see him for a long time... Her second boyfriend was the same, when she refused to have sex he would beat her, so she broke up with him and left him. Then she said she ran into her first boyfriend one day, and he pretty much raped her and forced her to get back together with him. And one time she fought back and he pulled a knife on her. She fought him and got ahold of the knife somehow, and stabbed him, she didnt know where, she didnt know how, but she had his blood all over her so she ran away, and never saw him again. She said she didnt know if he had died or not. And she wasnt afraid to die anymore, but she never wanted to be hit ever again.

Then the damndest thing... She started laughing, and I kinda freaked out a bit, and asked why she was laughing, and she said because she had been beaten all her life and now she found it funny. Her dad beat her her mom beat her and her new stepdad beat her...

So after that we kept talking and I listened to more of the stuff she said she had gone through. I told her to wait for me a minute since I had to go pee, so I went behind a bush and relieve myself, to my dismay, when I got back my uncle had found her... but she was totally calm now and he held her and I kinda looked from afar. My uncle was too drunk to drive and so was the girl so my grandma took their car keys. So we they had to walk I went along with them, since I was the least drunk one... though I was stumbling a bit myself, and we walked all the way to my uncle's house, it was as if nothing had happened before. I was going to walk back to our house but I was too damn tired so I decided to spend the night at my uncle's house. When we finally got there... It turned out when my grandma took their car keys she also took his house key, so my brother had to come all the way to my uncles house on a bike and deliver the key. The first thing I did when I got in the house was have a big cup of coffee... Then took a tepid shower.

My uncle and Britney went to sleep almost instantly... I tried going to sleep, but couldnt, I tried several times, but couldnt get one wink of sleep. So I stayed up all night watching some movies of my uncle's... BTW Children of Men is a great movie...

When I finally checked the time it was almost 8 AM, and I was finally feeling sleepy, so I dozed off, only to be awoken not 2 hours later by a towel to the face by my uncle, he said he was late and had to drive my grandma somewhere today... Britney, got up and looked as if nothing about the previous night had ever happened.

We walked back to my grandma's and we got some things ready... Loaded up a truck with some clothes and things my grandma was going to take somewhere. And Britney was going to go as well.

Before they left I had a moment alone with her. I asked, "Youre not going home?" and she looked around a bit and said "No" I said "Ok".

She was headed in the direction of the truck and I said "Hey Britney," and she turned around and said "Yeah?" and I continued "If you ever dont want to go home again... you know if you want you can come crash here right" and she kinda smiled and said, "Yeah, Ok."

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I highly doubt she will ever come, but if she does, what do I say, or what do I do?

Im not really attracted to her like that or anything, I just kinda said that... But I meant it.

Wow.. I doubt she come back... but if she does... Hit it. Usually i have some witty statement or something funny but relevant.. but im lost for words.

first i was reading this and was like is this a troll story but wow props to you to even say that. harsh story for sure. all i can say is use ur best judgement and treat her with care. it seems she is sensitive

tsundere.

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But really, you just need to talk to her, help her feel like there is somebody in the world who doesn't want to beat her.. unless you do, then y'know..
just be natural, if you feel like tappin' that at the time, slowly get into it, but you'll probably end up with her wanting to go out with you... else, just try to be that friend who they fall on whenever bad stuff happens..

Seriously man, out of all the sad stories I have heard a about girls and their abusive boy friends, this is, BY FAR, one of the saddest...

Anyway, I agree with Drifter...if you are going to try and start a relationship with her, just take it nice and easy; try and show her that there are people out there that aren't ready to beat the shit out of her at a moment's notice. Of course, if you do decide to start a relationship with Britney, you will most likely run into some trust issues with your uncle (since starting a relationship with her means that you would taking her from him) but, if you wanna run that risk, then, by all means, go for it.

I guess what i'm trying to say is that, if you decide to get with Britney or decide to be just friends with her, treat her like a human being and not like a punching bag.

And now to end with some random relationship quote that i found on the internet...

“Some people come into our lives and quickly go. Some stay for awhile and leave footprints on our hearts. And we are never, ever the same.”

Make her feel like your home is a place where she can relax. Be a brother, or best friend, or whatever you want to be like to Britney. Give her a home, a safe place where she can just relax and have fun as a human being. If you happen to fuck up, well you are a liar and she'll deem you as the same human being as her parents, exes, etc. Treat her right. Treat her good.

start with a hello. Since you are not attracted to her, but you do care, you just have to be yourself. it seems that you know the right thing to do. (ofcourse you could have berated your uncle, but that's past) I must say she is one strong woman.

wow °_°''

And I agree with most things other said in their posts

punch your drunkassmotherfuckerbeatingidiot of uncle right in the face or even better in the nuts and say hello from Neruku
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she's probably gonna be a victim for her hole life...be nice to her, but don't wonder if she gets beaten by him more often but still stays with him, I'f seen that too often :(

sounds like an old GF of mine, mate I belived the girl in every abusive story she told me. I tried by best to help her, it wans't enough. She was the type that kept going back for more and I tried to show her how that defied logic!!!
Now I feel some of the things my ex told me were not whole truths and I was just used by her emotional blackmail techniques.

So
1) be nice kindness costs nothing
2) Remember there is bias in all stories, you havn't heard all sides.
3) Be nice no matter what showing her kindness is the best, but do not lef her life affect your sanity like it did mine.

I would never reach out to a girl that is with a friend or family member. Potentially, things can get messed up fast.

if its your uncles's girl maybe you should not be too involved but if you truly love her you know that if you want her you will have to face your uncle

A lot of areas have places and support groups for domestic violence victims, I'd recommend searching your area for them or calling the cops/hospital for the information. I don't think she'll ever come, but if she does you'll want that info handy. Beyond that just try to be friendly and empathetic to her situation and steer her towards getting professional help.

This. It's really difficult to be there for someone who is suffering abuse, because oftentimes they will feel like they have to stay in the relationship, or feel like they deserve the abuse. But you have to really show her that you will be there for her whenever she wants out.

I think I need to put this as clearly as possible, I do not not feel anything for her.

I told her that if she ever needed needed a place to stay she could crash at my place, because I felt bad for her because of the stuff she had told me.

I just wanted to know what I should do in case she DOES ever randomly decide to stay over.

Prevention is the easiest as I mentioned. But chances are, she won't show up. If she does show up on the odd chance, just give her the couch and send her on the way in the morning. Weakness has that magnetism, just don't get pulled in.

AND ME! AND ME! :D
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If she is smart enough to come back I'd start off with just getting her settled, giver her a room or a bed, just something to all her own. Then, if possible, set her up with a job, just give her a good start on escaping this cruel cycle.
You're a good man for caring about this girl Zak.

i find your comments contradictory sir. if, in fact, you felt nothing but pity for her, the answer sould be obvious. the time and effort you put into the OP, referring to her as "cute", and your almost over compensative denial, leads me to believe that you(possibly on a subconsious level) are hoping she will stay over and that something unseemly will happen.

She was indeed attractive, but did you not notice someone mentioned the 'L' word on the comment you quoted? And that, I most certainly do not feel for her. In fact, the word you used was correct, I did in fact feel pity for her, and truth be told I meant what I said by not feeling anything for her. As for that something unseemly you mentioned, it may make me sound like a scumbag, but I just kinda let things happen.