What I'm expecting to do on a date this weekend, too much?

If she's going to be taken back or disconcerted, why do you think you should do it? The idea is to enjoy the date. I'd suggest just being affectionate and touchy, if she responds well then kiss.

This But make sure you aren't too forcefull I how touchy you get. If in your opinion the last date was fairly lackluster then she may become a little more anxious when you suddenly start.

Definitely agree.. maybe not make the plan of the date to make out with her half way through, try to be a little more natural instead of planned, sometimes planned doesn't work out so much because she may not go for it the way you planned on her going for it.

Good luck :3.

It doesn't really bode well. I mean, if it was awkward before, she's likely not to want to kiss. I'd just be casual and read the mood. If she's leaning in towards you, or making voluntary, random physical contact, go for it. Girls also tend to laugh and speak in a higher register when they're interested.

I'd say no, If I'm at a movie, I want to watch a movie. Also if she hasn't given you any signs that kissing her is ok, then jesus why would you? Ever hear of personal space? Shit just because a girl is on a date with you doesn't mean you get to kiss or touch her any time you want. Maybe ask her if it's ok first? I know what a novel concept.

Why would you go for a way with only two possible reactions? You'll either get punched in the face or getting kissed again...

No.

It's really anticlimactic when you don't have a giant wall of abrasive, angry text to follow your responses.

Nevertheless, I feel this guy is inexperienced enough to need the bit of wisdom.

You must not get around or out much.

I think you are being too forward, if the last date was awkward and boring then you will just make it even more so by throwing a kiss on her.

My tip is to leave her alone. Go watch the movie (PS if someone tried to kiss or makeout with me while I was watching a Marvel film I would beat their head in), that will give you time to be comfortable and maybe share some popcorn. Afterward go to Ihop or whatever you have there and eat. Make sure the date is easy going and not forced. If at the end of the night the date is sill lame and uneventful and you are both being awkward then just forget about the kiss. However, if the date does end up better and more comfortable then MAKE SURE she has the signs of wanting to be kissed.

Don't end up being that guy who just tosses on kisses during the first few dates.

Clearly the standards of your community have made you dim to the feelings of a girl. I went on a date once, and we didn't kiss, and things still went well, a kiss doesn't measure if you're a good person to go out with or not, it just shows that you're fast paced. Also making out is a bad idea, like it's been stated before, I'd also punch someone in the face for trying to make out during a Marvel movie.

As a girl, I think that your approach is a little too forward. If you did this on a date after the first being awkward, I would not want to go on another date with you.
Try setting the mood to calm and relaxing, fun, ya know before trying to do anything. Trying to go from awkward to romantic asap is a dumb idea.
I'm sorry if I come off as rude, but automatically assuming that trying to go in for anything on the second date is okai, is probably the worst approach ever.

Good luck anywho.

Agreed. Your community must be low if not kissing on the first dates is a prude. If you had no connection before why do you think you would have any now? Since it seems like you are not listening to what we are saying about you being too forward than at least listen to us when we say don't kiss her at the start of the date. Wait to pull those moves after the movie, and activities when you see she is interested (if she is). Because if she doesn't want that kiss, then you have blown the whole date before it even started.

Luck.

Grab her by the ass and kiss her to show who the man is in the relationship. Then fight anyone who's eyes linger on her for more than 5 seconds. Make sure to let her pay for the movie too because a date with you is a privilege.


I say take your communities advice.


or you know, set the mood by being playful and flirty after the movie and then go for the kissing and the making out.


I don't really care.

Long as there was, at the very least, light contact you know that you're both still interested in pursuing it further.

Well sounds like it went quite well without having to kiss or make out with her.
Good job, I'm glad you didn't decide to just go in for it. Now you can tell that she likes you and has an interest. Maybe a light kiss on the cheek or something next time may be good and then from her response you figure out the rest.

Glad it went well though ^^

IMHO if you guys go on another date, you should definitely kiss her. If you have 3 dates and there's not even a kiss? She obviously likes you enough to go on 3 dates (assuming another), hold hands and rest her head on you, so you need to show her you can be assertive too. If you go too slow she might lose interest.