What is sexy to you?

Hell if I know. My tastes vary depending on the person. A nice smile is always a big plus thought.

Most guys do like long hair (myself included) but I know some chicks who can totally rock short hair. Hell- even bald.

Again, different things for different people. There's no be all/end all.

Bingo however intelligence can also just be common sense for me, If a woman isn't exactly smart but is still willing to learn or take interest in something that's still something I do like :)

But I would presume women would also want similar aspects from a guy as well, maturity, kindness, understanding of the others feelings, smart or has common sense who doesn't go sleeping with countless girls when ever they feel like it, right?

[font=Verdana][color=green]One word ruins that; harem.

Hmmmm.....

To me, sexyness is a eagerness subtly displayed in public, combined with eagerness at home. That's the physical side of it. On the mental side, I find intelligence, humour, and understanding sexy. If I'm asked bland mindless nonsense like what I'm feeling right now, it turns me off. If I can argue with you over any given subject on an educated level, then you're attractive to me.

Kind and caring girls, with a good sense of humour are sexy to me. I dont have preferences on the appearence, yet the character and way of acting is what appeals to me the most.

Today, at my work, a really classy looking girl with big eyes came up to the counter with her items to purchase. She spotted our display of Cadbury eggs, got really excited and grabbed one. While saying "These are positively sinful!"
That was pretty sexy.

Fixed it for ya.


In all seriousness I've got a bit of a cuckoldry fetish. Not super extreme, but I think I'd like to watch my woman getting fucked by another guy once in awhile, and it'd be awesome if she enjoyed the vice-versa. As long as the kids are both ours...

I'm not sure that I find intelligence or maturity sexy. I definitely find them highly desirable in a life partner/mate, but sexy is...well, sexy, aspects of that person that arouse your loins, not ache your heart.

I will say though, watching Linda Hamilton field-strip a AR-15 in T2 made me feel warm and gooey on the inside. A confident woman wielding a firearm, that I find sexy!

I rank all girls I meet on a scale of 0 to 1 (except my mum who gave birth to me so is by definition too godly to be ranked).

0 = guys and chicks with dicks or guys (as long as you are a girl you will be >0)

1 = Nicole Kidman (at her hottest stage in life)

A girl can be assigned any real number on this interval which is convenient because I will never run out of numbers (plus no 2 girls are equal anyway).

A general principle I run by is that sexy women have imperfections may it be physical or personality etc. I also tend to be attracted to girls with problems (e.g. depression, abuse, chronic illness).

Initially I ranked everyone based on feelings I get when I see them and talk to them. The results of years of study has concluded I think the following are sexy:



At last the following gets a 0.99999999999999 ...... 9999..... 999.... etc. (which converges to 1 anyway but represented as such because she is not real).

^this as well as:

glasses [idk just find myself more attracted to girl with glasses]
a interest in hentai
Laid back but when things get near a pitch, ready to get things done.
Able to talk about anything. major plus, I like communicating lol

From a purely physical standpoint, what does it for me is curves. Breasts, hips/butt, and legs are the focal points, and it's less about them all three being as massive as possible, and more about them all three working together to make an attractive figure. Other than that, a nice face is also an attractive attribute.

As far as attire goes, I'm a big proponent of the "Better to conceal than reveal" school of thought. Skimpy clothing for the sake of skimpy clothing isn't always the way to go. For me, it's more about playing to preferences than showing a lot of skin.

Personality-wise, not being a bitch, and not being dumb are both big pluses.

I tend to enjoy more subtly, allure, and elegance than bluntness and sluttyness.

Being around a decade older than the average internet viewer I may be different, but I think this is something that is defined from person to person.

Personally, most sexiness in the media today seems very slutty to me, but even that can be attractive depending on my mood.

Girls who are shorter than me and also brunettes. Not to sound like a dick but no fat chicks. I don't like the big girls.

Manliness. I will forever be attracted to men who are attracted to power tools. You hammer that shit, you sexy thing.

Nerdiness. That "talk nerdy to me" t-shirt has been my motto since I first even started liking guys. Idk what it is, but it just gives me an extreme girly boner when guys get all computer, math, or chemical geeky or weaboo out over video games. I may not join in, but I'm probably shlicking somewhere else.

"Cool" type. That smart guy in anime, usually in glasses that is so laid back and phased by nothing, but underneath you know he still cares, has feelings, gets jealous and etc. He just doesn't explode with it. Me like.

Duplicity of control. I enjoy a power struggle, but will ultimately revert to being my sub self. I like when a guy can let me have a bit control, but will go ahead and wear the pants in the end cause all I really want is to be your sexy slave kitten meow ❤

Tattoos. Not crazy all over ones, but I love like..one on the neck...or on the back...or just one on the arm. Sexy sexy ❤

Scene girls. Ok, lol, for some reason I'm obsessed w/ scene kids b/c I think I would be one if I was still a teen. And obviously some of them look like trashbags, but sometimes I'll see a scene girl and think "I would totally have been lesbian for her." Don't ask. I think it's the hair.

Accents. Eargasm. Nuff' said.

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Generally, I prefer women with glasses, Nice hips/ass/tits, Intelligent (Of course) Street Smarts, ,culinary skills, fair, white skin and quite knowledgeable about books at politics. Girls who have knowledge about manly stuff (Such as Shooting, Martial Arts..etc.) acts as a bonus.


Speaking about personalities and such, I love independent and open-minded women who can take care of herself, women with a very strong sense of justice and a sweet and thoughtful one.

Fashion-wise, I don't like women who wears very revealing clothes and such.

In the end I just want somebody who cares - and most girls I've been with have been extremely self-centred. I like women who are dignified, stupidity is a turn off. For me women need to carry themselves with pride the same way I do, and they need to maintain a certain level of self respect, hence if they dress suggestively or speak inappropriately they lower themselves in my eyes - by this I don't mean the occasional joke or short skirt - I mean I'm trying to avoid complete utter sluts who flirt for a living. I always treat women with respect and sometimes I expect some respect in return for instance not talking behind my back - or discussing my shortcomings with her friends as if I'm some sort of animal in her personal zoo.

Moving on to fetishes -
Glasses - Love em - they're not essential though

Hands - Essential - her hands have to be feminine she has to have nice nails - with a french manicure if possible =D

Dominatrix (in a CHEEKY sense not actual bitches!)- I like tsunderes, especially if they order me around a bit (as long as they know when to stop and realize that I'm a human being too and I will put my foot down) - being a bitch is good - if its just playful not serious.

Non-Consumerist - I hate consumerism (and capitalism as it happens), and so whenever I hear about girls wasting money on designer labels and the like I am completely turned off, People in the world are starving and all you can think about is Luis Vuitton and X's latest hairdo? - Get lost

Politically Aware - You don't know whats going on in the world? - you're obviously too self centred to care.

Complexion - I don't care about skin colour - I think any race / any skin colour can be sexy it just depends on the person in question - but usually I go for white/brown skin

Voice/ manner of speech - I won't date cockneys, I'm sorry there's just something about bad accents, bad grammar and ineloquence that irritates me.

Family oriented - If you don't give a shit about your own family - it only goes to show that you won't give a shit about family in the future.

Chibi - I'm 6"4 and to be honest I like shorter girls better, don't know why, they're usually more curvy - I also don't go for pencil thin girls either, I don't want to be poked by their ribs -- I think women worry too much about their weight.

Empathy - I need someone who can understand me on every possible level, somebody who's both willing and able to do so.

Ah well that was a long list - and I know I'm never going to find someone who ticks every box

I like this guy.

A girl like Haruhi Fujioka is fine with me.