What size girl/boy do you prefer?
What size suits your fancy?
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Average - just enough to grab onto!
A little soft around the edges :)
Pleasantly plump/chubby~
Curvalicious!
Muscular/fit physique!
All of those would fit body types to which I am particularly attracted. I voted for muscular, since I (incorrectly) expected it to be the least popular of my preferences.
I tend to think people I like as attractive no matter how they look, lol.
This. When I get a crush on someone, its usually based on the personality and when I get a crush on someone, they start looking more attractive to me too. For example my high school crushes, I had known all of them for some time before I started liking them, and before that I didnt drool over them because of their looks or anything.
[size=10](I know, high school crushes are lol, but I really havent had any crushes since then, except for my bf, but since we met under different circumstances, I cant use it as an example that well)[/h]
I agree. Imo, one can never completely dissociate another's appearance from one's opinion of the person.
While I don't have the data to support this, I firmly believe that if you compared "person's opinion of their lover's appearance" with "anyone's opinion of that same person's appearance", that you would find the former to be larger on average. And in the instances where a person found their lover to be less attractive than the general public did, I think said person would most likely be a "grass is greener on the other side" kind of person.
A little soft around the edges :)
Pleasantly plump/chubby~
Curvalicious!
Muscular/fit physique!
All of those would fit body types to which I am particularly attracted. I voted for muscular, since I (incorrectly) expected it to be the least popular of my preferences.
Raparperi wrote...
Kavi wrote...
No particular preference here. Weight only becomes a problem if s/he is too obsessed about it or it somehow limits everyday life.I tend to think people I like as attractive no matter how they look, lol.
This. When I get a crush on someone, its usually based on the personality and when I get a crush on someone, they start looking more attractive to me too. For example my high school crushes, I had known all of them for some time before I started liking them, and before that I didnt drool over them because of their looks or anything.
[size=10](I know, high school crushes are lol, but I really havent had any crushes since then, except for my bf, but since we met under different circumstances, I cant use it as an example that well)[/h]
I agree. Imo, one can never completely dissociate another's appearance from one's opinion of the person.
While I don't have the data to support this, I firmly believe that if you compared "person's opinion of their lover's appearance" with "anyone's opinion of that same person's appearance", that you would find the former to be larger on average. And in the instances where a person found their lover to be less attractive than the general public did, I think said person would most likely be a "grass is greener on the other side" kind of person.
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When I started dating 80% of the guys I was with were overweight. And now I have someone who is not totally fit but slim with some
Muscle. I like what I've got and I'm sticking with it :)
Muscle. I like what I've got and I'm sticking with it :)
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My boyfriend is 6'2 and has a kegger, but he's got a crap ton of muscle, especially in his legs. He's got grasshopper legs. o////o
There's a saying here : "Once you go chubby, you wanna make him your hubby."
and for me, it's true. >///<
Spoiler:
There's a saying here : "Once you go chubby, you wanna make him your hubby."
and for me, it's true. >///<
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Lughost
the Lugoat
Well, based on current and past experience, it doesn't really matter to me. You know, so lang as I'm not snapping them with a hug or disappearing inside them in a non-sexual sense.
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As a female, I like my guy with confidence.
Of course, not too unhealthy.
I prefer that they are taller than me (I'm 5'5").
And those who has hugeeee muscle, is a big nono for me.
Of course, not too unhealthy.
I prefer that they are taller than me (I'm 5'5").
And those who has hugeeee muscle, is a big nono for me.
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My-only-Jun wrote...
As a female, I like my guy with confidence. Of course, not too unhealthy.
I prefer that they are taller than me (I'm 5'5").
And those who has hugeeee muscle, is a big nono for me.
Guys with 6 packs make me laugh.
Because they're always like 'hey, but I have a 6 pack!'
So if I'm going to date someone with visible muscle, it better be in the extremities. That's where it counts, anyways.
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My-only-Jun wrote...
Or they look into a mirror more often than you...
Well yeah.. there's that.
And I just don't find it very attractive. It's too obvious. Too.. in my face. Makes me feel like I'm looking at merchandise. Expensive merchandise.
Sort of like "Oh, wow, those ab muscles must be imported straight from Australia! Oh well, much too rich for my blood... Now here we have a durable, stable version over here in the corner! with plenty of rolling-around-room.."
[size=9]If you don't get what I'm saying.. don't feel bad, my metaphors don't make sense to anyone else, either.[/h]
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[size=12]for girls i've dated, they were usually taller than me, but thinner. and generally flat-chested. o//u//o;; since i'm curvier, i dunno, it just seemed kind of nice.
i like my fluffy boyfriend, he's so nice to cuddle with! e//w//e a nice, soft pillow who makes me feel secure in his arms...
but like it's been said, nothing beats personality! when i like someone, they become more and more good looking to me. <3
i like my fluffy boyfriend, he's so nice to cuddle with! e//w//e a nice, soft pillow who makes me feel secure in his arms...
but like it's been said, nothing beats personality! when i like someone, they become more and more good looking to me. <3
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Personality aside, it would be very nice if they were as physically capable as me. I'm not that strong or healthy, but if you can't even run, then its a problem. eg, my sister is 26 and can't even lift a pot of water let alone a baby. Beautiful girl though.
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Sprite wrote...
Personality aside, it would be very nice if they were as physically capable as me. I'm not that strong or healthy, but if you can't even run, then its a problem. eg, my sister is 26 and can't even lift a pot of water let alone a baby. Beautiful girl though.Does she have some sort of muscle disorder? I can't imagine an adult not being able to lift a baby otherwise.
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ryuuhagoku wrote...
Sprite wrote...
Personality aside, it would be very nice if they were as physically capable as me. I'm not that strong or healthy, but if you can't even run, then its a problem. eg, my sister is 26 and can't even lift a pot of water let alone a baby. Beautiful girl though.Does she have some sort of muscle disorder? I can't imagine an adult not being able to lift a baby otherwise.
My sister never EVER exercises. It might be an exaggeration though. Still she refuses to do any lifting of any sort and carrying a gallon of milk is hard for her.