What's your biggest flaw when it comes to-

im really shy around new people and extreme shy with girls idk y lol

Huh. Wow, I've never really evaluated myself on this.

I'd probably have to say... agreeing. I like to please people.
Sometimes so it appears I'm indecisive: for example, with my ex we'd always both be too indecisive to pick somewhere to eat, movie to see, etc.

Not toooo bad of a flaw, but still annoying!

Wait this would mean that a Fakku user has a GF/BF

does not compute O.o

idk i never had a gf

I let them have their way too much => They get bored => They leave.
My communication about unhappiness isn't stellar => Personal frustration builds up => Reaches a boiling point, I explode over something menial.

I'm working on it ._.

I'm extremely NOT jealous. To the point that makes it look like i don't care, when in fact i do.

Also, i sometimes put my career ahead of my relationships. That tends to bring some problems...

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I'm incredibly tsun without a hint of dere...
Plus, I'm very indecisive in most things, especially on important stuff.

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maybe because i'm being too quiet

I'm somewhat clueless. I only recently gained the confidence to put on the ~*charm*~ and flirt with people. I feel like perhaps my "techniques" are strange or too forward, but I'm too new to the whole thing to know better.

Oh, I'm also impatient. I can't stand the whole "pretending I don't like you/hard-to-get/distant" sort of thing, and I want action NOW NOW NOW.

But my biggest flaw? I care about myself far more than I care about my partner. I really and truly wish I could be selfless, but I just can't. I've had two serious relationships and in both I was either a) too self-absorbed to notice when something was wrong with him or b) cared too much about my own wants and needs to spend enough time fixing his.

1.I couldn't catch a hint if someone put in a bag and threw it at my face
2.My friend says I'm shallow as hell (probably true)
3.I keep to myself most of the time, I try not to be unapproachable however

And can't even make time for a relationship anyways....which is probably why I never had one.

....I suck

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me

Me I'm a stand-offish person. I have fear of being hurt and shy to boot. I try to alittle at a time to change that but it fails everytime. But even with this and many other faults my wife still love and accept me as her husband.

I am way too quiet when I'm around new people and even worse with women. When someone talks to me I tend to give short responces that almost always end in awkward silences. and what mekes it worse is that I can always think of a way to continue a conversation or start a conversation, but for some dumb reason I lose my voice... lame huh?

I'm generally outgoing and likable, but my problem is that I keep secrets. A secretive nice guy if you will. I also like too many girls to choose between them, so I want to avoid baggage.