Who enjoys Anal sex more?

I've encountered a conundrum in my relationship over the past few years. I cannot tell; whether or not my girlfriend is turn on by anal penetration. And it got me thinking, who enjoys it more? Guys or girls? And that applies to both homo and heterosexual couples.

In all honesty, she's scared of my penis exploring her anus. Which makes sense, because my dick is as thick as a log (lol). Everytime I try to go in, it proves too rough for her, even when I apply it slowly. She doesn't cry, yet its not as pleasurable as just fingering while I pound the other hole. (I don't mean to brag).

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Truth be told, she gets off from fingering herself or from me fingering her half the time we have sex. Is that just for certain days I still don't know. But I know for certain that she's interested in the notion of anal sex.






And a lot of the time she hints at me that she wants to massage my anal ring because of the male g-spot. I haven't tried it yet, but I know she's interested in trying. Make no mistake I'm not at all interested. However if she wants to try, what have I got to loose. I've been dating her for four years. Tickling my backdoor isn't going to ruin the relationship anymore than it already is. And things are great between us. I just hope to never be the one being poked, I don't much think I'll like it.



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*sigh* But one can hope

Might I recommend reading the rules before you post? You broke at least one of them.

Curious about which one... I can't think of any that comes to mind...

That one. Unless the amount doesn't qualify as "large" in which case my apologies.

I suppose it may be too much for a non-Nosebleed thread, but at least it's nothing thread-breaking like some shit in IB.

I think this thread doesn't really belong here. For one, it has too many pictures for my taste. It seems like you're more interested in showing off then really getting advice from us. Come back when you're serious.

As someone who gets creeped out by the concept of anal, this thread made my arse automatically clench in response.

Sorry. Just trying to use visual aids to help specify on the topic. And since I still don't know much about Fakku.net. Where would you say is a better place for the topic? It's not random BS, it's a concept of a working relationship, and spicing up the bedroom.

If you mean large in the lengthily sense, yes it is. but she doesn't have a problem with length its width.

Sorry to have creeped you out. I don't want any mixed-messages in my post. Just to see what others think about the concept of anal sex and penetration. If it's not your thing, then this probably isn't your topic.

Don't triple post, use the edit function.

Pretty sure it's fine if it's on topic. That's what I've come to learn.

On topic: I haven't had any sexual experiences yet.

The enjoyment of anal sex comes down to a couple of things, mainly preparation, relaxation and lubrication.

You can't just go shoving your dick in someones ass, it just doesn't work that way. You will tear membranes and cause injury. Start slow with a couple fingers, then move to small toys and keep working your way up in stages. The asshole is not very stretchy or really made for penetration like the vagina. This is also where relaxation comes in, there are two sphincters in the anus, the outer one, is the one you can control, while the inner one is a bit more difficult, and if the receiving party is nervous, it will clench up. Also you can never, ever, ever have too much lube for anal. If you think you have enough, add more, trust me.

As for who enjoys it more?
Id say guys, after all you have a prostate, all we ladies have is more asshole XD


Remember basic safety! Nothing goes Ass --> vagina. Nothing! You will cause some really horrible infections, and always wear a condom during anal, it protects you from infection as well.

hrmm i guess ill have 3 point of views on this one ill start with my own

1. first leme just say im in a relationship with my wife and her girl friend so thats the 3

2. ok so me personally i luv to give it to my wife's girl and i have always luvd the ass and she orgasms harder from anal than she does from vaginal how ever on the flip side she also luvs getting DP'ed from me n the wife with a toy at the same time so it meens she is up for it

3. my wife on the other hand cant do anal she just finds it to be soo painful and cant even do more than her pinky btw she is a short stack. she does want to and trys all the time but just cant get past the pain

4. as for me taking it im not into anal play but my girl has tryd to "milk" me b4 i didnt work so im assuming its just not my thing

so all in all i would have to say it just depends on the person ya know to each there own

Well i don't mind the concept of anal at personally.

I have given anal before and while they seemed to enjoy it I wasn't getting much of anything.
As far as recieving it, no one has went there before. I have used my fingers to tease the area before and only recently have i used an object (after extensve cleaning beforehand) and i still wasn't getting as much as i was hoping. I believe (at least for me) that anal might have to he more of a partner thing, unless you have a toy made for the occasion... which now that I think about it would be pretty nice.