Who has a rape fetish, can't be raped?

I thought about this a lot of times, but it's just so paradoxal.
The question: If someone has a rape fetish, can they ever be raped?
Because they like to be raped. But isn't the definition of rape, that you are fucked involuntarily and therefor don't like it?

And if they can't ever actually be raped, what is the fetish for? To just be dominated? But then it ain't a real rape fetish anymore, but just a simpel domination fetish. In which case they can be raped?!

Rape is wrong which makes it perfect for pink haired girls.

What if Person 1 forces Person 2 to be the Seme[Giver] and Person 1 who forces #2 is the Uke [Receiver]? Then it can be rape.

But this thread implies that, in your hypothetical situation, Person 1 actually gave 'consent' to Person 2 to rape Person 1, whether forced or not. Henceforth, the 'consent' just nullified any part of the intercourse that can be considered 'rape'.

Despite if you like it or not, I thought rape was more just forcing yourself on someone without their permission.

Please tell me your kidding.

A rape fetish involves consent with those who participate, rape doesn't. Rape fetish is pretend, I don't know how you're confusing it with real rape.

No I wasn't kidding and yes I think I was confusing it.

But I'm still confused. So the actual fetish is about pretending to be raped?
But that's the whole paradox. Because if you pretend to be raped, you ain't raped.
So is the fetish about, just being dominated and acting as if you don't like it, when in fact you do like it?
And there isn't an actual fetish for being raped, since rape states you don't like or want it..?
So the thing we call a rape fetish isn't an actual rape fetish?

Okay.. now I'm even more confused x.x

Give the dude some rape doujins

In a rape fetish the person isn't being raped, they're just being dominated. So what's actually happening is the girl is just being roughly dominated with some minor role playing.

What you're saying is impossible. You know that right? You're saying someone can consent to being raped. That can't happen. Rape is non-consensual.

In a rape fantasy everyone involved consents to the act, but in the act one of them pretends to not want it.

Oh okay, that makes a lot of sense.. Thanks.
Yeah because what I thought of a rape fetish [which is indeed impossible] I didn't get it..

Then I still find the term for rape fetish kind off inappropriate.

You can always not want it.

Imagine having something important to do, or you're trying to do housework and then just SURPRISE RAPING. Its not fun :<

Theres a time and a place, sometimes people are just trying to get home from the bar and don't want it, even if they are into rape. Lol

having a rape fetish =/= desire to be raped

There are people who have a rape fetish AND want to be raped, but that is not always true.

I love watching rape videos, reading rape hentai, etc., but does that mean I want to be raped in real life? No.

I've thought about it, but that's just fantasy. Having someone force themselves on me would not be a fun experience.

But wouldn't you feel a "bit" pleasure from excitment along with that shock/horror (or when remembering it)?

I've wondered about whether I would enjoy being raped or not many, many times. Sometimes I was convinced I would get more pleasure than pain from it, but I realized that was stupid. Fantasy is completely different than reality. When I think about being raped, I enjoy it. The few times anyone has tried to force anything sexual (kissing, fingering, oral, etc.) on me, I've gotten completely scared, not pleasured.

Overall, I believe I wouldn't enjoy it, but I won't ever really know until it happens to me.

Depends on the subject... yaoi rape im in.