Why did I do that?
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Stuff that you did in a relationship that made you wonder (presently) why did I do that?
I remember I had to go on a one month no fap challenge in exchange for sex (this was our first time). Why do women like doing this kind of stuff? Anyways, worse month of my life, blueballed constantly with no cure ): Hot shower helped but not much.
Throw in another time where I had to go on a double date with my ex's bestie and her boyfriend. man that was some boring shit as I didn't like her bestie's boyfriend and it was awkward the whole date for me.
Anyways, so fakku, what are your stories?
I remember I had to go on a one month no fap challenge in exchange for sex (this was our first time). Why do women like doing this kind of stuff? Anyways, worse month of my life, blueballed constantly with no cure ): Hot shower helped but not much.
Throw in another time where I had to go on a double date with my ex's bestie and her boyfriend. man that was some boring shit as I didn't like her bestie's boyfriend and it was awkward the whole date for me.
Anyways, so fakku, what are your stories?
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Women like doing stuff like that because they obviously are cruel beings by nature. D:
Anyhow, I don't have many stories but I guess this will have to suffice tonight.
The way I(more or less) got together with my latest GF (now ex) has made me wonder why, and how many times.
I was dating this wonderful girl, we had been going out for about a month but then decided to take a break from it. The relationship up to that point had not really been serious, more a month of rebound sex for both of us as both had recently been dumped.
So me and my GF barely talked for a few weeks and at that time there was a small convention going on and a friend that I hadn't even spoken to for about a year suddenly called me and wanted to go to it, so I went with her. At the convention I then run into my current GF, and we start talking about getting back together and actually give the relationship a serious chance.
Somehow I ended up at my friends place that night, we watched a few movies and hooked up, and officially got together a few days later.
I still wonder why I gave up my relationship with the other girl, and how shit would have turned out if I hadn't.
inb4 tl;dr
Anyhow, I don't have many stories but I guess this will have to suffice tonight.
The way I(more or less) got together with my latest GF (now ex) has made me wonder why, and how many times.
I was dating this wonderful girl, we had been going out for about a month but then decided to take a break from it. The relationship up to that point had not really been serious, more a month of rebound sex for both of us as both had recently been dumped.
So me and my GF barely talked for a few weeks and at that time there was a small convention going on and a friend that I hadn't even spoken to for about a year suddenly called me and wanted to go to it, so I went with her. At the convention I then run into my current GF, and we start talking about getting back together and actually give the relationship a serious chance.
Somehow I ended up at my friends place that night, we watched a few movies and hooked up, and officially got together a few days later.
I still wonder why I gave up my relationship with the other girl, and how shit would have turned out if I hadn't.
inb4 tl;dr
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1) Loosing my virginity. WORST. MISTAKE. EVER.
2) Sleeping with a guy on the second date. SECOND. WORST. MISTAKE. EVER.
Thankfully I haven't had sex or a relationship since, so no chance to make a mistake like that .
2) Sleeping with a guy on the second date. SECOND. WORST. MISTAKE. EVER.
Thankfully I haven't had sex or a relationship since, so no chance to make a mistake like that .
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iast wrote...
Stuff that you did in a relationship that made you wonder (presently) why did I do that?I remember I had to go on a one month no fap challenge in exchange for sex (this was our first time). Why do women like doing this kind of stuff? Anyways, worse month of my life, blueballed constantly with no cure ): Hot shower helped but not much.
Your showing us how much we are worth it. basically like sticking a price tag. This guy will go this far for me ya know? It gauges if we should or not sometimes.
Or its for fun, because we are cruel like that. lol. BUT my I spoil my man after that so its all in good fun but some girls do take it too far.
BTW how did she know you didnt fap for a month? I mean even if your living together....
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Yeah, I've had those moments. Like telling past girlfriend particularly private and secret things about myself, things even they had no business knowing, only for them to use it against me after we had broke-up.
Particularly annoying one, and of course back then I thought would lead to the end of the world, is when I told my ex that I was bisexual and told her I had a crush on my best friend off and on for years. Well after we broke up she decided to tell a friend that we both had, who also happened to talk regularly with my best friend. I don't know how long I had spend trying to convince him not to tell my friend. Of course he relished blackmailing me, but never did tell him. Talk about an awkward way to possibly ruin a friendship.
Girls can be such bitches sometimes. Damn double-standards.
Particularly annoying one, and of course back then I thought would lead to the end of the world, is when I told my ex that I was bisexual and told her I had a crush on my best friend off and on for years. Well after we broke up she decided to tell a friend that we both had, who also happened to talk regularly with my best friend. I don't know how long I had spend trying to convince him not to tell my friend. Of course he relished blackmailing me, but never did tell him. Talk about an awkward way to possibly ruin a friendship.
Girls can be such bitches sometimes. Damn double-standards.
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BLACK-Y wrote...
BTW how did she know you didnt fap for a month? I mean even if your living together....word. did she watch you in the shower even? that's where i would have 'handled' it.
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earlshaggwell wrote...
BLACK-Y wrote...
BTW how did she know you didnt fap for a month? I mean even if your living together....word. did she watch you in the shower even? that's where i would have 'handled' it.
She just had to trust me, I was a good sport and played it through. She gave me my award so it worked out but I still wonder why I didn't cheat and fapped.
Tsurayu wrote...
Yeah, I've had those moments. Like telling past girlfriend particularly private and secret things about myself, things even they had no business knowing, only for them to use it against me after we had broke-up. Particularly annoying one, and of course back then I thought would lead to the end of the world, is when I told my ex that I was bisexual and told her I had a crush on my best friend off and on for years. Well after we broke up she decided to tell a friend that we both had, who also happened to talk regularly with my best friend. I don't know how long I had spend trying to convince him not to tell my friend. Of course he relished blackmailing me, but never did tell him. Talk about an awkward way to possibly ruin a friendship.
Girls can be such bitches sometimes. Damn double-standards.
I also told my ex quite a bit, so glad we aren't in the same circle of friends. cause our break up was so abrupt.
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Uh I guess it wouldn't be considered in a relationship, but mine would be not going after her once I knew she liked me and finding out that she ended up going out with a pothead and becoming a whore. This was in 5th grade.
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The biggest mistake I ever made seems too silly (or too serious) for this conversation, but I'm toss it out there anyways. I thought I could actually have a long relationship (ie, not something that just lasts for a couple of months) with a girl that I had nothing in common with. We didn't like any of the same things, we hung around different kinds of people, and we had different views on nearly every subject. (And not in a "we can argue our points" kind of way; it was a "we'd raise our kids two different ways" kind of thing.)
Needless to say, after a few months, we ran out of things to say to each other and to do together, so all we did was fool around. I was mostly cool with that, except for the many hours I spent bored between the fooling-around, but she wasn't (big surprise). It erupted into a big argument, and I ended up stranded more than an hour's drive from home, having to call for a ride on a pay phone. (I refused to use her phone, so I walked for half an hour, trying to find one.)
Yeah . . . make sure you have something to talk about if you expect the relationship to last.
Needless to say, after a few months, we ran out of things to say to each other and to do together, so all we did was fool around. I was mostly cool with that, except for the many hours I spent bored between the fooling-around, but she wasn't (big surprise). It erupted into a big argument, and I ended up stranded more than an hour's drive from home, having to call for a ride on a pay phone. (I refused to use her phone, so I walked for half an hour, trying to find one.)
Yeah . . . make sure you have something to talk about if you expect the relationship to last.
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I thought I would be suave and tell a girl she looked beautiful when she was angry whenever the oppurtunity arised. I made two mistakes there:
1. Never compliment a girl you are not dating.
2. Never compliment some who is mad. They only get madder.
1. Never compliment a girl you are not dating.
2. Never compliment some who is mad. They only get madder.
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iast wrote...
Stuff that you did in a relationship that made you wonder (presently) why did I do that?I remember I had to go on a one month no fap challenge in exchange for sex (this was our first time). Why do women like doing this kind of stuff? Anyways, worse month of my life, blueballed constantly with no cure ): Hot shower helped but not much.
You know... If a normal guy doesn't fap for 2 or more days, the sperm just comes out randomly... That's why masturbating is healthy because you're not going too harsh on your own testicles. LOL.
K, the worst thing that happened to me in a relationship that made me regret was... declining sex... don't ask
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GoodDay wrote...
You know... If a normal guy doesn't fap for 2 or more days, the sperm just comes out randomly... That's why masturbating is healthy because you're not going too harsh on your own testicles. LOL.
K, the worst thing that happened to me in a relationship that made me regret was... declining sex... don't ask
I don't think that sperm just comes out randomly after 2 or more days.. I had to go on a week without fapping. Was VERY HARD but I managed.. didn't see sperm coming out randomly that's for sure.
Oh and I too declined sex.. Will never explain why
