Why were you rejected the first time?

(So, after two threads down and a really bad indigestion because I ate so much leather and plastic from my shoe I decided to make a new one hoping this time turns legit, and if this one is already done then here comes the cyanide)

Aww...telling your true feeling to the person you love, one of the most difficult things in the world after your dream job interview and "Battle Toads", it's that occation in witch you put everything out, your heart, your emotions and your dignity in some cases, and most of us mistakes the fear of doing something stupid to the fear of being rejected, but that fear is normal, it means we are humans.

So, the background of this is the next one: I was having some beer with my friends in my apartment, we were chating and laughing, somehow we got to the topic of women ("what a shocker!"), and one of my friends told us that he declared to this girl from his work but she rejected him because: "The stars were not lined`properly for that kind of confession"

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Can you belive that shit? I mean she could have said something more normal like: "Thank you but you are not my type", or "Get away from me, you creep".
We know this girl and now she passed from normal to dick and nutjob.

Then I told my friends about how I get rejected: Back 8 years ago, I had a crush with this girl who was 17 at that time (I was 12), so after months of psycological preparations I decided to go for it, and after I said what I had to said she rejected me in a very kind way, and by kind I mean completely brutal and with so many curses, that traumatized me back then (like "Nightmare on Elm Street").

Anyway, I wanted to ask this, maybe I'll make you re-open some old war-wounds, but hey! we are in the internet and more important in FAKKU ALL THIS SITE IS ABOUT LOVE (and sadly some NTR somewhere).

So you can pour your heart open in here if you like.

My first love, Alicia (can't remember her last name) rejected me for no good fucking reason. Kindergarten love's a bitch.

She ran trough the school and told everybody while laughing. Apparently I was ugly to her she cursed at me and just emphasized on my apparent ugliness *cries in corner*

Damn, that was harsh.

My first (and to date, only) rejection came when I was 16. I finally got around to confessing to this girl I had had a crush on for 10 months. It turns out she had asked a guy out (successfully) a week prior. Her exact words were something along the lines of "You know I have a boyfriend, right?"

Frankly, it was a very appropriate way of telling me no. Of course, I had no delusions that if it wasn't for the other guy she would have said yes. Btw, I knew the other guy, and he was pretty nice, I had nothing against him.

The only part of this that bothered me, was that 2 of our mutual friends (her's and mine) had known about her boyfriend, known about my intention to ask her out, and had told me nothing. Jerks.



Didja have cooties?

I asked my one and only ex-bf out, but he turned me down initially saying he wanted to be friends.

But then about two weeks later he changed his mind. Lol.

But now that we're split (due to distance, and both being perfectly happy as just being close friends again due to that), I haven't had to guts to ask anyone else out.

The first time, I think it was because I was Asian. My poor 10 year old self was devastated.

I can't remember my first rejection, but do I remember my most recent rejection as it was only a couple of days ago. (Then again as of late, all my rejections have been basically the same and all ended with me being in the Friend Zone.)

Girl I've known for a little while, give or take 4 years. Amanda her name is. She told me this year after 4 years that she had feelings for me, so I asked her out.

She said no, on the grounds that she'd not long broken up with her ex and was still getting over him. Fair enough, I thought. I gave it a couple of months, in that time I was there for her when she needed it, you know being a good friend to bher who always listens when she needed it. In other words, stuck in the Friend zone.

Then couple of nights ago she got drunk and had a huge drunken rage at me for apparently asking her friend why she was flirting with me, when I didn't, and I even gave her proof of that. After she sobered up she got further pissed at me for apparently getting pissed off about it and turned into some psycho bitch who never wants to speak to me again. Then... SHE REMOVED ME ON FACEBOOK!

Eh, probably.

Ouch man...

My rejection was the friend zone also. Fuck the friend zone.

The Friend zone is the killer for all potential couples who would be well suited. The Friend zone must die.

The friend zone is essentially the Dead Zone for your penis.

I mean I wouldn't fuck Garlic Jr. Would you fuck Garlic Jr?

Hm, Im thinking around 4th-5th grade my first "girlfriend" (as if it could be called that at such a tender age)rejected me with the statement her parents wouldn't let her date, asked again after summer vacation and she said yes.Other than that :/ .... betsuni XD

OH YEAH....!! FUCK THE FRIEND ZONE....!! I got same exprience as you guys, all girls I like always reject me with word like "sorry, I dont wanna have BF yet" when I confess to her, but the next day she show me her BF who confess to her last night, and I, who confess to her at noon got nothing to say to her except sayin "congratulation ya damn bitch,ya reject my confession at noon yet ya damn fuckin accept him few hours leter for damn stupid thing""even thought I've always beside ya whenever ya want, yet ya choose that out of no where dickhed for bein yer BF..??? damn ya, but I'll forgive ya cuz ya let me to try fall in love, thanks ya damn slut", and now that bitch gonna marriage in few months. Of course I won't go to there, cuz I got notin else to say to her furthermore I was buzy with my project and she's out of mind this time.

BTW, cuz that damn slut reject me, it's look like I got curse for never get GF, and cuz of that I never get my first kiss yet, and you know what that means..??? In other people eyes, especially my women colleague they say that I was disgusting virgin old man(even thought I'm still 20 years old) ...T.T...

So for now the only thing I'd say is MY RIGHT HAND IS MY LOVER

I fucking hate it when people say 'oh.. sorry.. i'm not looking for a boyfriend/ girlfriend right now' then get with somebody else that fucking night. if you're going to reject people, tell them the motherfucking truth. sick to fucking death of people lying or giving bull-motherfucking-shit excuses.

I asked a girl in my class to go to the movies once/ hang out at lunch.. she kindly said no with an excuse as to why, which i can't remember.. so i left it at that, and we stayed friends.

But really, if you're tuning (read: trying to pick up) somebody, at least get the balls to tell the person who just confessed to you that you're tuning somebody/ don't have any interest in the person. Don't be a douche/ bitch and say 'i don't want one right now' it'll only get you hate. HAAAATE

/rant and on topicness

That was very heartfelt. It seems like you really liked this girl, but I suggest you just be happy for her, or forget her altogether. It's for the best.

There's nothing wrong with being a virgin at 20 years old, and you certainly are not "old." I know this may seem like a cliche', but just give it time, there is someone out there just for you.

That is true. i didn't lose mine till 18. IMO, if you leave it for that one girl you really feel you'll be with forever (lalala) then you'll know she wasn't staying with you for the sex, but because she actually loves you etc etc.. at least that's what i think :D

I think for doin that, so I'd focus my mind for something useless like makin a project for my school or havin sex with my own right hand .... hha... (((^__,^)db


Fuckin Hell yeah.. I love my right hand so much, cuz it never left me alone and never betray me ever....

There was this one time my right hand cheated on me...that pompous whore!

my right hand has two lovers... me and my girlfriend.. but it's cool.. I understand :D