Women: Should we guys get a second chance?

I am asking women this poll, because i myself am curious about this. Depending or not on the circumstances should we guys get/deserve another chance at a relationship?

I'm no chick, but what I've always stood by personally is that we broke up for a reason and there's no way around that. If you want to get back together, you shouldn't have broke it off in the first place.

This goes for other people wanting to come back to me and for me going back to people...I just don't mess with it.

up to me.
if i feel that the guy deserves a second chance,i'll give it.

efforts,my mood,my feeling,the cause of break-up,and the guy himself is the factors to make a decision.

depends, sometimes I feel like I don't deserve a second chance, and when I do feel like I was in the right, but was dumped regardless, I just say,"Hey, if she couldn't recognize that the fault was with her, then I don't need to be in a relationship with that person anymore."

[size=10]I think a main thing to consider is why the two broke up. If it had something to do with the guy cheating I wouldn't recommend that a woman hooks up with him again. Same thing with a man going back with and a woman. Last I checked.. once a cheater, always a cheater..

But yeah.. my opinion varies based on why the two broke up. Sometimes it takes more than one shot for things to work out.. but sometimes you realize you wasted so much time with someone and it's just not worth it.[/h]

I like this. But what if it's a few months, or even a year and you see one another again. People change.

I don't think I'll ever give guys more then one, maybe two chances again after my last relationship. Sorta like I want to learn from my past mistakes.

I can't even tell you how many times we broke up. Once it was because he smoked pot and did some E and didn't want me to get involved, then it was his friends, then it was him, then it was this and that. He always came back and I was always stupid and agreed. :?

The last time he told me it was over I had found out that he had been hooking up with this other girl and before going to her house he broke up with me. He was gone for 2 weeks with this girl and lied to her telling her we had been broken up since the beginning of the year (this was in october of last year) and so forth. Needless to say I would never get back together with him. He's had ample chances and finally made too big of a mistake.

Because of that I'm less patient with males :? If I'm going to date someone then they better be pretty damn sure they want a relationship because I won't play games anymore.

It really depends on the situation, but the one thing I 100% will stand by is that the guy will not get a second chance if they cheat, EVER. In my opinion if someone is willing to do that, they have loose morals and I believe once a cheater, always a cheater. And being drunk/stoned/etc... is not a friggin excuse. In fact, that's almost even worse than just admitting it.

depending on the situation if the guy cheated you should smack him a few times then go for a break up but its not that easy i know but if its just a minor fight id say give it

Depending on the break-up. And I would love to see if they have learned a bit from it.

Dude, this thread is two years old :/

no! not at all if you fuck it up there is no re-doing the past and some scares dont heal.

personally i hate men and im ashamed to be one at times...

In very very very rare cases do I give somebody a second chance. Maybe after they came along and apologized ten times and prove that they act better. I usually have good reasons to break up.

Well If the guys srewed up big time I would let him have a second chance but It's always a little fun to watch them beg for it XD.