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learn that it is not a stupid question only that it is a highly debatable one that is controversial to many who don't obsess about how someone else is all the time

I don't know how friendly your relationships are but mine currently are very aggressive and based on COLD HARD LOGIC not pathetic emotions that get people killed or start unnecessary unneeded fights

I have a lot of things to do and the few times I have to myself I am either resting trying to fix up my tired or injured body or thinking about what I can do next what other options I have or how to do things better or make myself better or stronger so forgive me if "how was your day" is not on my fucking mind at the moment women in general need to relies that guys that are doing things are not likely to ask them anything unless they see a problem or incident happen

when I have things on my mind its usually like this
"one friend has a controlling relationship, that family member is in the hospital friend 2 is going through another drug problem, friend3 is going through some mental breakdown family issues again, I have to work on my family members injurys(im skilled in massaging and have some medical knowledge that lets me ease or numb out pain and tension that has somehow landed me as "family medic")
I have to study I have to train I have to prepare for work I need to sleep soon(cant fucking fall asleep more then half the time)"
or other times its just scrabled and im just trying to concentrate on trying to figure out what I was thinking about hoping I did not forget anything important I've even had to resort to using caffine in large amounts or forcing an adrenaline rush via self injury SO FORGIVE ME IF MY FIRST FUCKING THOUGHT ISNT "HOW WAS YOUR DAY"

if you want to talk then talk I will listen hell sometimes I need someone to just start talking so I can think of something else besides how fucked up my day usually is everyone has their own coping method to some its to talk to me its to try and forget and listen to others talk so I can stop myself from thinking for a few fucking seconds but don't ever expect me to ask because I am almost literally unable to even THINK about asking