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This looks interesting (OO)b

This made my april fools day, I fucking love pac-man! xD

Say what you want to say, but as you said I don't have to care. You have a belief that your way is right and other's are wrong which I don't agree with. Even if you could recite the bible 100x over that doesn't mean that your interpretation is correct. What I believe in may not be right either, but I'm okay with it. I'm just happy with what I know and what I believe and if that changes over time so be it. Don't say you respect my beliefs when you really don't, because it's contradictory to say "I have so much to say on the matter to you, but I respect you". You may respect me as a person but I can already see the religion subject has caused some butthurt for you.

You do care if you're still talking about gossip. Stop denying this and get over it. I know you don't understand why I say this or what that truly means, but again look at the bigger picture of life. You have your health and they are just words. You have nothing to prove to these people and by just being happy within yourself you are already ending the anger and frustration as well as showing your family how a real man acts.

I make it a point not to talk about politics and religion with people till I really get to know them. They're sensitive subjects for most and I have my own thoughts on the matter, but I'll challenge them when I see the time is right.

I just have the belief we are all human and we are all different. I think it makes life a pain in the ass sometimes, but also enjoyable since a fucked up world is better then a mundane one. I just want to be happy be able to give that to others, but I make sure I am happy within myself first. My words may make sense at some point to you, but for now just I'll leave it at that.

Still missing the bigger picture to all of this.

In the end who cares?

Who cares if other's have different belief's then you, who cares if people are talking shit about you, who cares if your life is shit or not. The main thing I am trying to say is to find happiness within yourself. The biggest issue isn't the things in your life it's you yourself. You are getting all worked up over petty things that the easiest solution is to just let go of that anger and frustration.

You can do this by realizing that you need to take care of yourself first and then you can work on the world one step at a time. You're not ignoring anything by doing this, it's just simple rationalization.

I get angry about the healthcare field, but that anger is not going to change anything so I let it go and think what can I do to make it better. For me it's education and working my way up into a position where I can make change happen.

Anger and hate are ignition emotions, but they are not good fuel. The fuel comes from using your mind and to use critical thinking as to how you can make change happen. There's other ways as well, but this is a good start to make change come about.

Anyways the answer to letting go of anger and frustration is to work on finding another way of looking at life and another way of thinking. It's not easy and it takes time, but it can happen.

Everyone has there own view on religion and as you said yours is your opinion. To be angered by how others decide to live there lives is the pot calling the kettle black. You hate when people push there religion onto you, but you feel anger towards how others live there lives? In the end it doesn't matter. You'd probably disagree with how I view Christianity, but I know I don't care if you or anyone does because how I view it makes me happy and that's all that matters. To feel anger over how people decide to live there lives does nothing good for you and is wasted energy.

If your envious then it matters to you. You're just pushing out of your mind because it's something you want that you can't have at the moment. Just work on finding someone special if you want it. It doesn't have to be now, but there's no point in getting jealous over something like that. Some people have what you want so if that's the case make it yours and enjoy what you have in the moment. That simple really.

Why does the opinions of others matter that much to you? Honestly I doubt people are talking that much about you behind your back. Back in school I had it happen to me, but my mind put more into it then was really there. Even if people do talk trash that doesn't mean jack shit. They don't know you and if they have that much time to waste talking shit they're pathetic. It also doesn't do any good to confront people on this since it only makes matters worse. The more you bitch the more you are fueling there fire. In the end just get pissed off when they do it and just let it go. The only time confrontation should happen is when you are being harmed as a result. I had to do so when my ability to stay in college was on the line, but it all worked out. Realize too that years from now none of this shit will matter.

For the last bit life is about figuring out your purpose and what will make you happy. No one can answer those questions for you. What I can suggest is to find a way to just let all of this go. I deal with anxiety personally and it sounds like you have a touch of it yourself. I know it was hard for me to deal with people; I over-thought everything and I was scared to put myself out there/change. In the end I either had to sink or swim so I swam. I learned to stop caring about how others thought and decided to just enjoy life and all of the small things that make me happy. Still a work in progress though lol.

You just need to find a way to do that too and that will come with age and time. No use bitching over spilled milk, make the effort to find things that make you happy. Better to work on being happy then complaining about what's not good in your life and over-thinking things.

I'll be honest here why does any of this matter?

If you don't like people preaching the word of god to you don't listen and tell them to basically fuck off in a nice enough manner. If they don't get the message then be more direct.

If you feel like you need to have more in your life like marriage and children stop wasting time venting over the small shit and make it happen. Try meeting people and dating and having a good time.

Who cares if you are an older student? Just do what makes you happy and things that don't learn to either work with them or cut them out altogether.

Religion is always a sensitive topic for most people and I know back in college I hated when my friends would bring it up. I was never the churchgoing type so they use to say that I needed to find god or I wasn't a good Christian. I ended up just ignoring them altogether and found my own meaning to my faith and have been happy ever since.

You are in control of your own life and find a way to make the things that frustrate you better and change what you want to be different or just accept how life is and roll with it. If your anger get's to be too much expend it on other actives like cardio of some kind, cooking, reading, videogames, going out to the movies, etc. If you are depressed just get through the down phase of it (shower, reading, sleeping, eating, etc) and pick yourself back up when your mood is better. Having friends around to talk to is also a good thing too.

Well if you put it that way open up the flood gates! xD

But I choose the last option since I don't really care how or why a person swings for the same team. Just sort of see it as you are who you are and I don't need to know more then that unless you really feel like telling me your life story lol.

The issue though is you think you know a woman's mind. Even when we have it perfect and I do mean perfect we still cheat. Just because we can give ourselves emotionally over to a person doesn't mean that we physically can't seek out more.

I think that men can stay more committed then you think. Just with me saying that women cheat even with perfection, men can be faithful even with imperfection. I've known men who even with the shittest of wives still love there woman enough to be with them. The breaking factor though is usually if they find out they are cheating or if they are carrying another man's baby. To them if they never consented to being in an open relationship and they see that happen they find no value in the relationship.

What I am trying to say is I see where you are coming from that men are more likely to have issues with commitment, but you made it sound like women have an easier time with it then men. You even used the word IMPOSSIBLE in bold letters. Every person and relationship is different and personally I think the issue relating to your own family is affecting this view. As I said in the other thread I can understand why you feel this way or feel more reaffirmed given the circumstances, but that is only one way relationships can go down.

When you have a crazy family of womanizers, swingers, cheaters, devoted happy family members, etc. You start to see a bigger picture to how relationships can work and function. I have a couple people who are completely faithful to one another for 30+ years while other famliy members swingers. There's a few that have divorced and cheated like crazy (both by the men and women depending), even have one where her husbands died (won't say as to why since it's all speculation). So to me your view is a bit skewed and biased because not all women are saints and not all men are dogs.

Sucks when this happens, but that's life for you.

Basically all you can do is be there for your mom and give her space when she needs it. This will be a hard time for you and your family, but over time things will work themselves out. The biggest thing you can do is to sort through your own feelings and take time to work on yourself. Don't take on the burden of trying to fix things or helping when you yourself feel at a loss; your mother is a big girl and she'll understand that you have issues on the matter as well.

The other thing you can learn to do in time is to find a way to let go of any negative feelings on this event. Right now may not be the best time and it's totally fine to feel resentment, anger, and sadness over what your father did. Just don't let that eat you alive for too long. You have to remember that regardless of how shitty this all is, that your father is human. Besides there may be more to this then you know, honestly you never know. He dug himself a grave, but that doesn't mean you have to bury him for it. He is your father and always will be so just let it go and do your own thing. You can decide over time how you want your father to be in your life or if he's distant then live your life without him.

I see why you made the post in the commitment thread now and believe me people can stay committed to one another, but just because this happened doesn't mean that the idea of being committed is impossible. Learn from your parents and try to find something that you can be proud of; that your mother can be proud of; that your father can wish he could have. All anyone can do is try there best and have faith.

Best of luck to you and your mom.

Not really sure how you came to this conclusion.

Doesn't matter the gender, both men and women have the capability to cheat on one another with no one gender beating out the other. The rate may be higher for men only because they get caught easier then women. Believe me women can be more notorious then men in the cheating department (can be rather sad sometimes too).

Also, it's not impossible for a man to be fully committed to one person. I've known quite a few men that have been utterly faithful to there woman without straying (can't say the same for some of the women though).

Your biological reproduction theory has also been proven false. Yes we are organisms that reproduce in order to populate our species, but we are developmentally at a point that this can be challenged. If this were true then monogamy wouldn't have existed in the first place regardless of how or why it came to be. Some people don't see the point in being committed to one person and other's value it. The diversity of our reason is what makes the innate biological theory just that; a theory.

Also keep in mind love is subject and can change over time. Sure the passionate love you have for someone fades over time, but that doesn't mean that you can't stay committed to that person. I know that it's been 2+ years for my bf and myself, but we still love one another. Maybe not as hot and heavy as when we first got together, but that's because we have a friendship sort of love so when the physical aspect dies down the emotional is still there and growing.

Also 2x, it's not easy for a woman to stay in a committed relationship. Take this from a woman herself, we love our eye candy and we love to fantasize. We love to be flattered and hit on. We do stray and we can cheat even if it is the love of our lives. This goes for men as well, basically anyone can cheat, but that's life and you have to live and learn from your mistakes.

I sort of hate the way this question is worded. I sort of look at it as people are more or less selective depending on various factors. Some of it is innate, some biological, some environmental, chemical, social, etc.

Honestly though I don't think it matters. You can't help but love who and what or for some they don't feel love in the same way as others. I know I find women sexually appealing (aka eye candy), but I don't feel any emotional attachment or sexual excitement from them. Thus I identify as being straight.

Damn man I need to step up my game!

I have a decent manga/anime collection though I sort of lost count as to how much I own... need to update my list at some point (>w>)

Buy @Jacob coffee and good beer. Always a good start (-w-)b

Honestly though what ChrisRosado said, by visiting the site, being part of the community, spreading the word and buying merch. You're already doing your part. Another good thing is to give feedback and help where you can. I know I applied to be a helper when the chance arose and now I do my part for Fakku.

Purpurin sadly went down not because of the fanbase but more over internal conflict + a disappearing owner. Jakes pretty involved with his community and handles things rather well so this place won't go anywhere for a bit.

I mean you said in your op you make it a point to fap when you read hentai unless it's not your taste so this is pointing out the obvious lol.

If you put your mind to it not getting off on hentai is not hard to do. I've read quite a few hentai here even if I love it I don't get off right away because I don't want to go there for the moment. Usually I think to myself that if I do I'll be tired and it'll mean I'll need a shower so hence I don't do it. I also look at hentai as art so when I start to analyze it more I am thinking less about what the content is for pleasures sake. Also helps I don't have a certain appendage so boner's are not a concern for me lol.

If you get off to it you get off to it, if you want to become less stimulated find a way.

That is a wonderful collection you have there (OwO)b

To clarify anything with one guy/girl and 3+ girls is considered a harem (nothing for a woman with many men sadly; I know it's a reverse harem but not a thing on here as of yet).

For group it is pretty much 3+ people regardless of who is in the doggy pile. So this can mean a three-some, a harem, a reverse harem, a gangbang, a class deciding to get it on with sensei included, etc.

I know it could be handled better, but with the tags that are here this is pretty much the rule of thumb till more specific tags get added.

Never had it happen though my dad flipped his lid when he found out I read porn... small pettanko girl sucking on a massive dick... good times (-w-)...

I don't care if it's a man or a woman if my partner cheats then I'm done. It'd weird me out a bit if he sleeps with another man since he's as straight as they come, but I won't think any less of him for being with someone of the same sex. I'll just be pissed he's having personal relations with anyone but me. Anyone would feel betrayed and hurt by there partner seeking the comfort of others regardless if it was intentional or not. How they feel about it being with certain genders, people or the intention (physical versus emotional) is all up the the person. I know I wouldn't give a guy two seconds of my time after he cheats but for some it's something they feel they can work out. It also becomes more complicated for long terms partners or those with children/financial ties.

Pretty much what Art said. I also help on fakku with tags and editing them so when I do so I can power through hentai and not get aroused. I think I was able to disassociate from the arousal factor even before so because to me hentai is art so I enjoy artwork in its own sense.. The ones I do like personally I'll just save for later fun material. It's bad that on here whenever I read works I seriously start thinking "this one is oppai with stockings and has nakadashi at the end" lol.

Shigatsu wa Kimi no Uso/Your Lie in April

Pretty good slice of life and the music in it was superb.