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Nekohime
14 years ago
koko7 wrote...
Circe wrote...
Lucia wrote...
Hmm.... How about those pills that will prevent you from got pregnant?


Yes, but I'm looking for other people's experiences w/ pills and other forms. I know a lot of you aren't sexually active, so that why I included the friends part too.

Somehow I 'm hoping at least Neko will have something to say...

Oh....

-smacks Marcus upside the head-


I co......o-o no. I'd rather not it'd turn awkward. I was gonna say I could ask my sister but then she'll get all "OH WHY YOU HAVING SEX!" DDDX Geh then prod and tease so no! DX Nekooo~ she's a sex ed teacher in her mind! xD (I asked her about bc once) Hnn...I cant help you ): *walks away quickly looking straight ahead* .....(o-o)


Lucia wrote...
Circe wrote...
Unsaid thought made me wonder...

Does anyone take/use a type of birth control besides condoms? Reviews? Friend with good or bad experience?


How about no sex before marriage?



Neko has something to say! Abstinence sucks!!!

Ok, serious time... I do use bc pills--have been using them since I was 19, so that makes it my 5th year on BC. I started out using Yasmin, then moved to Ortho Tri-Cyclen, then finally to Ortho Tri-Cyclen Lo. All of those were fine with me, no serious ill effects--it was more of a price and insurance (or lack thereof) issue as to why I changed medications. I've been on the Lo version the longest though--3yrs now, and I get it free from Planned Parenthood. I seriously love that place--I go in, plead poverty, and walk out with 1yr supply of BC pills absolutely free. Or with a tiny donation, if I feel like it. The pills may be making my depression worse, but I'd honestly rather be depressed than pregnant.

I was planning on getting a Mirena/Copper IUD next month, when my BC pills run out. I'm pretty stupid about taking my bc pills on time, is why. ^^;; My friend had a Mirena, but said she had serious cramps with it, so she had it removed. My doc says it's a rather rare side-effect though. Another friend has the ParaGard copper IUD and loves it, except she says it makes her period a bit heavier than normal, which I don't like. I'm still trying to decide between the two, but Mirena is looking better for me because it makes your periods lighter.

I do read a lot of sex ed/medical publications, so if any of you gals have questions about a specific form of BC, just ask!
Nekohime
14 years ago
Pachelbel's Canon in D IS a canon. I still hate the FUCK out of it though.

Spoiler:
Nekohime
14 years ago
All of the above. For breakfast. At 3am. Hell yeah!
Nekohime
14 years ago
Willis wrote...
Spoiler:
OK let's break down the scenario you have described into bits!

Mr.TifaLockhart wrote...
So one day we were going to go to the mall so she can blow through all my cash(typical woman.


Well, not all women want to "blow through all your cash". I'm sure if you firmly stated you are broke or don't have much or any money on you, they probably wouldn't attempt to milk you dry (or hang out with you for that matter...but that's only some women).

Mr.TifaLockhart wrote...
So i told her i don't know how to work it and she said fine and as i tried to leave she told me to wait up and she told me to hang out with her and to sit next to her on her bed.So i sat next to her and i told her "What do you want now?" Then she tried to grab me and kiss me i pushed her off me and i told her "What the hell is wrong with you?" and then i left and waited outside.


Here is where a problem can arise. Although I must admit that I have never been in this scenario that you have described, I would like to say that at the point where you pushed her away after she made a move on you, that might have made her feel inferior, "not good enough", etc. Also, the way you portray your attitude gives off negative vibes, which is another element in the cause of the problem.

Mr.TifaLockhart wrote...
After 15 minutes or so they both came out the house and i was like "Here comes the drama".What i least expected was "I completely trust you now" as it turns out my Gf asked her sister for help to see if i would cheat on her and that was their plan.


Here is the fruit of your fallacy: the mistrust and conspiration between her and her sister. I can understand how you feel though since I believe I'd be pretty pissed off/annoyed from what you went through. However, keeping your cool should be a priority (and I'm not saying you didn't keep your cool either).

Mr.TifaLockhart wrote...
What offended me about this is how are you seeing somebody for sometime now and you don't trust them.WTF? I felt like a complete stranger to her like if i don't even know you anymore.


Things like this happens in relationships. If it happens too often, perhaps it's time to go your separate ways. Before splitting apart though, attempt to talk out what you want from her and ask her what she want from you. It is important to mend the loose ends of your relationships so no further problems arise.

Mr.TifaLockhart wrote...
What is with women and trust problems?


An individual goes through a lot in their lifetime. There are some things that she may have gone through that may have affected her ability to trust others -especially in relationships- which was caused by either a traumatic experience, constant negativity, an event that may have altered her way of thinking, etc. We cannot always interpret what the other party is thinking about and when we ask, "What's wrong?" or "Whats the matter?", the other party may feel that they do not want to talk about it. Others however, may tell you directly how they feel and what they want.
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If this reply has somehow offended you in any way, then I'm sorry. My critique of what you have posted may be caused by a fallacy in what my idea of your situation is. Other than that, I hope I have helped in some way or have given you some sort of enlightenment that pertains to love/romance/relationships/etc. ^_^


What'chu talkin' 'bout, Willis?

Sorry, I just HAD to.
Nekohime
14 years ago
koko7 wrote...
(o-o) *dives into the girly frilly poofy giant couch*


We have a giant couch? Why was I not told!!!! *rolls under couch and naps*
Nekohime
14 years ago
This is the height of geekery, y'all.

http://commodoreusa.net/CUSA_C64.aspx
Nekohime
14 years ago
Circe wrote...
If you don't start showing some filial piety... -shakes finger-

And yes, my boyfriend is a nerd and I love him. I've always been attracted to nerdy boys. Why?


Coz nerdy guys are awesome! That's all there is to say about it.
Nekohime
14 years ago
I've worked with Champion Systems to create a custom bike jersey for another forum I'm on and iirc the minimum order for that company is 10 jerseys. If we can get 10 people interested in a Fakku jersey (hah, fat chance!) we might be able to do an order. If not, bike decals would probably be the best way to go. I think the full name on the sides and an F! on the headtube would look nice. Another idea would be to just silkscreen some arm warmers (if you use them).

Sweet bike, btw. I'm not into mtb so much (I'm a roadie/pootler) but it's awesome that you actually race.
Nekohime
14 years ago
This article makes a lot of good points:

http://goodmenproject.com/featured-content/nice-guys-finish-first-without-pickup-gimmickry/
Nekohime
14 years ago
Yes, there are some people who do not identify as neither male or female, or who identify as both. Think of stuff like the berdache or "two-spirit" traditions among certain indigenous cultures. There even was a recent archaeological find detailing how a male skeleton was given a burial that was usually reserved for women--that may be proof that the two-spirit tradition was alive thousands of years ago (see link). Biologically, there are intersex people (e.g. hermaphrodites) whose genitalia have the characteristics of both sexes. Gender expression is much more fluid than we acknowledge, and I think it does those people a disservice when we try to pigeonhole them into one of just two genders.
Nekohime
14 years ago
Well, my FC is 4985-4395-9729, if anyone is interested. *shrugs* I'll add anyone who posts their FC too. ^^;

Edit: my in-game name is Neko♪, but you can just add me as whatever you want in your friends list.
Nekohime
14 years ago
Ok, I just HAVE to have the recipe for that dessert.
Nekohime
14 years ago
The hard part is trying not to rip the condom with your teeth...

Wait what?
Nekohime
14 years ago
Aai wrote...


OT: I didn't look for, they came to me.


Yeah, that's pretty much what happens with me.
Nekohime
14 years ago
Circe-puu! I'm super late as well but HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO MY LOVELY WIFEY! Sorry I wasn't able to greet you on your bday, but I hope you had a great one with lots of friends and fun times.
Nekohime
14 years ago
OMG want. Ceviche is way too awesome.
Nekohime
14 years ago
lastmousestanding wrote...
Dont think Ill be entering this one - Dont particularly like shell-fish and money is extremely tight...
But good luck to those who do enter!

EDIT - actually I may be able to enter...
Q - are there any shellfish that go well with sushi?


Most go well with sushi, actually. Sea urchin roe is especially good, but that's way too expensive. WHY AM I SO POOR... I WANT SOME NOW. T^T
Nekohime
14 years ago
seesaw wrote...
Looks good and sounds creative, sounds too sweet with 1tsp of sugar and ketchup though. This caught my attention and will try this.


Yeah, the Japanese people tend to make their food a bit on the sweet side--sweet curry, sweet spaghetti (blech), sweet pizza...

I did vote for this dish though, since omelette-flipping skills are nothing to sneeze at.
Nekohime
14 years ago
No. Just...no.
Nekohime
14 years ago
Classy got to pick the theme for this month, and he says it is...


*Iron Chef Announcer voice*

SHELLFISH!

What counts as shellfish? Obviously seafood that has shells, duh, but here is a list of some other water-dwelling creatures you can use:

Spoiler:
Crustacean
Crab
Crawfish
Lobster
Shrimp

Mollusks
Abalone
Clam
Cockle
Conch
Cuttlefish
Mussel
Octopus
Oyster
Periwinkle
Snail
Squid
Scallop

That's the list Classy provides, but I'll add in Sea Urchins and Sea Cucumbers because they're also considered shellfish even if they are Echinoderms.


Here's a recap of the rules:

Spoiler:

1) Since we are on the internet, and we can't very well taste each other's dishes, we will be judging by how good your food looks. Use creative plate design and presentation, make fancy knife cuts, etc. Make us want to take the first flight available to your place so we can partake of your delicious dish!

2) You must post the recipe you used, and a source/link to said recipe if available. If you create your own recipe, we give you mad props and that should be taken into account when voting, but it is not a requirement. If you made something difficult and/or time-consuming, that is also a plus. Recipes will be judged on how delicious they sound and how well they fit the theme for the month.

3) Post at least two pictures of the preparation and/or cooking process and at least one picture of the final product. Limit it to six total pictures, though. All pictures must include a sign that says Fakku, your user name, and the date. Pictures without a sign will NOT be considered. (Addendum: must be a sign IN the picture, not added after the picture was taken)

4) Everybody can join; however, we will only accept one entry per contestant per month. You can change your entry as much as you want as long as it's before the deadline, but there can be only one!

5) Post your entry as a separate thread on Food and Cooking with the tag [Top Chef Fakku (month)] or a variation thereof, and post a link to it on this thread. You must post a link to your entry in this thread or we will NOT consider it.

6) The winner will be chosen through a public poll during the first five days of the subsequent month.



Contest officially starts 00:00 PST (GMT-8) on April 1, 2011 and ends 00:00 PST (GMT-8) May 1, 2011. No entries will be accepted after that time. Voting starts whenever I wake up on that day and will last for five days, after which we will announce the winner. Winner gets mad props, rep from me (and from others?) and the chance to choose the month after next's theme (April winner chooses for June).

Good luck, and get cooking!

Nekohime is mildy allergic to crustaceans but is entering anyway. Lol.
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