PrincessTristan wrote...
Sekketsubyo wrote...
you should have to open yourself up first, before you approach her, make sure you're act as natural as possible, as who you are..
that way maybe she could understand you and convey each others feeling.
learn/act to be a bit foolish is OK, as long as you feel comfortable of yourself, and makes you happy inside!
Thanks for the encouragement. It really is hard for me to open up to other people since I have been so isolated as a child.
I mean as far as I know she only appreciates me at the moment for my competence at what I do. I really want her to see a side of me I don't normally show people. I really want her to know who I am inside.
yeah, that is what you should show to her, but in your case, maybe she's already understands what kind of person you are, think of what if she really had a feeling for you?
if she won't admit it first, why don't you? you can try many ways, anything's fine, do it your own style, how if you do something stupid in front of her? or spouting jokes? my advice is, find a bit more about her, to know what will move her heart, don't ever make any unmoving act. Most importantly, if you know her problems that other don't, you could do that and thus she will open up to you, when the time comes you just have to add a counteract.
Convey your problems, that is, when she had open up to you..
that's the least i could give, I was known to working on issues like this, so I would like to be corrected. Btw, I know you could do it!