Shotty Too Hotty Posts
DatYuriThough wrote...
Anything under 5 chapters. So short stories. Although the only thing there at the moment is poetry since that takes less time to write and I'm generally to busy to work on my long running story.I find poetry just as long to write since you gotta convey an image with much few words and keeping a rhythm while keeping a sequence of events.
Dr Shaneman wrote...
Shotty Too Hotty wrote...
Feeling lonely today?Yeah...
Well isn't that point of these threads is to have social interaction and not feel lonely talking to us.
SneeakyAsian wrote...
Shotty Too Hotty wrote...
SneeakyAsian wrote...
[color=#993300]Psssh, Pull a Hell Mary and Destroy everything in your pathI thought it was an Hail Mary.
Ah then my bad.
DatYuriThough wrote...
I know. The thread already exists, but I've had trouble adding to it when everything is fine. Certainly not going to try when the site has only begun to recover from the episode it just had and is still causing some problems...Yeah that would be the best move. What's the basis of the writing thread like the themes of it?
Dr Shaneman wrote...
Shotty Too Hotty wrote...
Hey Shane. How are you?*holds*
I guess in a 'wanting to be held' mood?
Feeling lonely today?
SneeakyAsian wrote...
[color=#993300]Psssh, Pull a Hell Mary and Destroy everything in your pathI thought it was an Hail Mary.
SneeakyAsian wrote...
Shotty Too Hotty wrote...
DatYuriThough wrote...
Shotty Too Hotty wrote...
DatYuriThough wrote...
This site is screwing me over with all the maintenance...*Hides under table*
It sucks. Threads can't even be made.
I was gonna add to me writing thread. Forget that, not even going to try.
You shouldn't give up so easily because of the servers. Just give it some time and then try again.
[color=#993300]I saw quite the contradiction for a second
Ah. I see what you mean. Sometimes you need to take a tactical retreat and then try again.
DatYuriThough wrote...
Shotty Too Hotty wrote...
DatYuriThough wrote...
This site is screwing me over with all the maintenance...*Hides under table*
It sucks. Threads can't even be made.
I was gonna add to me writing thread. Forget that, not even going to try.
You shouldn't give up so easily because of the servers. Just give it some time and then try again. Best way to improve your writing is being the company of other writers unless you're in 19-20th Century Europe.
DatYuriThough wrote...
This site is screwing me over with all the maintenance...*Hides under table*
It sucks. Threads can't even be made.
Waar wrote...
Alright, my thoughts on the matter, this will probably turn out to be a bit long.On misunderstandings:
Spoiler:
On Koko: The negative
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On Koko: The positive
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In the end I still come back to my original thought: if she has changed she might be good for the community, and if she hasn't in a few weeks she'll do something to get herself banned and we can go back to our boring IB. Present new arguments now and try to keep them short.
That's why I stop replying in the threads. I knew it was already a done deal and that this was happening. Now we can do is adapt and move on. Koko is her own person and she with help of her supporters can face the insurmountable challenge ahead of them. I wouldn't mind being friends with Koko again given the opportunity since the ending of our friendship was on not the best of ground. She was also one of the first people in CTFG that I spoke to. I just wanted to voice my concerns of letting her back which any considerate forum member should do.
Misaki_Chi wrote...
Tsujoi wrote...
Misaki_Chi wrote...
I want all three of those things in that picture (OwO)
Hows your day/night going?
Me too, but I'll make do with just the tea for now.
Good, just got my cable internet going. I'm OoOoO'ing and Ahhhh'ing at the fastness compared to my old dsl.
How about yourself?
Doing alright, half ass watching college football on the tv and studying on/off. Will probably have a relaxing night tonight with anime and pizza.
You had pizza too? I can't get enough pizza.
RoyalElite wrote...
Eww, most of you guys are serious drama Queens. Why make this a big deal. Jacob said it was ok to let her back in, just this time be very clear to her that this is her absolute No Exceptions last chance. If she messes up big time, then perma ban her forever and ever. So far from what I can tell, you guys are only trying to push her buttons, especially you Shotty. An apology is an apology.... You don't like it because it wasn't up to your standards, well to bad.... Your free to leave this thread and tell her to not to talk to you ever again. It the internet, so don't expect everything to be done perfectly. All I'm seeing is Koko backing up into a corner'd wall and trying to counter it by defending herself aggressively. All of you got to chill the fuck out because this has turn'd out be more of a hate thread than a apology thread.
Oh boy. Someone's name dropping. Now I have to respond.
Now we're going to breakdown everything one step at a time.
"Why is this a big deal?"
To answer this question we must look at what got Koko banned to begin with. Koko harassed couple of mods on the site a few users against the wishes the mods. Why did Koko do this? This stemmed from those users who she harassed being mocked passive aggressively i.e CTFG's style at the time. Koko, being as hot-headed as she is, decided to continuously to PM those people about the subject and they in turn reported her actions to the mods (Waar). The mods (Waar) warned Koko to stop her actions and just let it go since mods already dealt with the situation. Koko disobeyed their orders and contentiously brought it up since her victim complex saw that she did nothing wrong that instead saw Waar and everyone else who disagreed with her was against her. Koko then contentiously made threads on IB about Waar and IB retaliated as rolled in the drama until she was eventually banned. After next couple months, she kept making alts like Mantis but instead of spamming she tried to blend in or bring up the drama once again. Eventually, Koko was given another chance in which in the beginning she was doing well even with the baiting coming from IB but then she eventually blew it because her two biggest flaws her hot-headedness and her victim complex came out. Those two problems have gotten her in trouble on more than one occasion yet she wants to come back not doing much about them. Even in the apology itself which I stated, Koko didn't state specifically what she did wrong and what she should have done instead so that most likely seems that Koko doesn't know alternate ways of dealing with being baited besides being bash and rash in the situation. And to Koko, if she doesn't know what she did wrong then she wasn't in the wrong to begin with which is also dangerous. I don't have anything personal against Koko nor do I have anything against her coming back but she has to come back when she feels that she's ready from what I have seen so far. I don't think she's ready, her two flaws still come and are way to quick on the ready.
Secondly, this is a big deal because her coming back signifies that perma-ban is not a perma-ban but through seeing of you did wrong, making sure you don't do it again, and reconciling with the staff but instead by just making repeated alts if that's the case then where's Yoshii, Zak, Mantis, Eikson, and Solid? All of them did far less or as much than Koko did and yet she gets a pass? I disagree with that. I know she's on prohibition with Waar's supervision but at least contact those 5 with the same offer as Koko. It's matter of fairness to those who deserve as much of a chance as Koko.
"You're just trying to push her buttons, Shotty"
Yes, my comment on Post your pics thread was uncalled for and I apologize but that was the case then why haven't responded to either thread since I said my piece? If I wanted to push her buttons then Waar would have banned me because Koko is under Waar's supervision like last time and he would punish anyone who would bait her purposely with same punishment as her messing up. A perma-ban. I deserve to express my concerns to her and her supervisor which Waar asked for. I'm doing as the supervisor asks which is the purpose of this thread and the other one. I was just going to ride the drama off to the sunset until you name dropped me back into the thread since I saw it was useless to continue to discuss this since this was already a done deal. Koko is back under Waar again.
An apology is an apology.... You don't like it because it wasn't up to your standards, well to bad....Your free to leave this thread and tell her to not to talk to you ever again. It the internet, so don't expect everything to be done perfectly.
Her apology reflects the fact if there was recognition of what she did wrong, regret, and adaption if she faces the situation again. This is someone who is given a second chance for 2nd time and yet she has to be told that she should make an apology thread instead of having the right of mind to already have done it. Secondly, the apology was halfhearted like a child being forced to apologize by the parent. Did fulfill the requirement? Yes. An apology is an apology but if the apology is lacking I should point it out to make sure that it wasn't purposely halfhearted. An apology is suppose to show the fact you're accept what you did wrong and that you and the other person/people are willing to move on with the person if it's halfhearted, how am I suppose to move on with them? If I can't accept that she's not willing to grow then I'm willing to not forgive her. No, it isn't a crazy standard for an apology it's the standard people hold an apology to. Look at it like this, if someone commits a crime is deeply regret what he has done, willing to change, and knows what to do in that situation for now on. I'm willing to give him parole than someone who just apologizes halfheartedly.
"All I'm seeing is Koko backing up into a corner'd wall and trying to counter it by defending herself aggressively. All of you got to chill the fuck out because this has turn'd out be more of a hate thread than a apology thread."
I can't speak for others in this thread but I can speak for myself. I don't hate Koko. Fun Fact: I actually use to be friends with Koko until she had her meltdown 3 summers ago and I disagreed with her playing victim in something that she did purposely. I just don't want Koko to blow another chance because she wanted to come back too soon. The same thing happened to me that happened to Koko on another forum but I came here and I matured and grew from that experience and through deep contemplation and mediation to a completely different person. I want the same happen to Koko because she's the same person she was when she got banned then she's has no chance of surviving here for any longer than 3-4 weeks.
cruz737 wrote...
Don't really care about kokopuff being unbanned. I wouldn't mind seeing other users who were banned get another chance though.Tegumi wrote...
*shrug* no worries, like I said I play less now, I usually wait for people to ask me to play.I got you. I have 4 day weekend so I may be ready to play one of these days.
DatYuriThough wrote...
Shotty Too Hotty wrote...
DatYuriThough wrote...
Nyara❤ wrote...
DatYuriThough wrote...
Mmm...great now I want Tuna! But I don't think the Hospital would be willing to cater to my request considering how it's 12 at night...You're hospitalized? For what? When I'm hospitalized I bring a few tuna cans with me (or my mom brings some when she visits me) to flavor the non-tasty hospital food. It isn't technically allowed, but my medic allows me and I do it "behind cameras" nevertheless! *Chuckles*.
I hate the IVs.
I have a genetic disorder that leaves me with a very weak immune system. Every month I end up here as a precaution to make sure I don't die basically. Some times it's just a precaution but this one...was more of close call than I'd care to admit. Not a bad idea...I'll remember to do that in future visits xD
Geez. That's scary but you're brave to face that every day with your head up high.
You get used to it after a while. But thanks Shotty~~
Anytime.
DatYuriThough wrote...
Nyara❤ wrote...
DatYuriThough wrote...
Mmm...great now I want Tuna! But I don't think the Hospital would be willing to cater to my request considering how it's 12 at night...You're hospitalized? For what? When I'm hospitalized I bring a few tuna cans with me (or my mom brings some when she visits me) to flavor the non-tasty hospital food. It isn't technically allowed, but my medic allows me and I do it "behind cameras" nevertheless! *Chuckles*.
I hate the IVs.
I have a genetic disorder that leaves me with a very weak immune system. Every month I end up here as a precaution to make sure I don't die basically. Some times it's just a precaution but this one...was more of close call than I'd care to admit. Not a bad idea...I'll remember to do that in future visits xD
Geez. That's scary but you're brave to face that every day with your head up high.



