he won't leave me alone! stalker issues...
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it's exactly as the title said
seems I have a stalker that wouldn't leave me alone
now I'm inside my house,I've locked all the entrances, worried and constantly checking if he is outside, because he knows where I live.
seems I have a stalker that wouldn't leave me alone
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now I'm inside my house,I've locked all the entrances, worried and constantly checking if he is outside, because he knows where I live.
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I have an ex friend that thinks we are still friends, he got the same car as me, always brags about how he is better, and visits my work to try and talk to me, and he supposedly knows where I live even though I havent told him or his friends. Its pretty annoying at this point.
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You can always go and report this to the police. They can send a patrol or station someone by your place. Even if they don't, at least they know.
If you trust them, you can also let your neighbours know about this.
If you trust them, you can also let your neighbours know about this.
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Seconding Jack's suggestion of calling the cops. Stalking and harassment is serious business, and you have your family to worry about as well. File a police report so that there is a record of these incidents that you can use to file a restraining order if the stalking gets worse.
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animefreak_usa
Child of Samael
Hmmm. Wow... i hate asking my brother for five bucks because i don't wanna use my debit card for a soda and i lived with that fucker for 22 years. I assuming the kids father is still in the picture in his children lifes. If he isn't a douchebag you should tell him about this because.. well he could kindly ask him to stop or beat the hell out of him if he a stalker. You can unfriend him on FB. Block his number. And record the convos if you can. You can order him to stop and if he gets too crazy, call the police. They can't arrest him, but since most states and country have anti stalker laws.. he will have a complain on files. It easier to arrest them if there a record of him being nuts.
I had a semi stalker. She just called and posted my name and old cell saying i was a fag who like dicks, call him for a good time, he has a small dick, and other random assortment of mild weird shit. All i did has cut her from my life because she left me there on a sidewalk to have a seizure and die. It's not like i did anything to her. People are just weird folk.
Still the only thing to do is tell someone else who is your family or friends. You should walk in to the police station or the DA office to ask for info and tell them your problems.. they can help more.
I had a semi stalker. She just called and posted my name and old cell saying i was a fag who like dicks, call him for a good time, he has a small dick, and other random assortment of mild weird shit. All i did has cut her from my life because she left me there on a sidewalk to have a seizure and die. It's not like i did anything to her. People are just weird folk.
Still the only thing to do is tell someone else who is your family or friends. You should walk in to the police station or the DA office to ask for info and tell them your problems.. they can help more.
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Gravity cat
the adequately amused
Doesn't just sound like a stalker to me. Sounds like a leech as well, what with the whole "asking for money" thing.
Have you told it to him straight to just bugger off and leave you alone? If you have and he continues with this unhealthy behaviour then yeah I'm gonna agree with everyone else: file a police report.
Have you told it to him straight to just bugger off and leave you alone? If you have and he continues with this unhealthy behaviour then yeah I'm gonna agree with everyone else: file a police report.
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Another vote for police report option. It sounds like you're pretty desperate, and it sounds like a restraining order could be helpful
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Lughost
the Lugoat
Doesn't sound like a stalker, more like a dude trying to exploit you being kind. If you feel that you are in enough danger that you would lock every entrance than I think you should call the police.
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One thing to do: *911*.
Don't hesitate. Don't even think of him as a friend anymore. He has just gone from bad to worst.
Get away. You can't help him. Judicial forces will hear his problems out for you, just...you are not secure.
911.
Don't hesitate. Don't even think of him as a friend anymore. He has just gone from bad to worst.
Get away. You can't help him. Judicial forces will hear his problems out for you, just...you are not secure.
911.
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TheBookie
King of Red
As everyone else said, go to the police, and you mentioned you had kids in your house as well? you have to think of their safety as well.
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Seduce a guy into pummeling him, just hope that he won't turn into a stalker as-well... This seems sorta like a zombie virus doesn't it?
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you actually can party pretty cheaply you know. i mean an entrance to a club is a mere what... $5? and if you dont have a ride you can hitch with a friend of yours.
why did you give him money anyway in the first place... its like giving some to a guy whod ask you in the parking lot telling some sob story... if you were in a worse state, i think you shouldve saved it. i know you were tring to be nice though but...
as for him, ignore it. thats the simplest thing to do i guess.
why did you give him money anyway in the first place... its like giving some to a guy whod ask you in the parking lot telling some sob story... if you were in a worse state, i think you shouldve saved it. i know you were tring to be nice though but...
as for him, ignore it. thats the simplest thing to do i guess.
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The stalker guy sounds desperate and is the type that throws away his pride in order to borrow money according to your description. Sounds like two brothers I use to live with in my old neighborhood. Once he knows that you will give him money and other items, he will continue leech off of you.
Best way to handle this situation is let your friends know and have them come by the house when stalker guy comes. Stalker guy won't be able to persuade you in front of an audience. If that doesn't work, alert the police.
Best way to handle this situation is let your friends know and have them come by the house when stalker guy comes. Stalker guy won't be able to persuade you in front of an audience. If that doesn't work, alert the police.
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seems I can't report him, not just yet.
since he hasn't displayed "enough" actions and behaviour as a stalker.
why did you give him money anyway in the first place... its like giving some to a guy whod ask you in the parking lot telling some sob story... if you were in a worse state, i think you shouldve saved it. i know you were tring to be nice though but...
as for him, ignore it. thats the simplest thing to do i guess.
his sob story was he had undergone an expensive operation. he got his gallstones removed. he showed he his post surgery scars (it doesn't look recent though)
he isn't over thirty yet
and he got his gallstones removed, he shouldn't be partying!
I really hated myself,
since he hasn't displayed "enough" actions and behaviour as a stalker.
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RedSnow wrote...
you actually can party pretty cheaply you know. i mean an entrance to a club is a mere what... $5? and if you dont have a ride you can hitch with a friend of yours.why did you give him money anyway in the first place... its like giving some to a guy whod ask you in the parking lot telling some sob story... if you were in a worse state, i think you shouldve saved it. i know you were tring to be nice though but...
as for him, ignore it. thats the simplest thing to do i guess.
his sob story was he had undergone an expensive operation. he got his gallstones removed. he showed he his post surgery scars (it doesn't look recent though)
he isn't over thirty yet
and he got his gallstones removed, he shouldn't be partying!
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I really hated myself,
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