Asexuality

It turns out I'm an A sexual. I've finally figured myself out after all these years and it never felt so damn good. Now I can finally have a decent conversation with my mother and father. I can face reality with my head held high. God, it's been so long since I've felt this happy. Hopefully you guys have found your self identity and have come to grips with it.


Sorry if you find my post annoying, it's just that I've never felt so happy before. I feel as though I can do anything now.

Oh yeah.. the best and the happiest day, was when i had first time with my GF in a gym room

Asexual?

lol i thought i was the only one who doesnt know what asexual is..........

i know the meaning but he wrote it as a sexual

Asexual means that you have no interest or desire to engage in sex or an sexual activity. Or it can mean you don't know which sex you like.

So I'm going to go with a wtf for this one.

O_O?!?

Asexually reproduce?

No matter how it's spelled, Asexuality is a real sexual orientation. It's just extremely rare or too hard to notice because of all the strong emphasis on gender roles (with good reason of course). I respect and understand all your opinions no matter how harsh they may seem. And since I understand I'll just take them as a joke. In fact I'll throw in one of my own:

Sine I've come to grips with who I am, I can proudly say: FUCK SEX!! MASTURBATION 4 LIFE!!!LolololololoL

But on a serious note, when you're speaking to people in regard to sexual orientation, it's best to just agree to disagree since you have no idea how intense the other person feels about particular issues and values. What can I say? Mother nature is a bitch and Father time is a asshole. I'm especially angry at father time since I've been swimming in melancholy for 24 fucking years.

^As long as your happy dude

On the good side

You dont have to spend $ for a girlfriend
You dont have to spend $ for marriage
You dont have to spend $ for kid's food education etc etc.

You be filthy rich, and I for one would think that its not bad.

Actually I'm thinking of adoption once I start becomming more independent. Of course I have to read up on child rearing and get into the practice of taking care of a living thing by owning a pet.

Thanks for the support. I'll just take it one step at a time.

Goodluck on your adoption WarLord...Hope you lead a new and happy life.

As I can't imagine the feeling of not being sexually attracted to any gender or person I sometimes feel like saying that is a cop out because you cant find someone to fall in love with but again as I don't share any form of those feelings I can't understand yours. I am ignorant of your feelings and I cant empathize for you. I do however wish you luck and hope you don't take my words in a negative manor.

If you were asexual you wouldn't be on this website. Asexuality means you lack sexual desire - you still have desire if you're masturbating. You'd be a subcategory of asexuality, called aromantic.

Yeah about that: I was sexually frustrated for a very long time because I always identified myself as a heterosexual male when I wasn't. My average day was spent mostly through chronic masturbation. So now that I've found my sexual orientation my sex drive immediately plummeted down to a level that fits my lifestyle. In otherwords, my sex drive will from now on be based on my "mood" rather than my false sense of sexual orientation which has been screwing me up all this time. Of course I just came to terms with myself last night so I'm still trying to work everything out. I just have to start adapting to this new way of thinking before drawing any specific conclusions in terms of my sex drive. I'll definitely need therapy because of this my uncertainty of being Asexual or Aromantic.

congrats now you've become the human form of Yuuichi from WTK

I don't think it works that way, you don't just decide over night of what your orientation is and then your body automatically responds accordingly to it <_<

To elaborate, I mean: I can't be this chronic masturbator that you say you used ton be a couple nights ago looking at heterosexual porn and getting off on it, and then go 'oh, I must be asexual' and then suddenly your libido drops and you just have no interest.

I'm not trying to rain on your parade or anything, I felt like I had to deal with a lot of self discovery when it came to religion myself - but orientation wise, I think deciding on your orientation, especially asexuality where you just have no sexual interest whatsoever in either male nor female - is something to really think about for more than a night.