Dear Fakku Guys: Have you ever pretended to be a friend?

Some dudes just have the "nice guy" looks... ;_;

I voted no only because I never actively tried to "get into a girl's pants." The funny thing is, me being me, I end up becoming the emotional dumpster for girls while they end up going out with other guys.

Maybe my sex drive isn't functioning at capacity.

Give them that bad boy vibe by showing them the rape shit you translate.

what? ziggy I'm not sure you're making sense. I'm dumb because i believe males go into every relationship (i mean inter personal) wanting to become a possible mate with a girl, and a large percentage of of the time we dont end up succeeding. Have a more realistic view of the world please.

Lol - I'm not too big on the rape stuff my dudes at LWB translate ;)

Well, chicks dig my Hen-Tie shirt. I'm badass.

No, I meant I think you're being dumb by having to make a thread to prove to somebody who you think is naive.

That and I think you're wrong. Simply because I've had tons of male friends, and I've never had them try to get into my pants.

No, I just never have.

ziggy, i can honestly say with 100% certainty that at least one of the male friends you consider to only want friendship wanted in your pants(at some point), I think every guy in the world will back me up on this. We as humans are programmed with the urge to procreate; males are simply given the right to act openly about it while girls are "supposed" to be chaste and not want sex.

That 1 doesn't make your case though. Try talking to the other handful.

It's not just about sex - them dudes may also have had a crush on you ("trying to get in someone's pants" is not the same as wanting a romantic relationship obviously) but never acted that out. Happened to me a lot. As a guy, you just KNOW when you're in the friend zone. Some cope with it and move on, others stay there for quite some time.

No, I don't think the handful of male friends I've had were secretly lusting over me or trying to get into a relationship with me. I can name a few who were, but the amount who weren't are higher than the ones who were.

There are cases as well where in men do befriend women but not to get to that specific woman, but to another woman who is close to that one.

Another reason why is the thought of insurance, in case the guy would be alone in the future, theyre there already and somewhat prep'd

Men, would do crazy shit just to... its funny that some would even marry hot chicks and say i love yous just coz they look hot and would want to keep on having sex with them even if they really have no other interest in them but that

Some women of course, do know this already, they just pretend naivite and use it as an excuse coz they like it and dont want to let go. Lines like "oh he's just naturally sweet he's not intereseted in me, theres nothing wrong with hanging out with him", esp when they're seeing someone already

I don't know you, so I can't tell.

Basically I'm with you on the whole friendship deal - but secret admirers are everywhere. Especially those who are unsuspicious.

I don't think it's 'a guy' thing, or 'natural' for a guy to only become friends with a female if he wants in a relationship with her or wants in her pants.

I think that's a vain thing. Sorry Waar, but not everybody is vain.

I voted yes, but I didn't pretend should of voted no

Yes I've befriended girls because I was attracted to them but most of the time not with the intent to date them. Flirting a little doesn't hurt right?Taking it to the next step just happens, I don't know how to explain it, you just click with that person.

You're confusing vanity with ulterior motives.

On that note: everyone is vain in some way or another, I'm sorry but now you're being naive, It may not always pertain someone's looks but everyone has standards.

That being said every guy friend you've had has done it, perhaps not to you but they have done it. No one is as perfect as you think they are... I do not maintain that every time you befriend a girl you are trying for ass, simply that every guy has done it at least once in their life. Odds are if you didnt marry the first girl you ever wanted to date then you are probably part of of the yes category, unless you simply have never tried for a girl and live under a rock, in a cave... on mars.

also my apologies to everyone who saw this post, I mistakenly worded it incorrectly, It's true men do sometimes seek less than intercourse, I simply forgot what it was like because I've wanted sex since I was 13?