Do you belong in the kitchen?

It is a problem if it creates unecessary drama, as witnessed in some threads in IB.

Why is it a problem?

Uh oh, here we go again huh g-money? lol

I sense a disturbance in the force. Better get some popcorn.

@Yorozuya: lol

@neko-chan: unecessary drama is unecessary as it also creates uesr tension where little boys and girls can't control themselves and we need administrative staff to step in and wipe their asses.

Ummm... okay...?

I've never seen that happen though, at least where it didn't start with a guy accussing a girl of abusing the power of her ta-tas.
I don't think there is anything to be done regardless. A girl shouldn't hide her identity or the way she acts in fear of gaining attention because she is afraid of causing drama. Guys don't have to hide the fact they are guys or get call out when they act a certain way to gain attention. /IMO

That's not my point. When guy(s) go gaga over girl, and user tension starts escalating, it just becomes one huge mess that's totally unecessary. It might not be one person's fault, but regardless of whose fault it is, it's unecessary drama. When one does it intentionally to garner attention, that's also a problem, and a worse one at that. You've missed some threads, that's all, and I don't intend on pointing out where.

A girl doing it on purpose is shallow, but but again I just think "So what?" Let the idiots fight over the shallow girl.

However, I read your post and understand your point of view.

Personally, I am 100.17329423% female and 94% lesbian. (Only 94% because I'm still interested in the otaku type guy!)

I am also in hiding.

Male, though I tend to act more womanly than anything, so it depends. I'm male on a good day though. Also, 99.9% straight. I use that other .1% for posing for pictures ranging from just holding hands to straight up kissing with men(that I know) at cons to get free food. Works too, I suggest you all try it, if your manly enough.

HEY GUYS, I HAVE A VAGINA.

DOES THIS MAKE ME A GIRL?

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Thread is full of invalid information.

I'm a female in hiding. My pic:

:S idk why it is but for some reason i feel really confused about this topic :lol:. Ok so like I'm a dude and sometimes i wish i was born a girl :lol: so i can nickname myself Raven XD. Plus i like to cook a lot and i can basically do anything a girl can do, except give birth, and i dont really enjoy things that dudes do though. Stereotypical shit isnt my thing so i cry more often that i get mad. Does that make me a dude, or does it make me a chick? You're gonna wonder but i dont give a shit! :lol: I also have no idea what im even talking about.

Hmm... on the subject of the kitchen... I'm working on my cooking skills because apparently nowadays the men have to know have to cook since most women don't, it's also a good way to score points with whoever you're trying to impress. :)

Seeing as this is a site for adults, I would of thought that an adult male would have a mature mentality when it came to dealing with females. Though, because of immature users - they ruin it for everyone. Girls can't admit their girls without being called attention whores. Some guys get all crazy over one chick. Other guys complain that she's getting so much attention / reputation because she's a girl.

It's stupid.

Just because others have the mentality of a 13 year old, doesn't mean a girl should hide herself from fear of being called an attention whore or in fear of getting bothered by others.

I don't see how it's a girls fault for admitting what she is.

When a male admits his gender no one makes a big deal out of, no drama comes from it. So why the all sudden change when a female admits what gender she is? Immature people.

Though, this won't ever change because there will always be immature fan boys here.
It's something that if you see, you should just ignore. There's no point in complaining about it.

@Rayne: It is stupid. Unfortunately much of the FAKKU! userbase consists of so-called immature idiots that fuss over a girl or whatnot. If a girl gets attention by being cutesy, but unintentional, that's fine. (But then again, how do we distinguish what's intentional and unintentional behavior? - that's our silver lining.) When drama build up, it's just totally unecessary. I don't give girls special treatment in that sense, but I tend to take their opinions much more seriously because from what I've seen, the older female members on this site are much more level-headed and mature than their male counterparts.

You have to admit that a user getting rep for being the opposite sex is frustrating. Oh hai guyz, Im male, plz +rep me! Pwease? - it doesn't work like that. Seeing how the majority of the site's percentage is made of males, the minority becomes that much more celebrated attention-wise, which of course is unintentional. The rep that follows I don't agree with just because one is of the different sex.

There has been issues in the past with previous female users before you were an active member. They create this huge fuss in the IB section catering to the male population of 'look at me, I'm a horny girl into anime' Where they'd roleplay doing dirty things, or just outright beyond Tee-Hee~ ^_^;!<3--^fewg4w3gl,vserfgrwgher-@!!!!!!!!!2e[l;, ve'a

It's fine if there's one thread with it, but when every single thread they make turns into it then it gets overwhelmingly annoying and it's just about a smack in the face for every single female user on Fakku.

That's what we talk about when 'unnecessary' drama occurs about female attention.

You get the way over the top females having to spell out in every thread, announce on their signature IM A GIRL (yes, people have done that), flirt with every single guy, etc etc and then when the guys who are level headed tell the girl to shut the fuck up and close her legs, you get the guys slobbering over her getting defensive and excessively repping her - they call in their troops and a big overdrawn mess occurs.

In response to your "So what?" if girls get special attention just due to their gender, that doesn't bother you at all? You're a person I'd put more on the level headed type of posters.

Wouldn't you want respect because you're a cool person, you can carry the same conversations as everyone else, you're respected by the points you make, etc? Wouldn't you get upset if someone repped you just because you have breasts?

@ZiggyOtaku: You voiced what I was afraid to type in, because from what I've seen, it seems like the attention-garnering is intentional, though the purpose of creating a boy-army probably isn't.

@ziggy

Yes I would want respect for being level headed and for the post I make. And I also think it is really shallow for a girl to flaunt her money makers for attention. I would think anyone could see how degrading that should be.

But if a girl wants to be a whore I say "So What?" Not in the sense of "So what is wrong with that?" but more like "So what? let her be a slut - she doesn't have my respect though." It isn't really my priority to make sure there isn't a cum bucket who may be cybering with every guy on here.

So yes it bothers me that someone would do that, but I'd leave the idiots to fight over the cyber whore and not think a second time about it. Of course, this is just how I feel - maybe if I saw it playout in front of me and knew the specifics and all that my opinion would (maybe) change.

@neko-chan: It's precisely because you haven't seen the shit unravel in front of you that you don't care. It really is annoying and it disrupts the flow of the community through unecessary drama and creates negative feelings and tension all around, which can lead to further de-reppings and severed relationships. THAT's why I care because all of it leads to bullshit. The case I'm thinking about was a fight amongst immature users and was totally not her fault.

Btw guys, I made 3333 posts! I just noticed it a moment ago.