Found out my male friend of a year or so is a girl..awkward
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shinji_ikari
Mustn't Run Away...
Renovartio wrote...
sounds like a hentai plot or a normal manga plot twist >.>how about you talk to her and ask
Dear [insert name here]
Are you a dude ? cause in the bikini you wore i couldn't tell.
I know we've hung out for over a year ,but i just cant tell.
So like do you have a dick ??
Please circle Y/N .....
Ya...theirs no way asking someone that isn't weird...
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I think you should just be honest, maybe she does not know what she wants to be...
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She's (or her) is gonna end up being a reverse-reverse trap.
OH SHI-
What if he was just pretending to be a woman that pretended to be a guy?
Exactly.
Board shorts? She's obviously hiding something.
I'm very girly and I wear board shorts...it looks cool and can hide the fact that you messed the waxing procedure.
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shinji_ikari wrote...
Azuran wrote...
Nashrakh wrote...
Azuran wrote...
[quote="Nashrakh"]Reverse trap win. Hit on her.She's (or her) is gonna end up being a reverse-reverse trap.
OH SHI-
What if he was just pretending to be a woman that pretended to be a guy?
Exactly.
Board shorts? She's obviously hiding something.
I'm very girly and I wear board shorts...it looks cool and can hide the fact that you messed the waxing procedure.
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shinji_ikari wrote...
Ya..I know what your all thinking "how can you not notice" , "your an idiot" ,and probably a bit of "would you fuck her"..I guess I should start by saying my friend is a 5'2" asian female..flat as a board ,and dresses in mens clothing...she introduces herself as "Alex" ,and since I'm not a homo never tried to see her naked . It wasn't till last week when we went on a beach trip and she showed up in a bikini top and board shorts I noticed. None of my other friend who knew her had any clue either. She doesn't use public restrooms due to some problem with germs ,and when we called her "dude" or "man" never corrected us once. So for all purpose we treated her as one of the guys cause she honestly does look like one in her huge glasses , baggy clothes ,and always present cigarette in her mouth. she studies a lot and attends a different college than us, so we really only see each other when our anime club meets up ,or if we go to a party/club..so i've come to fakku to ask what should we do about all this, should we keep treating her as a dude, confront her on it, or try treating her more like a girl ?Dude, that is fucking hot. I would tap that like the fist of an angry god.
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Do you feel sexually attracted to her?
Based on your posts I guess you don't, but whatever, if you do, that complicates things a little, but if you don't, why treat her different. Just keep pretending she's a guy. She'll surely say something about it when she feels comfortable enough with you or your friends, i'm sure.
And then when that happens, gangbang time!
just kidding.
Based on your posts I guess you don't, but whatever, if you do, that complicates things a little, but if you don't, why treat her different. Just keep pretending she's a guy. She'll surely say something about it when she feels comfortable enough with you or your friends, i'm sure.
And then when that happens, gangbang time!
just kidding.
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Nashrakh
Little White Butterflies Staff
We need visual material to further evaluate which course of action to take in this situation.
short: pics. We want them.
short: pics. We want them.
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Nashrakh wrote...
We need visual material to further evaluate which course of action to take in this situation.short: pics. We want them.
seconded
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Nashrakh wrote...
We need visual material to further evaluate which course of action to take in this situation.short: pics. We want them.
If someone needed a tl;dr for that, then they are a lazy, inconsiderate douche.
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Nashrakh
Little White Butterflies Staff
Quadratic wrote...
If someone needed a tl;dr for that, then they are a lazy, inconsiderate douche.
Too naive. Yeah, I mean you.
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Nashrakh wrote...
We need visual material to further evaluate which course of action to take in this situation. short: pics. We want them.
I doubt that you'll post pics of your friend, but they would be a great help in identifying what your best course of action would be. Still, she must really, really, REALLY act (and look, sorry -_-) like a guy if you mistook her for a dude this entire time (as you elaborated on earlier)... but damn... you've got quite the situation here.
If I myself were in that kind of situation... first of all I'd scream "HOLY CRAP" till my throat wore out... and then... I'd probably just suck it up and try to explain that I thought she was a guy and ask if she's really a girl cuz of the bikini top and all (though I'd die from the embarassment shortly after x_x)... But beware the reverse-reverse trap.
Renovartio wrote...
sounds like a hentai plot or a normal manga plot twist >.>I completely agree. Some H-author could swing by this topic and use your experience for a doujin xD Just kidding rofl.
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Harmonian wrote...
Sounds ugly.That or has an unusually deep voice for a girl.
shinji_ikari wrote...
so i've come to fakku to ask what should we do about all this, should we keep treating her as a dude, confront her on it, or try treating her more like a girl ?There's no reason to treat her differently, unless you'd punch her arm or crap like that. I'm honestly surprised you didn't notice she was a girl, her hair short also or something?
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shinji_ikari wrote...
Renovartio wrote...
sounds like a hentai plot or a normal manga plot twist >.>how about you talk to her and ask
Dear [insert name here]
Are you a dude ? cause in the bikini you wore i couldn't tell.
I know we've hung out for over a year ,but i just cant tell.
So like do you have a dick ??
Please circle Y/N .....
Ya...theirs no way asking someone that isn't weird...
well its to just find out then being worried about it. You might find out it reallys isnt as big of a deal as you think it is
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Lt. Rand0m wrote...
Nashrakh wrote...
We need visual material to further evaluate which course of action to take in this situation. short: pics. We want them.
I doubt that you'll post pics of your friend, but they would be a great help in identifying what your best course of action would be. Still, she must really, really, REALLY act (and look, sorry -_-) like a guy if you mistook her for a dude this entire time (as you elaborated on earlier)... but damn... you've got quite the situation here.
Be honest, you're not gonna use the pics for detective work.
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Azuran wrote...
Be honest, you're not gonna use the pics for detective work.I think we all know he's going to detect his boner and viciously beat it into submission till it spews forth the truth about what to do.
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Azuran wrote...
Be honest, you're not gonna use the pics for detective work.
Must have been the way I worded it rofl... and c'mon, we're trying to offer this guy helpful suggestions for his dilemma, it does him no good to nitpick at other people's comments. Do it if it makes you feel good I guess, it's just not all that helpful...
Aeruthus wrote...
Azuran wrote...
Be honest, you're not gonna use the pics for detective work.I think we all know he's going to detect his boner and viciously beat it into submission till it spews forth the truth about what to do.
Jerk >=[ Don't be like that.
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Lt. Rand0m wrote...
Aeruthus wrote...
Azuran wrote...
Be honest, you're not gonna use the pics for detective work.I think we all know he's going to detect his boner and viciously beat it into submission till it spews forth the truth about what to do.
Jerk >=[ Don't be like that.
Awh, ok fine I take it back, he's going to use it to determine if she's hot enough for the OP to stick his penis in.
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shinji_ikari
Mustn't Run Away...
Aeruthus wrote...
Harmonian wrote...
Sounds ugly.That or has an unusually deep voice for a girl.
shinji_ikari wrote...
so i've come to fakku to ask what should we do about all this, should we keep treating her as a dude, confront her on it, or try treating her more like a girl ?There's no reason to treat her differently, unless you'd punch her arm or crap like that. I'm honestly surprised you didn't notice she was a girl, her hair short also or something?
I said i treat her like one of the guys so ya I punched or smacked her around when we where all joking but now it seems wrong ,and she has one of those effeminate unisex emo haircuts not really short just not really giving anything away ,and her voice isn't deep , but her manner of speaking isn't girly at all..not every guy has the voice of morgan freeman..
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shinji_ikari wrote...
Aeruthus wrote...
Harmonian wrote...
Sounds ugly.That or has an unusually deep voice for a girl.
shinji_ikari wrote...
so i've come to fakku to ask what should we do about all this, should we keep treating her as a dude, confront her on it, or try treating her more like a girl ?There's no reason to treat her differently, unless you'd punch her arm or crap like that. I'm honestly surprised you didn't notice she was a girl, her hair short also or something?
I said i treat her like one of the guys so ya I punched or smacked her around when we where all joking but now it seems wrong ,and she has one of those effeminate unisex emo haircuts not really short just not really giving anything away ,and her voice isn't deep , but her manner of speaking isn't girly at all..not every guy has the voice of morgan freeman..
Well not every guy hits his guy friends, so figured I'd ask. I'd say you should talk to her and voice your concern for continuing treating her the same, then just go with what she says on how to handle it. Ah got it, yeah that'd make it harder to tell, especially since lots of emo guys already look like girls. True, but I've yet to meet a guy who's voice is high enough to make me think he's a girl. But all the things you've described put together would make it pretty easy to decide on believing she's a he.
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That's weird. You could just say, "Hey, I thought you were a dude, dude." And laugh about it. But that's inconsiderate. You could say that you thought she was a guy when you first met and then laugh... but that's still inconsiderate...
Just be friends. Don't change the way you treat her or she gonna hate you.
Just be friends. Don't change the way you treat her or she gonna hate you.
