Found out my male friend of a year or so is a girl..awkward

Then just ask "How come you were wearing a bikini top at the beach trip?" and see what kind of response you get. If it's so important to you to find out what her gender is then ask, and if you feel too awkward to ask then drop it. It shouldn't even matter anyways, he/she is your friend either way, and if she didn't complain about the Falcon Punches way back when then you shouldn't feel bad just because she's a girl. If she couldn't take the hits or was bothered by it she'd probably floor you anyways.



I'm ignoring you now. Your comments aren't worth getting angry over.

I say ask her how she wants to be treated. That is the shortest way to figure out rather than asking Fakku.

she's in the profile pic , took the image off the facebook since i dont actually take pictures lol..i suppose its easier to imagine without her wearing these

Looks like a girl to me.

Maybe you should be the one wearing the glasses. Just saying.

I believe this is the reason why she is like the way she is.

The next time you all go swimming, YOU show up in a bikini top and short shorts.

You were right, her face kind of looks like a guy's, but to be honest I think the hairstyle would be enough to tip me off that she may/may not be a girl... if she's really a girl rofl, but I see how she/he looks like a guy...

THIS.

Anyways. How can you not tell between a boy and a girl?
Look in peoples eyes and face. you can usually tell.

this was amazing..

Why should the situation have to change? You know it, doesn't mean the situation has to be awkward from then on. Not a big deal one way or another.

What Nash said. Fuck her

I go with Tsurayu this time ..

Not a big deal .. changing your way for treating her will make the situation awkward .. you have no need to change ..

and read that she didn't complain being recognized as man .. means she okay with it ..

^ this

Not necessarily. I don't like wearing regular bottoms with swimsuits, just because I don't like showing that much skin. If it's not okay for me to wear underwear in public, I don't see how it's automatically okay to wear something tiny to swim in.

ya..what the picture doesn't show is her foul mouth , raspy smoker voice, baggy clothes and just her entire disposition , going by this single picture sure its easy to judge , but if you saw her regulary i swear you'd think diffrent

This^, you're not in love with her or anything, just friends, and since she acted totally like a guy, she might just be better treated the same. When you go out/play with friends, the fun you have isnt dependent on their genital organs are they? I say stay the way it is, if not, she might have a change in attitude.

Don't feel bad.

I've had the same issue before.

I thought it was a guy. Always went along when called dude, had a neutral voice, not deep not very high pitched. Always had a hoodie on, baggy pants etc.

Then someone called her Ashley.

And I looked like a total ass going "That's a chick?"

Good times really.