So i got raped this weekend...
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Ramsus wrote...
Yeah I'm kinda thinking she liked you for a while and thought you probably wouldn't be interested in her and ended up doing that out of desperation or something. Though it's not like I know her or anything so that's just a guess.im not thinking thats the case. i hoped if that was the way shed have said something. shes had the oppritunity.
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Wow, that sounds a lot like my boyfriend and I.
But, did you ever ask her to take a more serious / leading role [her being more dominant] in your sex life? If you did that could explain why she went from nice to bitch/rapist.
If you didn't comment her on anything, it's a weird case but it does happen.
Did she say anything about that night yet or have you not talked to her since then yet?
But, did you ever ask her to take a more serious / leading role [her being more dominant] in your sex life? If you did that could explain why she went from nice to bitch/rapist.
If you didn't comment her on anything, it's a weird case but it does happen.
Did she say anything about that night yet or have you not talked to her since then yet?
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weve never done it before so no i hadnt ever asked her.... does mentioning that i really liked rape in hentai count?
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IsTehErreip wrote...
weve never done it before so no i hadnt ever asked her.... does mentioning that i really liked rape in hentai count?That's be weird as fuck but...then again I suppose so. Actually as an end result that'd be pretty funny to find out that was why.
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Ramsus wrote...
IsTehErreip wrote...
weve never done it before so no i hadnt ever asked her.... does mentioning that i really liked rape in hentai count?That's be weird as fuck but...then again I suppose so. Actually as an end result that'd be pretty funny to find out that was why.
im not sure if id laugh or cry...probably both...and then id fap a little...
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IsTehErreip wrote...
Ramsus wrote...
IsTehErreip wrote...
weve never done it before so no i hadnt ever asked her.... does mentioning that i really liked rape in hentai count?That's be weird as fuck but...then again I suppose so. Actually as an end result that'd be pretty funny to find out that was why.
im not sure if id laugh or cry...probably both...and then id fap a little...
fapping solves all problems except erectial disfunction your preatty much screwed.
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elfen lied wrote...
it isn't rape it's jus sex you didn't know you wanted ... excuse meThat would explain why i was so damn hard...
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Well, from what you've said she doesn't sound like a crazy psycho who's gonna escalate to killing you, buuuuut maybe it might be a good idea to take some more defensive actions. Just to be on the safe side you know.
Sure, you're thinking "Oh, she would never hurt me", but before this happened wouldn't you have thought "Oh, she would never rape me" if someone mentioned it? Buy a new lock or something, tell another close friend that you can trust to keep a secret about what happened.
When all is said and done, you are the victim and you've been taken advantage of by someone you trusted, don't lose sight of that. I also agree with everyone who's saying to not rape her back (like that can EVER be good advice?). I suggest a joint counseling session with someone qualified to mediate, a psychiatrist or a priest maybe. If she can do something like this, she's definitely got some issues to work out. Keep safe!
Sure, you're thinking "Oh, she would never hurt me", but before this happened wouldn't you have thought "Oh, she would never rape me" if someone mentioned it? Buy a new lock or something, tell another close friend that you can trust to keep a secret about what happened.
When all is said and done, you are the victim and you've been taken advantage of by someone you trusted, don't lose sight of that. I also agree with everyone who's saying to not rape her back (like that can EVER be good advice?). I suggest a joint counseling session with someone qualified to mediate, a psychiatrist or a priest maybe. If she can do something like this, she's definitely got some issues to work out. Keep safe!
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Well, if she was my friend for 3 years running and was a very good one, I wouldn't just ditch her and never talk to her again after this. After all, you don't want to lose such a great friend do you? Also ask yourself this question: Do you love her? Maybe she might be the one. Maybe she just needs some guidance and for you to teach her to be more confident in herself. Even if you don't love her, a friend should be there for a friend. Explain that you aren't pissed about having sex with her, just that you are frustrated that she couldn't be more open with you and tell you her true feelings. I'm sure you would've helped her out with her problem right? Even if you don't want a steady relationship with her, at least tell her that sex between you two is no problem between friends. The more you wait to tell her all of this, the more distant she will become.
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IsTehErreip wrote...
weve never done it before so no i hadnt ever asked her.... does mentioning that i really liked rape in hentai count?
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are you fucking serious man? to be honest i have a slight reluctance to believe it, the fact that the first fetish that was quired was right on the money is a little to convenient. sorry for my disbelief, but is this what really happened? because if it isnt, i would like to know the truth so we can help you with the real problem. the set up of this would be lie feels like something i can relate to so again, my appologies for presuming.
now that i got that out of my system... ill give you the benefit of the doubt, lets say this happened. what would i do? i think this was a blatant act of sexual release that she wanted to express. she either really likes you, really likes sex, or both. why not take advantage of this? if you like the girl, i say express it through words or like she did, physically. ask her to come over one day or vice versa, confront her about the topic and your feelings or just give her a taste of her own medicine. lol chances are thats what she wants, i doubt she wouldnt expect a rebuttle after giving it to you like that.
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now that i got that out of my system... ill give you the benefit of the doubt, lets say this happened. what would i do? i think this was a blatant act of sexual release that she wanted to express. she either really likes you, really likes sex, or both. why not take advantage of this? if you like the girl, i say express it through words or like she did, physically. ask her to come over one day or vice versa, confront her about the topic and your feelings or just give her a taste of her own medicine. lol chances are thats what she wants, i doubt she wouldnt expect a rebuttle after giving it to you like that.
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i dont blame you for not believing me, but i dont have a reason to lie about it. esspecially on a forum in a hentai site. i wasnt asking for sympathy or attention, just some advice which i got and am thankful for.
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I gotta say I'm a little disappointed at how little outrage there is here. Seems like the general attitude is "He got what!? Raped? Awww, that's so cute, you should go ask her out now." I mean, someone got raped! If it were a girl, we'd all be up in arms ready with pitchforks and torches =/. Yes there's a difference, but in the end, someone was still taken advantage of, a crime was commited. Maybe some of you were just joking and not taking it seriously. Anyway, I meant what I said before, protect yourself.
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cooperboy321 wrote...
I gotta say I'm a little disappointed at how little outrage there is here. Seems like the general attitude is "He got what!? Raped? Awww, that's so cute, you should go ask her out now." I mean, someone got raped! If it were a girl, we'd all be up in arms ready with pitchforks and torches =/. Yes there's a difference, but in the end, someone was still taken advantage of, a crime was commited. Maybe some of you were just joking and not taking it seriously. Anyway, I meant what I said before, protect yourself.i truely do appreciate your concern and caring but i was the one kinda defending her. fortunatly we ended up talking it out over the course of 3 days. but again thank you and your views are absolutly correct.
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Mr. Stalker wrote...
Ya know I cant help but to wonder how this worked out... Im thinking chains and a whip? :wink:rope and sleeping pills