Of course porn can affect you... just like anything and everything in life. Lol... I love people that want to ban porn and video games, as if their existence for the last ~30 years of human history account for the same things that have been happening since the dawn of humanity. Explaining millennia of violence, abuse, pedos, etc. because we now have images of that available. And yet... concurrent to the rise of porn and violent media, gov stats from across the entire US and all developed nations show drastic reductions in violent offenses of all kinds (rape incl.) and women's rights have advanced more in the time that porn has existed than any other time in human history. If Porn and violent media aren't the cause of massive reductions in sexism, rape, assault, and murder, then, at the very least, they have not inhibited the reduction in all of those things. For every psychological study that says it's bad or damaging I can find at least one that says it is innocuous, causes no harm, and is beneficial in satiating desires and fulfilling basic human needs.
I've been watching/reading/looking at porn for 16 years now. I respect women, far more than many of my contemporaries, I have strong long term non-sexual and plenty of sexual relationships. I'm happy and content man. My only major issue in life is people like OP trying to force their judgmental, hate filled personal preferences on me and everyone else.
You can use outdated and invalid feminist arguments or biblical preaching to justify your personal preferences onto everyone else, but in the end you're just a person trying to force your preferences, weaknesses, vulnerabilities, fears, etc. on everyone else.
I can't handle my alcohol, so it should be banned.
I have a hard time seeing at night so all night driving should be banned.
I got overly excited by naked ladies so they shouldn't be allowed.
I watched Saw and now I'm a psychopath, all violent movies should be banned.
One last note... there's a difference between prescriptive media (that tells you, instructs you how to act and behave, explains the universe and human existence) and passive media (it's just there for consumption, with no pretense to explain the universe or how things should be). If you want a great example of human capacity to pick and choose our actions and ideologies look at religious folks who are instructed as to how they should go on Jihad, and no sex before marriage, and women go into the woods for two weeks during their period etc. etc. and yet people get over that, and make their own life decisions. There are tons of good people that are religious and read texts that instruct them in all kinds of outdated and horrible things, but they're progressive, modern people. That's interpretation of the Word of God. People can even more easily ignore or adapt their thoughts and behavior to passive media that is there merely for short term pleasure and enjoyment, and expects, or demands nothing more of it's readers.