A long time infatuation....
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neko-chan wrote...
I think you are more in love with the idea of being with her than you are actually in love with the girl herself.I agree. Can't be said more enough. I think I fall under the influence of that generalization all too well.
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Zero_Hour wrote...
Damn do I know that feeling. I knew a girl since middle school and I always had a crush on her. I still do, but I know she wont go out with me. I gathered up the courage and told her finally in my senior year of high school. She rejected me, and we didn't talk for a while, but when our friendship was repaired it sure was great not having to hide anything anymore. We still like to spend time together, even if it's not as a couple.Dude, that was really so sad... I mean even though she knew that you have a crush on her still she's always by your side... is it? or it's just pity? IDK.
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Tegumi wrote...
zero ayanami @ Oct 20, 2010 at 2:52 am wrote...
Opening postzero ayanami @ Oct 20, 2010 at 8:28 am wrote...
WHAT THE?! No one's posting a reply?! Could it be that I'm only experiencing this alone?6 hours and no reply?! Nobody must have anything to say, then!
Maybe your right! lol!
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MrLeopoldBloom wrote...
[quote="neko-chan"]I think you are more in love with the idea of being with her than you are actually in love with the girl herself.I agree... now I understand...
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i actually never had this happen to me before :B
But i do know people who have been through this
i never and i mean never have an interest in just someone i barely ever know.I can't just see a guy and be like i want him!!He may be attractive and whatnot but that's not enough to get me insanely wanting them.So because of that it's interesting to read about others that do the opposite such as yourself.
The more you wait and wait hoping for things to change it just won't change unless someone takes action.Perhaps your a shy one and not used to taking charge but if you really want it you need to make the change.
But i do know people who have been through this
i never and i mean never have an interest in just someone i barely ever know.I can't just see a guy and be like i want him!!He may be attractive and whatnot but that's not enough to get me insanely wanting them.So because of that it's interesting to read about others that do the opposite such as yourself.
The more you wait and wait hoping for things to change it just won't change unless someone takes action.Perhaps your a shy one and not used to taking charge but if you really want it you need to make the change.
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If you still see her all the time, you should just tell her. I doubt it is going to work, but you at least need to tell her so you can move on. If you don't see her anymore, I think you are more in love with the idea of being with her than you are actually in love with the girl herself.
Soooo true.
There's a BiG difference between you being inlove and you being inlove ONLY with the idea that you're inlove.
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well as for myself...
I was a freak after this girl for years, but I never gave up and did the impossible ^^
now we're engaged
I was a freak after this girl for years, but I never gave up and did the impossible ^^
now we're engaged
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Ah I had this too for a long time. Eventually she ended up getting married and is now working on having some children so I finally got over it then. You either act on your feelings or you don't. Time will decide what happens after.
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@zero ayanami: Double/triple posting does not endear yourself to the community. Please stop it, there is a edit button for a reason.
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Don't hold back at all, just do it. Worst case scenario is that you'll have an awkward friendship after that, or she'll hate you. You can always mend the ties if you REALLY want too, but there's more than one fish in the sea. As for me, I have the opposite problem. If someone catches my interest, then I just go for it.
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DarthKadius
Emperor's Wrath
There was a girl that I grew up with that I really cared for, not sure if it was to the point of love but I really cared for her. We did kinda go out for abit but we were young and just starting to figure things out, but I never did tell her how i really felt. We lost touch after I moved twice and 6yrs later but now we are chattin again over facebook. Though now shes married so kinda tellin her would seem abit awkward, well to me atleast, but hey even now I still care for her since we grew up together from kindergarten to the 7th grade when I moved.
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Ramzen Zeners wrote...
Me too,I had a crush on this girl since Highschool
I try to communicate with her during College
Now I graduated in College and already have a stable job I started to go out with her..
But things right now are not going well between the two of us..
Every Christmas I always wish she will be mine...
So it means I've been wishing the same wish for about 5years already but still nothing happens..
I want her to be mine, hoping my wish will came true this coming Christams..
Don't make it a wish....don't keep dreaming. It's you who needs to make that dream into a reality. Hoping and waiting doesn't get you anywhere. Man up, and ask her out. Worst thing that is going to happen is she'll say no. Yeah it might suck, but at that point you still have the option of being friends. Holding yourself back and torturing yourself of whether or not she will be yours will just blind you of others that might be interested in you.
Trust me I've been there. I was so infatuated with this one girl that I gave up the chance of going out with some other very beautiful girls....FOUR TIMES. Looking back at it and typing it now makes me realize how much of an idiot I was/am for wasting all that time and potential relationships.
