A question of interest.
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Kalistean wrote...
*sighs* You're not very bright, are you Katamari?"Maybe he wouldn't have had a reason to cheat if his g/f wouldn't have given him it."
No, that is called justification. We use it when we're at fault to try and make what we did not as bad.
See, no matter how you try to dice it, he willingly cheated on his g/f. There is NEVER a reason to cheat.
NEVER.
There is plenty of reason to break up with someone. But not to cheat. Cheating on someone is your own fucking fault.
And he cheated.
And to top it all off. You're actually saying that them doing the exact same thing, except by adding a whole other person makes it better?
Lawl, what?
U mad??? What kind of loyalty check is that when you almost try to make him cheat so you have a prove that he cheated :S Its stupid enough that he said yes but even more stupid that she actually had the doubt to do such a thing and for the las time I NEVER SAID HE DIDNT CHEAT, im just saying that his gf is deliberately giving him a reason to, and yes if she wanted to check his loyalty then it makes more sense when someone else is doing it herself than she herself, you can never know why he flirted with his gf undercover but with someone else doing it at least she wouldve had evidence that he doesnt know that her or anything similar to it. And i agree its already wrong that they are doing this crap so better not add a third person but thats why i said its better if they broke up anyway. I completely agree with what sdennis said
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Takerial
Lovable Teddy Bear
Well obviously she had reason to, because, well he cheated.
You're still not getting it. There is no reason to cheat. There is reasons to break up, but not to cheat. Saying that he had a reason to cheat is an attempt to justify his actions.
You can't pin the cheating on the girlfriend.
You can pin the untrusting behavior on her, but not the cheating. It don't work that way kid.
It's not hard to know if someone realizes who you are or not. Or are you saying that he realized it was her, and then just pursued a completely new relationship with her alter ego? Yeaaaah.
You're still not getting it. There is no reason to cheat. There is reasons to break up, but not to cheat. Saying that he had a reason to cheat is an attempt to justify his actions.
You can't pin the cheating on the girlfriend.
You can pin the untrusting behavior on her, but not the cheating. It don't work that way kid.
It's not hard to know if someone realizes who you are or not. Or are you saying that he realized it was her, and then just pursued a completely new relationship with her alter ego? Yeaaaah.
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Kalistean wrote...
Well obviously she had reason to, because, well he cheated.You're still not getting it. There is no reason to cheat. There is reasons to break up, but not to cheat. Saying that he had a reason to cheat is an attempt to justify his actions.
You can't pin the cheating on the girlfriend.
You can pin the untrusting behavior on her, but not the cheating. It don't work that way kid.
It's not hard to know if someone realizes who you are or not. Or are you saying that he realized it was her, and then just pursued a completely new relationship with her alter ego? Yeaaaah.
But he never cheated on her before so why the doubt? Simply put they couldve continued the relationship without her spying on him and acting like some fucking james bond :S and for gods sake i didnt say he didnt cheat!!!! he did!!! its his fault!!! But it wasnt neccesary to put him in a position where he can cheat either -.-" thats why i say her actions were immoral and based on nothing since he never cheated before, if she had doubt just because its a long-distance relationship she shouldnt be in it anyway and thats why i said its good that they broke up. However i cant say that she isnt at fault here, she decided to spy on him and had no trust in him, such a relationship is fundamentally wrong and not because of him but because of her since he didnt cheat until she gave him a opportunity to do so,who knows why he did it??? i dont even give a fuck but its wrong from her to give him an opportunity and when he takes it to base some cheating logic on it, he did cheat but both are equally fault, he for his cheating, her for not trusting him and even giving him a chance to cheat :S
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Hey retards. I can't believe we're still arguing over something so obvious.
Katamari, whether it be his untrusting psycho girlfriend or some other girl, he would've found SOME opportunity to cheat. Just because it was his untrusting psycho girlfriend don't mean shit. Yea, she gave him an opportunity, but trust me, the guy would've found some other opportunity and ran with it. Honestly, he would've found some other opportunity.
Kalistean: I agree with you since you practically elaborate on my first post. Girlfriend pulled shitty move, but guy took the bait and cheated.
Thank youuu.
Katamari, whether it be his untrusting psycho girlfriend or some other girl, he would've found SOME opportunity to cheat. Just because it was his untrusting psycho girlfriend don't mean shit. Yea, she gave him an opportunity, but trust me, the guy would've found some other opportunity and ran with it. Honestly, he would've found some other opportunity.
Kalistean: I agree with you since you practically elaborate on my first post. Girlfriend pulled shitty move, but guy took the bait and cheated.
Thank youuu.
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LostQuartet wrote...
Hey retards. I can't believe we're still arguing over something so obvious.Katamari, whether it be his untrusting psycho girlfriend or some other girl, he would've found SOME opportunity to cheat. Just because it was his untrusting psycho girlfriend don't mean shit. Yea, she gave him an opportunity, but trust me, the guy would've found some other opportunity and ran with it. Honestly, he would've found some other opportunity.
Kalistean: I agree with you since you practically elaborate on my first post. Girlfriend pulled shitty move, but guy took the bait and cheated.
Thank youuu.
I respect your posts, but i beg to differ in this one, i originally stared posting here because cheating is wayyyyyy overrated all the time while all other facts are ignored, i simply think that its her fault as much as his, seeing her jealous not trusting behavior kinda makes me sure that she usually behaves like that, maybe with that he had a reason, anyway theres always two needed to argue and seeing this kinda proves my point that the relationship is kinda stupid to begin with becausse of her doubt so i would say they are just about 50%/50% with the guilt for this happening, cose even without this cheating this relationship wouldve broken down sooner or later with her spy like obsessive personality.
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In a nutshell:
Kata: Is bad he cheated, but is just as bad she tested him.
Kali: He's an idiot no matter what.
Kata, you said that this isn't a mind reading contest. Don't you think that maybe he did something who made her feel insecure? And if not, hey, she was right. So there's no point for this. Yeah, she's a damn evil witch, so? she is not just that, she is a damn evil CLEVER witch.
Kata: Is bad he cheated, but is just as bad she tested him.
Kali: He's an idiot no matter what.
Kata, you said that this isn't a mind reading contest. Don't you think that maybe he did something who made her feel insecure? And if not, hey, she was right. So there's no point for this. Yeah, she's a damn evil witch, so? she is not just that, she is a damn evil CLEVER witch.
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C13R-66Y wrote...
In a nutshell:Kata: Is bad he cheated, but is just as bad she tested him.
Kali: He's an idiot no matter what.
Kata, you said that this isn't a mind reading contest. Don't you think that maybe he did something who made her feel insecure? And if not, hey, she was right. So there's no point for this. Yeah, she's a damn evil witch, so? she is not just that, she is a damn evil CLEVER witch.
I thought of this too, but this is kinda too important and it would surely be mentioned in the text at the beginning if he had done something to cheat on her, after all his friend is writing it so he should know if he really did something that would draw attention that hes fond of cheating. And yeah shes not bad lol thou it is immoral to do this and i would dump her no matter how great she is i figured out that my gf was spying on me all the time lol, i just did this post to show that shes equally fault at this as him and that cheating is overrated, the relationship was bad to begin with if she always has this kind of doubt.
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Umm, somehow they are still together. she may be evilly clever, but apparently she likes my friend a lot. So they are still together, pretty much the same as before. He said that those kind of fights happen every week, but they make up and then continue.
I don't get it but, whatever.
I don't get it but, whatever.
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redjellogod wrote...
Umm, somehow they are still together. she may be evilly clever, but apparently she likes my friend a lot. So they are still together, pretty much the same as before. He said that those kind of fights happen every week, but they make up and then continue. I don't get it but, whatever.
Lol weird couple i say xD
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C13R-66Y wrote...
I'll ask my keyboard to forbid me for have wasted so many keystrokes with such a dumb couple.it makes my effort seem like a waste of time... :'(
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redjellogod wrote...
Was it really cheating? Because he cheated on his girlfriend, with his girlfriend.
Like everybody have said .. yeah, it is cheating ..
If he didn't know that is his gf (which is not possible) .. Well, yes
Therefore, the dude's loyalty is questionable.
[size=10](And the matter already finished) [/h]
redjellogod wrote...
I don't get it but, whatever.
Ditto.