Are interracial relationships a good or a bad thing?

Here's where I believe the problem on this thread stems. I answered with the question of are they good or bad in mind. I guess you can blame this one on text, but when I hear good or bad in text it's going into a black and white area. What I mean is in my first response to this post I used the phrase "inherant value". What I meant by that is objectively there is no basis for either position of good or bad. Now sure I was never under the impression you were racist, quite the opposite, it's just that using words like good or bad at least in this case came off as right or wrong in many peoples eyes. Though at the same time I could easily say they didn't take into account your use of "healthy relationship" in the original post.(keep in mind my use of quotations in meant to quote and not to be sarcastic)

I guess I'll say my original response was more out of confusion than outrage. To me it seemed you were asking an objective answer by using good and bad, but at the same time asking a question that is ripe with variables and is nothing but subjective.

To further explain my original confusion allow me to one again dissect the original post.

One of the main issues I'd like to discuss about is how such a relationship messes up tradition and culture in most cases, acceptance of the children born from such a relationship by surroundings and how much harder it actually is to understand someone who's from a totally different culture.

Okay, here what for me was the relation here to culture and race. I understand how culture and race are often correlate with one another, but at the same time they always don't and I saw this as more of a cultural and racial. Your response basically voiced back that it was both. You see when reading this is came across to me that you didn't understand they aren't always the same. As if you thought being a certain race meant you were part of a certain set of cultures. To be more specific, when you said "such a relationship" it sounded like you were misinformed. The biggest issue here is the lack of separation between the two. By saying "such a relationship by surroundings and how much harder it actually is to understand someone who's from a totally different culture. " and sticking to culture and not bringing up racial tension came across as the lack of separation between the two when you go with the interracial relationship as a totally different culture.

"Such marriages make nations gradually lose their identity who are rich in culture and have their own special treats, which concerns mostly white people since their gene is the least dominant... So is it really a good thing? "

Now this part made me take a while to respond to. Once again going back to the good or bad angle here, the fact that I never thought you were racist, and the fact that once again I saw no separation between race and culture here I wasn't sure what to make of this. Matters weren't helped by "...So is it really a good thing?". It was actually made worse since I already read "Please no "love is blind and people should only follow their hearts" kind of comments" and "healthy relationships." All of that actually made responding properly take longer. I felt like I was getting mixed messages about what you were trying to say and ask so instead giving you my second response which is basically my real thoughts on the issue, I gave a wall of text.

Also, I promise to drop it here, but when I gave my two requirements for the Hitler thing, I was going by someone using Hitler tactics by taking over other countries with military and going to a widespread war. But seriously though, I promise I won't bring it up here.

Oh one more thing before you respond(assuming you do). Please understand I'm not trying to say you're wrong or this is your fault; I'm just explaining my first answer and why the second wasn't the first.

You along with another black males have argued the same thing. That you don't find black women attractive. I knew a girl (Somalian) once who argued against interracial relations for the following reason. She said interracial relationships puts black women at a disadvantage and there were loads on single black women that no one wanted.

This has a huge impact on black societies as most males being raised do not find black women attractive. The reason is clearly because the societies we live in never tell youngsters black women are attractive. Its a serious issue when you have shows popular among young males such as family guy that show black women as fierce, rude and difficult to get along with.

But the white women is obedient, lets the man chase his dream and is a slut during sex.

Next, I am not sure why people keep talking about genetics, none of you are scientists so please stop bringing that into the argument, lets keep this sociological.

For me a big issue is my parents. Yes they have discriminatory ideology but I'll marry a woman from my culture to make them happy.

OP you have the right idea asking a thought provoking question. It's a shame people on here cannot understand that you did not express a dislike for interracial relationships. But this is the world we live in people will read your words and interpret them to mean something completely different. It's as if they fail to take the literal meaning of the sentences, decide they want to put them into the context of the question and conclude that the OP has the opinion that they do not like interracial relationships. Some of you here need to sort your selves out! From reading the thread all you people who kept painting the OP as some kind of racist you really got your arse kicked in the debate. If this was a university level debate the OP won easily.

[align=justify][color=green][font=verdana]Does race even fucking matter?

I'm sorry, but why should race be declared a good or bad thing? Why not ask "Are homosexual relationships a good or bad thing?"?. You'll get the same answer. Race, sex, class, disability, religion etc... none of these matter during a relationship. If you try and turn it into some sort of ethical debate, then you clearly only care about the outside, and not the in.

I know you didn't express a dislike of interracial relationships or whatever, but just think to yourself "Will it sound bad if I ask this question?" before you ask questions like that.