can you love a girl who used to be a guy?

simple question, you think you can love a girl even if she 'was' a guy in the past = born as one. assuming shes got real tits now, not implants even hahaha and shes got a girls thingy down there too. we are assuming too she passes = really looks like a woman - kinda hot even.

asking this due to a debate ive been having with some guys. so just curious hahahha

I see no problem here. I had sex with men and women in the past.. it doesn't bother me none.

Well...I...ummm...uh...

Well, under the conditions you gave, I...well, I think...

Hmmm... -_-

OK, I got nothing to answer for this. :|

is going with maybe a bad thing >.>?

I agree, =p, I'm bi so there would be no problem with it ^_^ haha

If you're talking about guys who did gender swapping, then I've kinda done something like this before:

https://www.fakku.net/viewtopic.php?t=63668

Answer to your poll: Maybe. Because it's kind of dependent on the situation and all of that. Though, I think they deserve some love, too.

To be honest, if I first knew before dating them, I'd be iffy.but If I got to know them as a girl, then learnt hey used to be a guy, then I could say that the bond could hold us together because honestly, guy or girl, anal is fun as hell.

Sure, I don't see why not. If we click, then their is no issue there, it doesn't make me any less of a man. love knows no boundaries, a bit cliche, but whatever...

ptetty much the same as me.... i really have no clue what to say xD

I've never really thought about it if I'm honest. I've never been with a girl who had "the change" so I can't really comment, but I would imagine if I found out it would be a bit of a shock. Quite natural really

I'd say no, after all he is still a man no matter how many sex change operations he takes to be a woman, actually the main reason is that I wont date someone who cant accept what they are so they undergo various modifications just to be something else, aside from being straight of course. I know that there are cases when men feel that they are female even though they arent but I dont support insecurity and identity issues, the greatest virtue is to know yourself and I stick to it as a principle. Its just people who cant accept what they are.

Ps. I'd really like to know who was butthurt enough to -rep me for having my own opinion, but I suppose a newfag lol.

I totally agree with you. If I never find out about the secret then I'll probably say yes.

The problem is whether this "guy" is 100% totally a girl (meaning she, somehow, magically became a girl) or was she a transgender?

If trans then no. I don't hate them or anything, its their choice. I can be friends with her but I'll never date her. If former then, maybe. It depends. If my love is that deep then i'll say yes.

P.S. GravityCat, your sig still looks painful everytime I see it X_X

Looks and gender don't mean a whole lot if someone is an asshole to you. But if someone I liked, for personality, got a sex change at some point in their past it wouldn't stop me from seeing them romantically if I was into them.

So simply put: "Yes, for both directions of sex change"

pretty much from the conditions given, it doesnt seem like actual sex change, plus if 'he' can get the female touch, why not?

"and shes got a girls thingy down there too"
Feels underage in here..

but to answer your question, maybe.

nope, aint no such thing as "was" in my book, to quote south park, (s)he is just a guy with a mutilated penis.

and i want kids, not somebody elses kids, my own children that share my DNA and traits and all that, a transexual cannot provide that.

no cus in my book a guy is a guy no matter what you look like

Absolutely. If I love someone, gender identity is of no consequence to me. In fact, I'd be proud and honored to date someone who believed so strongly in their true self to pursue it against all hardships.

hahaha no it wasnt me katamari, but thanks for the honest opinion too

Perhaps, if she still acts like a guy, then we can be buds. If not perhaps.