Condom or No Condom
Do you use condoms or not?
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I'd prefer no condoms, feels better and you're more connected without a sheath on your sword. But it's good to be safe.
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znxbcv2121 wrote...
My teacher once said that using condom was like trying to pick your nose with rubber gloves on.Well your teacher is awesome.
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If it's for a fling or a really casual relationship then a condom for sure. I'm definitely STD conscious so it's better to be safe than sorry.
I would never jump into the pill. I was on it for a few months and the sex is great but my body usually doesn't have that much hormones in its system. (Trust me, I'm usually a very very chill person) But when I'm on the pill I go crazy with emotions, so there's definitely an annoying aspect to being on the pill. But I guess the great sex balances it out. Nevertheless, I would never just decide to go on the pill. I would wait a few months and a few sex sessions. Once I establish that he and I are going to stay together for a while then I bring up getting tested. Once we both get tested and we're fine then I'll gladly go on the pill.
I also wanna point out that there's a way to have sex with a condom and have it feel amazing. I went to a sex seminar hosted by my college and we did this experiment. Basically we had to pair up and put on rubber gloves. The first time we just attempted to rub each other's hands with the gloves on, it did not feel nice. The second time we put lube on the gloves and started rubbing. It felt better. The third we put lube IN the gloves and rubbed. It felt really awesome. So after I bought a bottle of lube and tried it in the real scenario and it worked great! So just a little tip for you guys. (BTW Don't overdo it with the lube cause putting too much on will make it slip off mid-fuck. A small squirt will be more than enough.)
I would never jump into the pill. I was on it for a few months and the sex is great but my body usually doesn't have that much hormones in its system. (Trust me, I'm usually a very very chill person) But when I'm on the pill I go crazy with emotions, so there's definitely an annoying aspect to being on the pill. But I guess the great sex balances it out. Nevertheless, I would never just decide to go on the pill. I would wait a few months and a few sex sessions. Once I establish that he and I are going to stay together for a while then I bring up getting tested. Once we both get tested and we're fine then I'll gladly go on the pill.
I also wanna point out that there's a way to have sex with a condom and have it feel amazing. I went to a sex seminar hosted by my college and we did this experiment. Basically we had to pair up and put on rubber gloves. The first time we just attempted to rub each other's hands with the gloves on, it did not feel nice. The second time we put lube on the gloves and started rubbing. It felt better. The third we put lube IN the gloves and rubbed. It felt really awesome. So after I bought a bottle of lube and tried it in the real scenario and it worked great! So just a little tip for you guys. (BTW Don't overdo it with the lube cause putting too much on will make it slip off mid-fuck. A small squirt will be more than enough.)
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Unibee wrote...
If it's for a fling or a really casual relationship then a condom for sure. I'm definitely STD conscious so it's better to be safe than sorry.I would never jump into the pill. I was on it for a few months and the sex is great but my body usually doesn't have that much hormones in its system. (Trust me, I'm usually a very very chill person) But when I'm on the pill I go crazy with emotions, so there's definitely an annoying aspect to being on the pill. But I guess the great sex balances it out. Nevertheless, I would never just decide to go on the pill. I would wait a few months and a few sex sessions. Once I establish that he and I are going to stay together for a while then I bring up getting tested. Once we both get tested and we're fine then I'll gladly go on the pill.
I also wanna point out that there's a way to have sex with a condom and have it feel amazing. I went to a sex seminar hosted by my college and we did this experiment. Basically we had to pair up and put on rubber gloves. The first time we just attempted to rub each other's hands with the gloves on, it did not feel nice. The second time we put lube on the gloves and started rubbing. It felt better. The third we put lube IN the gloves and rubbed. It felt really awesome. So after I bought a bottle of lube and tried it in the real scenario and it worked great! So just a little tip for you guys. (BTW Don't overdo it with the lube cause putting too much on will make it slip off mid-fuck. A small squirt will be more than enough.)
Oh yes, lube makes everything awesome, even condomless sex. Especially if it's a warming/tingling lube.
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Yep. So just in case, I hope you guys use lube. Trust me, it takes time to convince someone to go on the pill. And it's definitely not worth the risk of doing it without the condom.
I would say to be careful with the choice of lube though. It would be better to go out and buy some yourself since I've had multiple people tell me about how they had a one night stand and the other person's lube irritated their skin. I had to go to a store and try them out myself. Made sure that they tasted alright (I used it for titty fucks too) And I applied a small amount on the inside of my month to make sure it didn't burn either.
I would say to be careful with the choice of lube though. It would be better to go out and buy some yourself since I've had multiple people tell me about how they had a one night stand and the other person's lube irritated their skin. I had to go to a store and try them out myself. Made sure that they tasted alright (I used it for titty fucks too) And I applied a small amount on the inside of my month to make sure it didn't burn either.
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elly2121 wrote...
Tifa16 wrote...
No condom for meMy last boyfriend was a virgin and I'm on the pill, so yay for me!
Same, also on the pill. Not sure if im staying on it though. He should learn to deal with the condom! lol :]
Wha? womenz on the forums?
BTW, I'm a virgin, so I'm not qualified to reply to this post.
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Definitely feels better for a girl, for a few reasons -
Personally, you feel his warmth a lot better, and you cant ever get that kind of heat transfer from a condom.
The lube on condoms takes away from the general friction, especially if you're already pretty wet.
It's more personal, and spontaneous which is sexy.
Latex smells.
Cum feels nice.
Personally, you feel his warmth a lot better, and you cant ever get that kind of heat transfer from a condom.
The lube on condoms takes away from the general friction, especially if you're already pretty wet.
It's more personal, and spontaneous which is sexy.
Latex smells.
Cum feels nice.
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sad story really, my GF got Ovarian cancer and had to get her ovaries removed, had to kemo the rest out just in case. sad thing,lost all her hair and apatite. can't have kids even if we wanted to. hard times but we got through it for the better.
anyway now that she can't have kids i can cum inside her as much as i want.
anyway now that she can't have kids i can cum inside her as much as i want.
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Laggi wrote...
Strawberry Girl wrote...
Cum feels nice.By this, do you mean it feels nice to have cum inside you, or on your skin?
I've asked questions from various people about how it feels when someone cums inside of you. Most just say it feels a bit warm, some said that you don't really feel it at all.
Do tell please, I'm curious.
Both feel great.
Hmm, well I guess in order for this to make sense, you have to really love cum. And be a pervert. Alot of this is mental.
On getting cum inside, you're right that it feels warm. And tingly. You can even at times feels the spurts if he comes hard enough, which is a turn on. I think emotionally it just sets off the right " Nyaahh, you're cumming inside me so much!! " vibe that it feels orgasmic. Ive grown up to hentai, so this feeling makes perfect sense to me ( I don't know why )
If he goes by way of pearl necklace, you get tangible proof of his pleasure on your skin... Very erotic. Not to mention, you get to clean up :)
Oh - and you cant experience a cream pie with a condom ! There's just no comparison for me.
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Well, not to brag, but I started doing it at 12, and I didn't know jack shit about condoms. So, we usually borrowed her brothers(which were too big) and they would slip off. Half the time I came inside her, the other half, I dunno lol. But seriously, I have about a box of unused condoms sitting around just waiting to be used. Since the college I go to has the highest rate of pregnancy in the US and the highest STD rate in MO, I kinda need them.
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I've done it without a condom a once before, and although it feels much better without one, I prefer to use a condom instead because I have no plans in getting anyone pregnant or catching any type of disease at all whatsoever. If I ever get married then sure.
I tend to keep my responsibilities ahead of everything.
I tend to keep my responsibilities ahead of everything.
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I have had sex with condoms and without. Without is better not just for guys but girls too. You can feel the difference or at least I could. especially when he cums you can feel it and it feels really good.
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No Condom it feels much better, I like to feel everything, with condom feels like you're just fapping =/.
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Nyde wrote...
No Condom it feels much better, I like to feel everything, with condom feels like you're just fappping =/.lolz, really? I'm virgin, so I'm just asking...when it will be the time I will most likely use condom, since I'm too scared of illnesses and shit like that, still, if I really get to know the girl I am with and I know she is trustworthy, I could even go raw ^^
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Federico wrote...
Nyde wrote...
No Condom it feels much better, I like to feel everything, with condom feels like you're just fappping =/.lolz, really? I'm virgin, so I'm just asking...when it will be the time I will most likely use condom, since I'm too scared of illnesses and shit like that, still, if I really get to know the girl I am with and I know she is trustworthy, I could even go raw ^^
Dude when its your fist time take it slow bro, otherwise you'll cum sooo fast.
second use a condom if you don't plan to be with her very important and also STD's are very common, I never ever got one, but I went for a check up the nurses made me so scared of them im not even sure i want sex anymore ! (lol)