Dealing with breakups

My girlfriend and I separated today,and she says she still loves me, I love her a great deal too. she and her dad got kicked out of their house by her stepmom and she is going to have to move to the next town 15 minutes away from where I live, but she has to go to high school in our town, she has been under a great deal of stress and I feel for her. She says she wants to be with me after she is done being stressed, but was it right for her to break up with me over something like that? and should I even go back out with her? what would you do?

smells of underage fun.. if you love her, gave it a try. if not, bang her intil your finish.

While you may feel sympathy for her situation this seems a little selfish on her part..I mean it kinda seems like now that things are tough she kinda doesn't wanna deal with you which to me seems weird , cause if I loved someone I'd want their support , not to push them away. on the other hand this may just be exactly what it says it is ,and your ex feels she would not make a good partner ,and is trying to spare you from the complications , that her parents separation are bringing up...my only suggestion is to watch her, and think long and hard before you get into a relationship with her..you're a human being not a doormat so be careful with letting her walk all over you , with that said you see her chumming up to another guy then I suggest you drop that relationship , but if she really does just use the time to adjust , then after your time apart if you really do love her ,and feel the same way you do now then by all means get back together...

Man up.

Yeah, just give it some time brah. I would go back out with her, as long as she wasn't with another guy while you two are separated.

Edit: someone +rep sneaky. Getting -rep is dumb for making a topic asking for advice. I'd do it myself but I already used mine

Well, calling it a 'break up' may have been exaggerated on her part, but there really are people who needs some time of their own before they could go on with relationships, especially with such a situation that she's in.

It's up to you really, whether or not you want to wait for her.

Personally, I went through this experience of trying to pick up a relationship again and that landed me a pretty bad ending that left a bad taste in my mouth. However, there was a reason for that. If you still happen to love her and still don't feel fulfilled by this, you should probably see if she'd be willing to get back together with you. It probably wouldn't work out but you'd give yourself a better closure and a clearer reason to move on if it reaches an end.

Well, whatever you do, you should ask yourself "Is this something I'm going to regret if I don't do it?".

Niice.

On serious note, Dude wtf?
You clearly said that she's going through a lot of stress right? Then why are you giving her more stress by breaking up? Sounds to me like she does not have a proper, "full" family, but by being in a relationship, she has someone who can fill that missing space. Get back together Sneaky and Good luck to you.

Edit: Although she said she wants to get back together with you after the stress is over, she probably wants to get back together NOW. You know how girls are like. Like how they say they're fine, but they're really not.

read carefully he says SHE broke up with him , on your edit I have no opinion totally possible she does want to get back togetheir

Last night she called me and said that she felt horrible and empty inside and she wanted me to take her back whenever I felt like it, but when I asked her today she says she wasnt sure anymore, I am going to continue to talk to her because I really want to get back together

That sounds a bit fishy.....well just give her a few days to sort her feelings out....

ahh to be back in high school.

Shes probably just upset by the whole situation, maybe she needs some times to think. It would also be great if you talked to her diary so that she has a feeling someone actually cares and is there when she needs it, im sure it will help her a lot ^^

Honestly, I would not stress roles upon her right now considering her situation. Dealing with the splitting of your family unit when you're at that age can be really devastating. I mean, one's parents are kind of the building blocks of one's understanding of relationships so fuck yeah she's going to reassess her personal need for a relationship when the model for it broke apart. Give her time and just be there for her. No need to say, well, are we this or are we that, just be. You don't need a title to offer support and love.

That is my advice *nod*

*edited*
I just re-read the original post and realized it was a stepmom, so it was already a broken family unit although to be fair it still sounds quite volatile and I think my advice is still valid... that is all.

Ya...post pics too... it helps...*cough* DUDE'S A PERV"...*cough*

upon closer inspection of all the information provided by the OP i see this in his future



..just saying

Ill just wait and see what happens, thanks for the advice