Dealing with breakups

Yes I know that, but sometimes girls act and then want the opposite of what should be the result of her action. If you didn't know this, you clearly don't have experience with girls.

Girls are fucked up.

End of story.

Oh, and she's most likely wanting you to pursue her more prominently. Right now, she just wants someone to put a little bit of control in her life and thus is putting you through this shit.

Or maybe she's batshit crazy.

Hard to say with highschool girls.

Yeah let's just assume that the girl is indecisive ,and unable to commit to a decision , and insinuate I know nothing ,about girls just cause I made the honest mistake of thinking you didn't read his full post, cause that neeeeever happens on forums...ever..and it's totally impossible she really just wanted to breakup..madness I say...madness

this girl that I was dating left me and decided to go out with my friend

That sucks Sneaky, cheer up! If she wasn't brave enough to tell you from the start that she wanted to break up definetely, then she isn't worth the efforts you made, in my opinion.

Kick his ass!
That's a sure way to get her back.
And if that doesn't work then kill the president.


But on a serious note.


Why didn't you say you would take her back the second she offered??
You missed your window! Congrats.

Well I am in this boat now and it's taking me for a mind fuck of a trip with my 1st ex. she told me that something was missing and that we would be better off as friends. she also told me that its not my fault but if were better off as friends then how is it that it was nothing i did? she wants to still be friends no matter what but right now I'm not hearing that. Ohh what the fuck!!... i tried to see if i could get us to go somewhere so we could have fun and i could better express my feelings for her before any of this happened and now i find myself pissed, sad, depressed and confused because it's like she told me to keep my feelings to myself... i told her... "the things witch i feel are anger, sadness, depression, confusion, what ever this feeling is i told you that i have yet to identify, and a few more i cant name right at the moment. i don't wish to talk to you or see you because i am angry at you, saddened because we had to end like this and i cant talk to you in the way we did when we were together, depressed because of this and all the other things that have happened and at the point were i don't want to speak to anyone and confused my feelings i cant identify..." i don't want to call her or see her but what the fuck, why don't i feel that way?