Don't know what to do.. help?

now that... is an excellent idea... holy shit sir, you are a good thinker. probably not the best for this situation juust yet, but in due time, in due time.

not so sure how well it works with marrige. what with the legal issues and such. i tried to cover as much of that stuff as i could think of, but i've never been married.

i feel that you are doing too much for him, almost desperate just for him to stay with you. you seem like a really good wife though and no matter what you try to do to show that you love him it is not working. try to work this out together and see how he now feels about your relationship with him. but if he is unwilling maybe it is best to seperate, you are a great gal, some men don't know what they have until its gone, you know

For what I read from what you write before, I think you're an awesome person, devoted to the person you love, and he doesn't deserves you if he treats you like that, also answering woman on craiglist, when he has you that doesn't sound right. If he really loves you he shouldn't do that.
Also I don't think you need to improve yourself, you're perfect just the way you are. But that is only what I think.

I have been clingy, I never was in the past, so this was so new to me. I've always been so independent and never allowed anyone to walk on me. There's just something about him. He is a good guy, I guess I just put too much focus and energy on him. I'm focusing on myself now. I'm currently getting enrolled in the an Institute of Art in my town, gonna take on Game Art and Design. I'm not going to leave him, I'm just going to see where things go when I give him space, the way I see it, he doesn't seem happy now, so if he's unhappy with the space, then there's just no winning and I should give up.

yeah you took my advice!

But in all seriousness, the effect of being away from him will clear both of your heads! You will make new friends, and he will miss you more. There are things that naturally he will realise he takes for granted. For instance maybe you may come home from class late becaue of an assignment and you can't do one of the chores you do, then he will realise how good he has it.

Another thing is you will now have a close real life support network at your collge with your new friends.

Also im so glad you are not leaving him, I never like to see people break up, the only reason that should happen is in extreme circumstances such as abuse.

Look to the future clear your head, talk to your husband once your worry dissapates! you're clearly a strong and loving person never forget that!

You're doing good. You're not at fault, so keep doing what you're doing and focus on yourself a little more. And let someone who's currently studying Game Design tell you that you made a great choice and I'm sure you'll get to know lots of nice people in the process as well.

Still, from what you said it doesn't sound like you have talked about the whole issue with your hubby yet. So let me say one last thing: Do it. It doesn't have to be right away, but don't push it away forever. Talks like that suck, but I really do feel like you should talk to him about it. If he's the good guy you're saying he is, there's definitely lots to talk about and you might resolve everything. You won't know there's no winning if you guys haven't talked.
No matter how talking will turn out, I think eventually, it will be a relieve for you.

>_<; Ow... that is tough.

It seems like you know this guy isn't right for you. Whether you act on this knowledge or not (now, or later) is up to you, but just remember it hurts you in the long run. :(

Stay strong, and I hope you can figure something out from this mess...

Good for you!! Your doing what you want dont care what he thinks! you have to do something for yourself as well. i would not put up with a guy who is unfaithful to even be thinking about craigslist ads!
i know its hard but i think u should confront him just like how everyone else was saying..
this is your life..your married to him..and a life time can not be made on this.