Evolution
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Lollikittie wrote...
Mind-crush her?No, sir.
Ignorant zealots can believe whatever ignorant zealots want to believe.
You have about just as much of a right to squash and belittle her opinions as she does to squash and belittle yours.
My suggestion is to sit her ass down, stare her square in the eyeballs and say the following:
"I don't agree with what you believe in. I'm not going to. Ever. If this is going to be a fundamental problem for us, then I am more than willing to take my leave of this relationship now. Please understand I would have preferred to coexist harmoniously with you despite our conflicting beliefs, had you not pressed me to this point."
BOW DOWN TO LOLI NEKO-SAMA
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kgods wrote...
Yukito-kun wrote...
My fiancee doesn't believe in carbon-14 dating, fossil evidence, logical progression, heavy element half-life proof of the Earth's age or anything. Everything was created 6,000 years ago exactly as it is... Math, science, history, all invalid to her. She's threatening to break up with me if I don't believe what she does, very Christian of her "believe what I want or I'll hurt you". How can I argue that I'm entitled to my opinion with someone who doesn't listen to logic, evidence or common sense?In accordance with your given information, this relationship isn't going to work.
How the hell are you even engaged? Or has the topic not come up until now?
Fuck I really should read threads before posting. Good luck, though, with whatever you decide to do.
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Were you accepting of what she had believed in before this topic was brought up, vice versa? She might not be the one.
I'm surprised you got that far.
I'm surprised you got that far.
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PrincessTristan wrote...
Need an update on the situation.I'm tip-toeing on egg shells avoiding the subject and quietly showing how little functional relationships even mention it let alone the fact that some couples disagree and are happy together. She might be coming around to accepting that my beliefs aren't preposterous, sinful, evil things and that it's okay that we don't agree on 100% of everything. I'm trying to be tactful in the way I'm dealing with this and if I'm lucky it'll work out.
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TheBookie
King of Red
Yukito-kun wrote...
PrincessTristan wrote...
Need an update on the situation.I'm tip-toeing on egg shells avoiding the subject and quietly showing how little functional relationships even mention it let alone the fact that some couples disagree and are happy together. She might be coming around to accepting that my beliefs aren't preposterous, sinful, evil things and that it's okay that we don't agree on 100% of everything. I'm trying to be tactful in the way I'm dealing with this and if I'm lucky it'll work out.
Keep Calm friend, but if she's Catholic and you are not, in order for you two to be married in the Church, you would need to convert......just a heads up.
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TheBookie wrote...
Yukito-kun wrote...
PrincessTristan wrote...
Need an update on the situation.I'm tip-toeing on egg shells avoiding the subject and quietly showing how little functional relationships even mention it let alone the fact that some couples disagree and are happy together. She might be coming around to accepting that my beliefs aren't preposterous, sinful, evil things and that it's okay that we don't agree on 100% of everything. I'm trying to be tactful in the way I'm dealing with this and if I'm lucky it'll work out.
Keep Calm friend, but if she's Catholic and you are not, in order for you two to be married in the Church, you would need to convert......just a heads up.
Thank God (ironic snicker) that she isn't and that she doesn't know that I'm an athiest.
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TheBookie
King of Red
Spoiler:
Hhahahahahahahaha, be careful sir, you are treading in dangerous waters....take this with you!
Spoiler:
the shark bite suit, but u can take the shark too just in case
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TheBookie wrote...
Spoiler:
Hhahahahahahahaha, be careful sir, you are treading in dangerous waters....take this with you!
Spoiler:
the shark bite suit, but u can take the shark too just in case
My friend I do love danger... keep your shark bite suit, I fight sharks in a tuxedo with a monocle and top hat.
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TheBookie
King of Red
Yukito-kun wrote...
TheBookie wrote...
Spoiler:
Hhahahahahahahaha, be careful sir, you are treading in dangerous waters....take this with you!
Spoiler:
the shark bite suit, but u can take the shark too just in case
My friend I do love danger... keep your shark bite suit, I fight sharks in a tuxedo with a monocle and top hat.
if you say so, at least take the docile shark as a sword
