Female's Thought about anal sex.

I remember a lady friend of mine was once drunk and complaining to me about annoying crap her boyfriend did. I remember somewhere in the drunken rant there being the phrase. "Why does he always wanna have anal sex with me. I have a perfectly good pussy like 2 inches away." Then she punched my wall and proceeded to start drinking furiously. I do not know if this is a shared feeling with women about anal sex, or just hers but it was funny.

...Ouch.

No matter how much lube, it still hurts. ;_;

My experience with anal has been mixed, and as such I can take it or leave it. I will say, though, anyone that complains it hurts... well, they're just doing it wrong. And sadly, I've learned this the hard way. You can't just lube up and launch in, no no no. bad. It takes serious amounts of foreplay (though, I suppose it varies by person but I encourage loads of foreplay anyway) including anal foreplay. But all in all... eh.

Now... giving it with a strap-on. Super Fun! *giggle*

I only did it with a vibrator and that was a nice experience :)

The vast majority of girls are scared shitless of it, but a good deal of them fantasize about it- and are willing to try if it's presented to them the right way.

Basically, you just need to treat it the same way you would a virgin, since it's essentially the same concept: you want to put something in her where she's not used to having it put.

Or if you're of that mind, just get plenty of lube and blast it in. She probably won't appreciate it none.

Pun intended?

Anal is now becoming standard in pornography

lol

Tried it, didn't like it. It was far too painful. I made multiple attempts at adjusting to it but it just wasn't... wasn't something I could endure.

I had a friend who felt awkward because at dinner the rest of our friends were talking about how terrible and unholy the act of anal was.

She turned to me imploringly "Hey, its normal right? Everyone does it dont they?"

Haha. I think different people enjoy it, some dislike it because of pain and others are ... less receptive due to their upbringing in society :P. Each to their own. Its much like durian, some of us love it... others (me) hate it.

I tried it first when I was I think... Thirteen...? I don't exactly remember. I experimented with random things, any object that resembled a cock and could pass as a low budget dildo. It was painful at first, but it quickly became a nightly routine, enemas obviously becoming a necessity. These days I don't really feel sexually fulfilled unless I get fucked anally during sex at least once. I guess I'm just a freaky fetishist. ^.^;

The only time I've had anal sex was on accident. Doggy style, I was really wet, and it went in the wrong hole. He was well endowed (like, cervix-punching well endowed), I cried.

I don't know if I'd enjoy it if I was "trained" so to speak for it. I do have a cat tail butt plug, but no one to share it with and I haven't been able to put it in by myself. So other than the accident I haven't really tried it at all.

This.


...and that is why I'm terrified of anal.

I hit genetic equivalent of sex on hard-mode as it is. When your gyno says "let me get the pediatric speculum" during your 3rd pap smear, you know it's not a good omen. Sex is very owie for me and it is taking a very long time (a year + and counting) for it to get to anything less than sex ending, rug burning, pain. It's a good thing I like giving blow jobs or I might be off worse than I am. Basically, there's no alternative but to go slow and wait for my body to adjust to it. Catch-22 of my life: You must have sex to get used to sex and stop the pain. But sex is the cause of the pain.

Since I'm already having enough issues with the hole that's supposed to be able to handle it, I'm a no go on the alternative. Besides that, I'm really grossed out by poop and not willing to use an enema to clean it out. I get constipated a lot and I have learned to hate enemas.

I lucked out that my husband is also not an anal guy, so I can make it work.

I'm not really scared of it, and the only reason the first time hurt is because I wasn't prepared for it. I'm sure if I had practice with it I could get used to it. It's not really an issue now since I'm basically a recluse/hikikomori and I probably won't be getting laid any time soon. I'm also pretty uncomfortable with poop too though...

I didn't really vote since i don't know which one applies to me. I just think if there's someone special and if he wants to try then I would but I don't think I'll like it. The only reason I'd try is because I like the idea of it and it's hot but I think it will hurt.

I think this about sums it up.

I know this thread's ancient but why is it just women?

I'm a guy and I'm not keen on the idea of anal. Sure she can't get pregnant fucking her in the arsehole but
[size=29]SHE FUCKING SHITS OUT OF THERE![/h]

Weird things come out of the other one as well.

Piss ain't as bad, p0n0ses and vag00s are designed for that kinda thing. Blood you just steer clear anyway and if a baby's coming out of it you have problems