Female's Thought about anal sex.
Do you like anal or tried it?
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To be entirely indiscreet and straightforward: I love it.
I suppose having someone willing to really carefully go about it helps.
I suppose having someone willing to really carefully go about it helps.
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Morriko wrote...
PumpJack McGee wrote...
Basically, you just need to treat it the same way you would a virgin, since it's essentially the same concept: you want to put something in her where she's not used to having it put....Or if you're of that mind, just get plenty of lube and blast it in. She probably won't appreciate it none.This.
Hime_Takamura wrote...
The only time I've had anal sex was on accident. Doggy style, I was really wet, and it went in the wrong hole. He was well endowed (like, cervix-punching well endowed), I cried....and that is why I'm terrified of anal.
I hit genetic equivalent of sex on hard-mode as it is. When your gyno says "let me get the pediatric speculum" during your 3rd pap smear, you know it's not a good omen. Sex is very owie for me and it is taking a very long time (a year + and counting) for it to get to anything less than sex ending, rug burning, pain. It's a good thing I like giving blow jobs or I might be off worse than I am. Basically, there's no alternative but to go slow and wait for my body to adjust to it. Catch-22 of my life: You must have sex to get used to sex and stop the pain. But sex is the cause of the pain.
Since I'm already having enough issues with the hole that's supposed to be able to handle it, I'm a no go on the alternative. Besides that, I'm really grossed out by poop and not willing to use an enema to clean it out. I get constipated a lot and I have learned to hate enemas.
I lucked out that my husband is also not an anal guy, so I can make it work.
I feel you, sister. I've had issues with regular sex, and if I wait too long between times when we do it, say a week or two, it's back to square one and the burning and chafing.
I tried anal sex twice, not only because my man likes it, but because I really really wanted to, in spite of the fear. We didn't do it doggy style, the two times was spooning, and for some reason, it's really soothing and reassuring. Maybe it's cause of all the hugging and kissing it allows, but also because it's in the dark under the covers, so it's not like you shove your butthole in his face. I'm comfortable with my body, but there is a residual shyness from long gone virgin days.
I didn't like it much. I mean, the first time, I was paralyzed in fear and thus completely unable to relax, expecting the same kind of pain as when having regular sex. Well, I was disappointed. Chafing your vagina is apparently much more painful than anal sex. I'm not saying it's not painful at all, but let's say it's more of a discomfort, like you're gonna poop anytime soon and your brain doesn't know what to do. So it's difficult to get past all that and feel the pleasure. I had a very lingering sense of it, I know it's there, but after the second time I still couldn't find it and haven't tried again since.
Now, I'm not saying that so you try it absolutely and whatnot, but as a fellow cursed lady with a weirdly capricious pussy, I am giving you a scale of the pain. You might wanna try the fingering and fucking at the same time and see if you like it. That's what persuaded me of trying anal twice.
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Gravity cat wrote...
I know this thread's ancient but why is it just women?I'm a guy and I'm not keen on the idea of anal. Sure she can't get pregnant fucking her in the arsehole but
[color=red][size=29]SHE FUCKING SHITS OUT OF THERE![/h][/color]
Well, at least it's tighter than the slut's V.
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Power-Senpai
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Ziggy wrote...
Gross. D; I'd be uncomfortable. I'm a small person on the inside, I don't want to feel like having something shoved into my large intestines.I told my ex I'd let him after he let me put something in his ass. Least he has a prostate gland. Dunno why guys will be all nuu about their butts probed, but see no problems in probing others <.<;
I kinda agree to that notion, it is completely retarded to demand something, but not be daring enough to get treated the same way. (not by another male of course, but yeah) i am male, and i would never ask my girlfriend for anal.
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Im female and as long as lube is involved, anal is better then pussy <3 FEELS SO GOOD. I admit the first time hurt and theres a slight discomfort right when the dick does in but after that its bliss.
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I had anal sex once, it was right after I helped the girl hoop some MDA. She said it was the best feeling in the entire world, it was good for me too but I still prefer vaginal.
It wasn't what everyone made it out to be, but I did learn something important:
If you're going to fuck a girl in the ass, shove some drugs up there first.
It wasn't what everyone made it out to be, but I did learn something important:
If you're going to fuck a girl in the ass, shove some drugs up there first.
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I honestly feel sorry for (hetero)womanity. i dislike having to deal with other men in non sexual ways. i can't even imagine having to put up with our idiocy in bed.
from what i've learned talking to women, most men are selfish, oblivious, pigs in bed. anal take patience and delicacy, which most men lack.
also, i don't see the appeal... there's poo in there!
[color=red]PSA:
Never, NEVER switch from anal directly to vaginal with out thoroughly washing(or maybe changing condoms). you can cause an infection that can damage the nerves and reduce sensitivity in the vagina.[/color]
from what i've learned talking to women, most men are selfish, oblivious, pigs in bed. anal take patience and delicacy, which most men lack.
also, i don't see the appeal... there's poo in there!
[color=red]PSA:
Never, NEVER switch from anal directly to vaginal with out thoroughly washing(or maybe changing condoms). you can cause an infection that can damage the nerves and reduce sensitivity in the vagina.[/color]
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Anal sex = wonderful... IF the guy knows what he's doing.
Good lord, nothing worse than getting all kinky and dirty, and then BAM he just tries shoving it in without any work.
Good lord, nothing worse than getting all kinky and dirty, and then BAM he just tries shoving it in without any work.
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neyapuckachinha wrote...
Morriko wrote...
PumpJack McGee wrote...
Basically, you just need to treat it the same way you would a virgin, since it's essentially the same concept: you want to put something in her where she's not used to having it put....Or if you're of that mind, just get plenty of lube and blast it in. She probably won't appreciate it none.This.
Hime_Takamura wrote...
The only time I've had anal sex was on accident. Doggy style, I was really wet, and it went in the wrong hole. He was well endowed (like, cervix-punching well endowed), I cried....and that is why I'm terrified of anal.
I hit genetic equivalent of sex on hard-mode as it is. When your gyno says "let me get the pediatric speculum" during your 3rd pap smear, you know it's not a good omen. Sex is very owie for me and it is taking a very long time (a year + and counting) for it to get to anything less than sex ending, rug burning, pain. It's a good thing I like giving blow jobs or I might be off worse than I am. Basically, there's no alternative but to go slow and wait for my body to adjust to it. Catch-22 of my life: You must have sex to get used to sex and stop the pain. But sex is the cause of the pain.
Since I'm already having enough issues with the hole that's supposed to be able to handle it, I'm a no go on the alternative. Besides that, I'm really grossed out by poop and not willing to use an enema to clean it out. I get constipated a lot and I have learned to hate enemas.
I lucked out that my husband is also not an anal guy, so I can make it work.
I feel you, sister. I've had issues with regular sex, and if I wait too long between times when we do it, say a week or two, it's back to square one and the burning and chafing.
I tried anal sex twice, not only because my man likes it, but because I really really wanted to, in spite of the fear. We didn't do it doggy style, the two times was spooning, and for some reason, it's really soothing and reassuring. Maybe it's cause of all the hugging and kissing it allows, but also because it's in the dark under the covers, so it's not like you shove your butthole in his face. I'm comfortable with my body, but there is a residual shyness from long gone virgin days.
I didn't like it much. I mean, the first time, I was paralyzed in fear and thus completely unable to relax, expecting the same kind of pain as when having regular sex. Well, I was disappointed. Chafing your vagina is apparently much more painful than anal sex. I'm not saying it's not painful at all, but let's say it's more of a discomfort, like you're gonna poop anytime soon and your brain doesn't know what to do. So it's difficult to get past all that and feel the pleasure. I had a very lingering sense of it, I know it's there, but after the second time I still couldn't find it and haven't tried again since.
Now, I'm not saying that so you try it absolutely and whatnot, but as a fellow cursed lady with a weirdly capricious pussy, I am giving you a scale of the pain. You might wanna try the fingering and fucking at the same time and see if you like it. That's what persuaded me of trying anal twice.
Interesting. . . I was curious about it but my last bf said "no thanks", so... I still haven't done it but I still wanna try it, thanx for the feedback and tip on that, hope you get over that problem you have (the pain you get when you have sex after some time, I've felt it before, stings quite a bit, though in my case if I have sex the next day the pain is almost gone)
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I'm a guy and I think that anal is just bliss, it feels a bit out of place but that tight, snug hole squeezing tight always makes my knees buck.
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Flaser
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Lelouch vi Lamperouge wrote...
Ziggy wrote...
Gross. D; I'd be uncomfortable. I'm a small person on the inside, I don't want to feel like having something shoved into my large intestines.I told my ex I'd let him after he let me put something in his ass. Least he has a prostate gland. Dunno why guys will be all nuu about their butts probed, but see no problems in probing others <.<;
I kinda agree to that notion, it is completely retarded to demand something, but not be daring enough to get treated the same way. (not by another male of course, but yeah) i am male, and i would never ask my girlfriend for anal.
...and that ladies and gentlemen is what I don't understand.
As long as you're doing it with a hot girl, who cares what part of your body you use?
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LadyAbsol wrote...
Interesting. . . I was curious about it but my last bf said "no thanks", so... I still haven't done it but I still wanna try it, thanx for the feedback and tip on that, hope you get over that problem you have (the pain you get when you have sex after some time, I've felt it before, stings quite a bit, though in my case if I have sex the next day the pain is almost gone)
Yeah the pain stops if you 'practice', I guess? That sounds a little weird. Hope you get a chance to try it though, so at least you get a clear idea of what you like and don't like :D.
Flaser wrote...
Lelouch vi Lamperouge wrote...
Ziggy wrote...
Gross. D; I'd be uncomfortable. I'm a small person on the inside, I don't want to feel like having something shoved into my large intestines.I told my ex I'd let him after he let me put something in his ass. Least he has a prostate gland. Dunno why guys will be all nuu about their butts probed, but see no problems in probing others <.<;
I kinda agree to that notion, it is completely retarded to demand something, but not be daring enough to get treated the same way. (not by another male of course, but yeah) i am male, and i would never ask my girlfriend for anal.
...and that ladies and gentlemen is what I don't understand.
As long as you're doing it with a hot girl, who cares what part of your body you use?
Well not every girl is interested in poking things up her bf's ass. I understand the appeal, but I've heard stories about guys getting sprayed by diarrhea and stuff that made me reaaaally worried about that aspect of it.
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kengenerals wrote...
Gravity cat wrote...
I know this thread's ancient but why is it just women?I'm a guy and I'm not keen on the idea of anal. Sure she can't get pregnant fucking her in the arsehole but
[color=red][size=29]SHE FUCKING SHITS OUT OF THERE![/h][/color]
Well, at least it's tighter than the slut's V.
That is entirely variable.
For one thing, only the entrance is tight- once past the rectum, it's actually quite roomy.
And if you've ever browsed through some gape pictures- you may be reconsidering thy statement.
And, Grav- we humans have this wonderful thing called hygiene. We have the technology to clean that out.
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PumpJack McGee wrote...
kengenerals wrote...
Gravity cat wrote...
I know this thread's ancient but why is it just women?I'm a guy and I'm not keen on the idea of anal. Sure she can't get pregnant fucking her in the arsehole but
[color=red][size=29]SHE FUCKING SHITS OUT OF THERE![/h][/color]
Well, at least it's tighter than the slut's V.
That is entirely variable.
For one thing, only the entrance is tight- once past the rectum, it's actually quite roomy.
And if you've ever browsed through some gape pictures- you may be reconsidering thy statement.
Not the way I remember it.
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kengenerals wrote...
PumpJack McGee wrote...
kengenerals wrote...
Gravity cat wrote...
I know this thread's ancient but why is it just women?I'm a guy and I'm not keen on the idea of anal. Sure she can't get pregnant fucking her in the arsehole but
[color=red][size=29]SHE FUCKING SHITS OUT OF THERE![/h][/color]
Well, at least it's tighter than the slut's V.
That is entirely variable.
For one thing, only the entrance is tight- once past the rectum, it's actually quite roomy.
And if you've ever browsed through some gape pictures- you may be reconsidering thy statement.
Not the way I remember it.
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My girlfriend only wants it when she's drunk. (Not sure why, but whatever I'm not complaining) In any other situation she'd say no.
