For the girls: What would be your reaction?

For example you have a friend that is perverted yet gentlemanly in the sense that whenever there's something wrong with your clothing(ex. your panty is already showing, butt crack is showing)he would point it out to you in a discreet way.

What would be your reaction if your friend finds out an old photo of you that you uploaded but you didn't knew that your picture shows your nipples.(ex. went swimming in improper swimsuit, wet clothes = see through) And the nip slip isn't that obvious unless the picture is enlarged.


He points it you because he cares about you and doesn't want people to think of you in a bad way.

What would be your reaction?

Should I point it out to her?
I'm the guy btw.


TL;DR?
Guy friend tells you about a nip slip photo you didn't knew..What would be your reaction? For more info read above..

If I like the guy, I'd be happy that he pointed it out! No need for an embarassing photo of a nipple slip to remain hanging around on the internet. Of course, it all depends on how you bring it. If you say to me like: hey, nice nipples you got there and then show it, my cheeks would be redder than a tomato and I would probably give you a smack.

Just phrase it more subtly like: 'You should remove this foto, because if you take a look at it, it's rather embarassing'. There's no harm meant in that sentence.

What happens if that guy is in your friend zone but he said it in a nice way? Would your perspective change?

The problem is only noticeable if someone bothers to enlarge and examine at length the picture, so the message is less "hey, be careful" and more "Remember that guy that you rejected some time ago? He obsessively stalks your internet profiles and pores over every square millimeter of your uploaded photos, that's clearly not creepy at all". So don't tell her, it's not like there is something shameful in accidental nudity.

I personally don´t believe in this ´friend zone´. It´s just a term guys made up. If somebody I would be friendly with said it, my opinion of them wouldn´t change. It´s a friendly remark, like I said.

While I concur (relationships aren't black and white things), his wording seems to imply that he has notified her of some level of romantic interest in the past and got a negative answer. Maybe he could clarify what he meant with that remark when he visits this thread again.

yeah... I used to tell my friends that their top was falling down/ to pull it up.. they didn't seem to mind it.. i'd be discreet, but i always got the feeling the girls thought i found them not very attractive due to it.. i don't know if that's true or not.. probably didn't word it right 'hey uh, you may want to *makes motion to pull up top* '

I think it's creepy. Just leave it be. So what if her nipples show through? They're just nipples - everybody's got 'em. They're nothing to get all PC over.

Sorry I failed to elaborate on the Friend Zone part. But it's just fail1000 said regarding that of that friend of mine rejected me but still became friends with me.


Regarding on the enlargement of the picture, the website has this feature to view the picture in better resolution. It's like viewing the picture in it's actual size.

I'm really still not sure whether to tell her or not.

Is it too obvious?
If it is, tell her.
If only you realized because you enlarged the breast area. Dont. Because she will know what you did there.

It isn't too obvious but there's an option at the same site where I saw the picture that you can view the photo at a higher resolution or rather it's real default resolution.

It's semantic distinction which is not relevant to the matter at hand - you still have to take additional actions while looking at the picture to tell.
As a general rule, I would suggest that if you happen to find yourself wondering if something is inappropriate / apt to be perceived as such, it probably is, especially in a somewhat complex or asymmetrical situation as the one you described.

i must see that nipple to judge D:

You just wanna see the nipple, admit it. :P

I'm a guy... so id probaly fuck it up by goin

"WHOOOO, GETTING PURE TIT THERE LOVE <3"

Fortunatly my friends know im like that so im 90% sure it would get a laugh

but seriously if i role reverse and lets say i had an embarrasing piccy and a girl told me about it xD, i would find it funny ;) wouldnt be embarrased or offended xD

Art!! Shhhst >______> Dont get my master plan discovered D<
You are the one who wants to see it e3e
But really, i dunno if you should tell her, if you realized, maybe some of her friends already told her and she doesnt mind. (?

Personally, I'd be thankful while laughing my ass off, but then again I've grown more comfortable with my body lately. Nip slips after a breast surgery isn't exactly uncommon to me now, so... I'm so not helping.

Anyway, point it out, be polite, and if you must save the picture, save it well, my friend!

just be careful about how you tell her, if you do. you don't want to sound like you're creepy... so just be.. polite and nice

I lol'd at some of the replies.

@fail1000 - The additional step that I took is where I'm not sure at. The question arises that, "Why did he have to view the picture in a larger size?"

I'll become more creepy if that question crosses her mind. She knows that I'm perverted but sometimes she even throws perverted jokes back depending on her mood.

@kitty93 - I agree with artcellrox. You might just want to see it. lol. Just imagine a girl that weared a fit tanktop swimming in the pool and that tank top is color brown. I also don't think that her friends told her because most of the comments in that album were comments from guys. The picture I'm referring to though has no comment.

@Drag0nf0rce - We are guys lol and hearing that from a girl pointing out that that a guy has an embrassing pic in the net kinda makes me think that girl is interested in the guy.

@Skywolfe - How did you know that I saved the picture!? lol haha XD

@Drifter - I'm already formulating a script in my mind.




@Topic: I might tell her one of these days. Depending on whatever could happen in the following days.

tell her! :D