For the girls: What would be your reaction?
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Epraizer Z wrote...
Help me formulate a script on what to tell her :DYou should ask yourself why you want to tell her. Be truthful.
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What I thought of so far.
Hey. Can I talk to you for a bit?
-Response
Tell story:
I happen to come across unto a picture in your multiply account that you ought to delete.
-Response(Why?/Can I see which picture are you referring to?)
Here. Show link. I know it's weird for a guy to be pointing this out but I thought that I should point this out to you because I care about you and as a friend I need to look after you.
I don't know what happens next.
Hey. Can I talk to you for a bit?
-Response
Tell story:
I happen to come across unto a picture in your multiply account that you ought to delete.
-Response(Why?/Can I see which picture are you referring to?)
Here. Show link. I know it's weird for a guy to be pointing this out but I thought that I should point this out to you because I care about you and as a friend I need to look after you.
I don't know what happens next.
Spoiler:
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Friends don't let friends show their naughty bits on the interwebz.
[size=9]Unless it's a porn thing, I guess..[/h]
[size=9]Unless it's a porn thing, I guess..[/h]
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Drifter995
Neko//Night
I asked my gf this.. she said she'd be grateful, but also find you creepy at the same time..
If it were me, I'd be like:
me- Hey, uh don't mean to alarm you, but whilst looking at one of your pictures, i noticed something you may want to check out/ remove.. *points at nip slip* I don't want to seem creepy or anything.. just trying to be helpful. :)
that may work.
If it were me, I'd be like:
me- Hey, uh don't mean to alarm you, but whilst looking at one of your pictures, i noticed something you may want to check out/ remove.. *points at nip slip* I don't want to seem creepy or anything.. just trying to be helpful. :)
that may work.
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Drifter995 wrote...
I asked my gf this.. she said she'd be grateful, but also find you creepy at the same time..If it were me, I'd be like:
me- Hey, uh don't mean to alarm you, but whilst looking at one of your pictures, i noticed something you may want to check out/ remove.. *points at nip slip* I don't want to seem creepy or anything.. just trying to be helpful. :)
that may work.
Will try this one out..sounds better than the one I made.
I'm gonna tell her one of these days. I must muster my courage.
Thanks for all the replies so far.
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depending on your relationship and how they see you. its not to hard to tell it off as a joke
like for me im seen as an idiot and a pervert. so telling them wont be as hard. then it go to how old the picture is.
if its like a month old not its not that bad to tell them, but if it was a year old you have to pull it off as joke and overreact saying 'you had that up for a year and you didnt notice whats wrong with you?!' then you'll have to improvise depending on how they'll react and how bad the nipple slip was
like for me im seen as an idiot and a pervert. so telling them wont be as hard. then it go to how old the picture is.
if its like a month old not its not that bad to tell them, but if it was a year old you have to pull it off as joke and overreact saying 'you had that up for a year and you didnt notice whats wrong with you?!' then you'll have to improvise depending on how they'll react and how bad the nipple slip was
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Drifter995 wrote...
I asked my gf this.. she said she'd be grateful, but also find you creepy at the same time..If it were me, I'd be like:
me- Hey, uh don't mean to alarm you, but whilst looking at one of your pictures, i noticed something you may want to check out/ remove.. *points at nip slip* I don't want to seem creepy or anything.. just trying to be helpful. :)
that may work.
[size=12]this sounds best to me, man. i know i'd be grateful if one of my dude friends pointed it out to me - as long as it's for my own sake and not because he's trying to look at my boobs. i'd be embarrassed, sure, but it'd be more embarrassing if others started noticing and it became a topic of conversation when i'm not around. ;n;
everyone else: LOL DID YOU SEE MENO'S NIP SLIP IN THAT PICTURE?
other person: dude, i know!!!
me: -walks in- hey what's up? C:
everyone else: lololol nothing.[/h]
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ToyManC
Forgot my safe word
If you know any of her other female friends, maybe you can tell them about the photo so they can pass the information on without embarrassment. Just tell your friend's friend you'd spotted the photo by accident and were too embarrassed to tell her directly. That way she won't think you were just being creepy or secretive about it.
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Jinrou Koko wrote...
Casually say it? That way you wont slip into this friend zone!Please expound. I'm curious @_@
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Epraizer Z wrote...
Jinrou Koko wrote...
Casually say it? That way you wont slip into this friend zone!Please expound. I'm curious @_@
Meh dunno like you found it by accident
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Jinrou Koko wrote...
Epraizer Z wrote...
Jinrou Koko wrote...
Casually say it? That way you wont slip into this friend zone!Please expound. I'm curious @_@
Meh dunno like you found it by accident
I see..kinda like saying that I just stumbled upon it.
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Epraizer Z wrote...
Jinrou Koko wrote...
Epraizer Z wrote...
Jinrou Koko wrote...
Casually say it? That way you wont slip into this friend zone!Please expound. I'm curious @_@
Meh dunno like you found it by accident
I see..kinda like saying that I just stumbled upon it.
Ya like that
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Jinrou Koko wrote...
Epraizer Z wrote...
Jinrou Koko wrote...
Epraizer Z wrote...
Jinrou Koko wrote...
Casually say it? That way you wont slip into this friend zone!Please expound. I'm curious @_@
Meh dunno like you found it by accident
I see..kinda like saying that I just stumbled upon it.
Ya like that
But it's hard to come up with a way to say it since nobody is very active on multiply anymore. :|
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If you can ever get her to view the same computer screen as you, try to find some reason to check out her page, go through some pictures, making fun of them or something normal friends would do, and when you get to this one, act like you just spotted it.
Not saying that's the best approach, but one you may want to consider.
Not saying that's the best approach, but one you may want to consider.
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Lughost
the Lugoat
Let's hope you don't wind up with a big 'ol handprint on your face! Good luck :P
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Drifter995
Neko//Night
Epraizer Z wrote...
I'm telling her later..wish me luck people @_@Much luck. I hope it goes well for you :)
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Actually I've had such an experience. There's a photo of me somewhere showing me drunk at a friends 18th with one of my girlfriends (just friends), and the birthday boy. I hadn't realised that my tank top/singlet thing was falling down, and no thought to tell me, so there I was showing most of my bra and some nipslip to the world. My best friend (A girl) later found the picture posted on the net, tagged me in it to show me how bad it was, and reported it to be removed at my discretion. I was glad she told me. I was so embarrassed by the picture, and the guy that posted the photo got a mouthful from me about it later (He apologised and said that it was just all in good fun).
For future reference:
Just keep it casual, but not so "hey you need a bit of nip-tuck there darl"
More like private message her and say "just thought I'd let you know that you're showing a bit of _?_ in your _?_ photo"
Just make sure she doesn't take it the wrong way and that your just trying to look out for her and be a good mate :)
Hope it went for you!
For future reference:
Just keep it casual, but not so "hey you need a bit of nip-tuck there darl"
More like private message her and say "just thought I'd let you know that you're showing a bit of _?_ in your _?_ photo"
Just make sure she doesn't take it the wrong way and that your just trying to look out for her and be a good mate :)
Hope it went for you!