friend zone

What would make you friend zone someone? Or why do you think people have friend zoned you?

It's when you don't have romantic or sexual feelings for someone.

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But sometimes we do want to bang them right but we limit it to just friends? I think I had a few, well one was he was too crazy so I had to create the distance even if I really wanted to go romantic/sexual with him. But ok

Am I friend zoned Lollikittie?

o_o Why are you asking?

Lol to gauge your reaction and answer.

Total honesty? Right now, everyone is. I'm emotionally and physically unavailable - the potential for any kind of connection right now is nonexistent.

Yup, pretty much what loli said.

Also, tips on getting out of the friend zone.

This. It's a pretty easy concept actually.

I friend zone people because I just want to hang out and have casual conversation without the pressure to do or become anything more than friends.

When I get friend zoned it's usually because "I act like a bro and do not come off as available".

ppl tend to put people in the friend zone when they arent strangers and dont have any sexual feelings towards the person:in my case i am a bit emotionally unavailable due to my last relationship

Why im usually in the friend zone:i dont get too personal with people and i dont have any initiative to get out of the friend zone,I really dont know how to flirt with women

cold dead illness, you saying im like sick -_- , sex and emotional attachment are different

but ok from your posts, so to be friend zoned is them not accepting your 'love' right. but they might allow having sex with you.

hmmmm =_=

and on tsujoi's post,

oh my god ive been telling that to some of the people that i sleep with! but i didnt really have it in my mind to 'friendzone' them. I just thought id be open with it? >_> . then again, fine I didnt really wanted to have a relationship with them, just sex I guess.

wow, I DO try to help and coach them on how to get a girl!!!

I dont think its almost impossible to be out of the friendzone though. sometimes circumstances arise that allow this friendzoned individual to outshine the others >_>

Like one time, I had an accident and all the guys that I had the hots for didnt help me. but this one guy, which I really dont like, rescued me and it made me feel different towards him.

Me though, I think I friend zone people when I feel like I know this person cannot give me everything that I want, I mean like below 75% maybe of what I want.

I get friendzoned mostly due to sexual incompatibility -_-

haha just jokin

after seeing plenty enough of people who have sex without love, its kinda hard to ignore it. men and women. we want to believe its like that, hell I used to but thats not how it is all the time. and thing is, theres nothing wrong with it. i used to hate and be all self righteous but later you get to just grow out of it. its like santa.

equally so, it can be naive to expect that because someone had sex with you this person loves you right?

I think some older folks probably feel its 'time' to enjoy what time they have left while they still can get the fun. of course im just guessing.

but that is the thing though, them being different and separate = you can accept that you can love someone even if you two dont have sex. sex is not mandatory for love to exist just as love isnt a requirement to do it.

a lot of people however, confuse sex for love. usually the younger folks, its just being horny - its not love haha.

as a friend of mine once said (shes a major otaku nut), "its not love, you just found out what an orgasm is"

Hmmm well probably not being attracted to them in the slightest. Although I personally think that if a girl was interested in me and she is a good person+decent looking I'd at least try to get to know them (if I didn't already know them/were friends).

I sometimes don't understand the concept of friendzone at least in name because just because you are friends doesn't mean that you can't be together romantically you know? Or even sometime in the future maybe.

I think you need to pm me, son. I want to talk to you about you and shit... Been a while since we last talked, and last time I had an unload, so, it's your turn to unload anything you've got pent up. GOGOGOGOGOOGOGOGOGO. Pm away.


OT: What lolli said...
Ever been in a relationship with somebody, and THEN got friendzoned? I fucking have... It's happened a couple of times, now that I think about it...

Ugly, flat chested, bad teeth, acne, oily hair, general dirtiness, super short, super tall, no job, no ambitions.

Never been friend zoned because I've never even gotten that far in life.

Not like i'm crying on the inside right now.

And I would assume it even mattered to you... why?

He's joking. [size=10]I think.[/h]

OT: I don't think I've ever Friend Zoned people and if I have it was unintentional. I don't really have it in me to play on a girl's feelings to make me feel better, as most of the girls who Friend Zone me seem to do.

What would make a girl friend zone me? Likely because as of late I don't really show an interest in holding a meaningful conversation with anyone for extended periods of time outside of exchanging quips and making jokes. I want to, but can just never bring myself to.

What would make me Friend Zone a person? Just not feeling any romantic or sexual attraction to them.

Unattractive, unhygienic, not my emotional or intellectual equal, shortens his/her words or generally uses excessive interweb speak, homophobic, transphobic, racist, makes "women belong in the kitchen" jokes or is generally anti-feminist, religious, doesn't want marriage or children in the future, already has a kid(s), is in the military, isn't monogamous, has issues with substance abuse, is untrustworthy, watches pornography excessively, has an unmatched sex drive or sexual interests*, wants to be called "daddy" or other variations there-of, is controlling/possessive or has unmanageable trust issues, doesn't have a backbone and lets others walk all over them, doesn't put me or the family we create together first, is a workaholic, doesn't want to travel, doesn't like anything foreign or is generally unwilling to experience new things, doesn't share my interests and is unwilling to take the time to see why I like the things that I do, belittles my opinions/thoughts/feelings, doesn't treat me like an equal in the relationship...

I can probably think of more, but... you kind of get it.