friend zone
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HappyDia01 wrote...
Unattractive, unhygienic, not my emotional or intellectual equal, shortens his/her words or generally uses excessive interweb speak, homophobic, transphobic, racist, makes "women belong in the kitchen" jokes or is generally anti-feminist, religious, doesn't want marriage or children in the future, already has a kid(s), is in the military, isn't monogamous, has issues with substance abuse, is untrustworthy, watches pornography excessively, has an unmatched sex drive or sexual interests*, wants to be called "daddy" or other variations there-of, is controlling/possessive or has unmanageable trust issues, doesn't have a backbone and lets others walk all over them, doesn't put me or the family we create together first, is a workaholic, doesn't want to travel, doesn't like anything foreign or is generally unwilling to experience new things, doesn't share my interests and is unwilling to take the time to see why I like the things that I do, belittles my opinions/thoughts/feelings, doesn't treat me like an equal in the relationship...I can probably think of more, but... you kind of get it.
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odd enough the top portion is exactly what I think too. hmmmmm
"has issues with substance abuse", so you take some? thats cool
as for the bottom part em...
im not into those either. I dated this guy once who was into this diaper thing, oh yeah I had a girl who for some reason had this elderly thing too and she lactates? I think she wanted me to taste it but I dont really wanna...
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PublicRed wrote...
"has issues with substance abuse", so you take some? thats cool
-facepalm-
No. What she meant is she doesn't want to date someone who regularly takes or is addicted to a substance.
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PublicRed wrote...
odd enough the top portion is exactly what I think too. hmmmmm
"has issues with substance abuse", so you take some? thats cool
No. Absolutely not. I suppose that I worded that oddly, and for that I apologize... but I meant that I could not be with someone who abuses drugs and/or alcohol. Personally, I immediately write someone off as a romantic possibility and even a close friend the moment that I find out that they use recreational drugs. However, I've known people who abuse even prescription medications and who drink excessively, and those aren't much better either.
Also, yeah - people are into weird shit. People can make just about anything into a sexual fetish. I think some people have even managed to become aroused by the blowing up and popping of balloons, so there you go.
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HappyDia01 wrote...
PublicRed wrote...
odd enough the top portion is exactly what I think too. hmmmmm
"has issues with substance abuse", so you take some? thats cool
No. Absolutely not. I suppose that I worded that oddly, and for that I apologize... but I meant that I could not be with someone who abuses drugs and/or alcohol. Personally, I immediately write someone off as a romantic possibility and even a close friend the moment that I find out that they use recreational drugs. However, I've known people who abuse even prescription medications and who drink excessively, and those aren't much better either.
Also, yeah - people are into weird shit. People can make just about anything into a sexual fetish. I think some people have even managed to become aroused by the blowing up and popping of balloons, so there you go.
OH... ok. But yeah, I have been friends with those who do, but I guess Ideally I'd opt for one who doesnt 'abuse' drugs/alcohol, Ive seen plenty of it already -_-
Certain drugs can have a permanent damage to people really, like E.
Yeah, its funny sometimes when the fetish overshadows things. Like this guy I know refuses to mess around with girls unless they wear stockings.
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gizgal wrote...
http://s3-ec.buzzfed.com/static/enhanced/web04/2012/4/10/11/enhanced-buzz-wide-26420-1334073455-46.jpgSame goes vice versa for dudes.
You're totally right, and I agree with you 100%... but given how the question was worded, I feel it's better to just think of it in the context of: "What traits or qualities would cause you to rethink the idea of pursuing a romantic relationship with someone?" I'm curious what your answer will be. :)
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[i]*screams internally at cis "nice guys" complaining about friend zoning*
[size=12]unironically complaining about "friend zoning" is one good way to get removed from my life, so I guess that sorta counts as 'friend zoning.' if by 'friend zoning' you mean "makes me think you're a shitty human being."[/h]
[size=12]unironically complaining about "friend zoning" is one good way to get removed from my life, so I guess that sorta counts as 'friend zoning.' if by 'friend zoning' you mean "makes me think you're a shitty human being."[/h]
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Tsujoi
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HappyDia01 wrote...
gizgal wrote...
http://s3-ec.buzzfed.com/static/enhanced/web04/2012/4/10/11/enhanced-buzz-wide-26420-1334073455-46.jpgSame goes vice versa for dudes.
You're totally right, and I agree with you 100%... but given how the question was worded, I feel it's better to just think of it in the context of: "What traits or qualities would cause you to rethink the idea of pursuing a romantic relationship with someone?" I'm curious what your answer will be. :)
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