Girls: Your first time? Painful, enjoyable?

I'm pretty sure going from nowhere to sex is gone be alot different than going from actually knowing what an orgasm feels like to sex.

<.<;;

She was bound to not like it if she's never even masturbated, the first time I did, I described the feeling as weird. So she'd probably describe it as weird and painful, at best. Not saying you should stop, just saying you should've went slower with it.

I am not a girl.

Women don't get off on penetration. Only way to stimulate and make sex actually somewhat enjoyable for women is to stimulate their vaginal area with either your fingers or tongue.

Not necessarily true. I got off my ex-girlfriend through penetration, so it's possible. Though you'll have to experiment and see what gets her going...
...also take it slow and short on the strokes first. That way you'll last long enough to find out.

[color=blue]The first time always hurts, unless the guy has no girth. In that case it's not satisfying.

Didn't help that the guy I had the first time with was going at it really rough. He just ignored me when I asked him to slow down. [/color]

WRONG:



That means 66.666667% of non-virgin males on fakku disagree with you. Consider your claim falsified.

I think you might be have a flaw somewhere in your assumptions, though I of cause fail at pinpointing where exactly the problem lies.

The V-cards I have revoked hurt the girl, where one literally broke (the entrance muscle tore). So I think my answer (on behalf of girls) will be the same as the previous ones and all future post in this thread: it will hurt and feel uncomfortable for the girl.

Because there is none. An allquantor-qualified logical expression ("all males enjoy their first time") is valid iff it applies to call parts of a set.
If it does not apply to even only one part of the given set (to you), it is automatically invalidated, that is to say, falsified.
Guy in my avatar knows it all.

I fully agree with your logic, it was the assumptions you base your calculations which I suspect may contain a slight error.

Clearly your avatar is a well informed gentleman.

My GF enjoyed it on her first time, figures that I spend almost 3 hrs just on foreplay.

Man, way to spoil it.
The error was obvious, with or without an understanding of logic (formal or the "everyday household kind"). While I am unaware if THE ECONOMY has had any training in formal logic, then I have and I am confident that THE ECONOMY has a good grasp on it regardless.





In my experience it took awhile before they really physically enjoyed it (not that they did not like it, but they had to get use to the feeling), but especially for girls sex is also a mental activity, so making her feel good about her self and her being with someone she really likes will make the experience good for her. (this is obvious second hand info, since I am male)

My 'first time' took 5 whole attempts at sex. So it took 5 times for me to go over to my ex's house and us to try again and again before he could go all the way inside.

No, I'm not massively tight, and he wasn't massively large.
I think the biggest problem was that I hurt his foreskin. He wasn't circumcised, and due to my muscles being stretched for the first time, my vaginal walls would pull his foreskin back too far where it pulled on it. (My assumption)

It was rather uncomfortable, and kind of awkward too. Though we were both virgins so the awkwardness wasn't very high. If my first partner hadn't been a virgin, I'm sure it wouldn't have taken so long (though how hard is it to stick something in a hole?) had my first partner been experienced.



But to answer the thread starters question:
I don't think masturbating is exactly a prerequisite, but I do believe masturbation will get her more accustomed to what she likes and what feels good for her. I masturbated before losing my virginity, but I never did anything vaginal.

After having that area opened up from sex, and after the break up, my friend took me to a sex toy store to help me 'forget' about him. So I spent more time on 'me' and I learned different things I liked and I knew how to feel for an orgasm coming or how to control my abdominal muscles to help build an orgasm.

Get her a vibrator ;p even if she is shocked and totally embarrassed, she'll use it. Even if she doesn't admit she uses it.

tldr: Sex gets better when the person is more familiar with their likes and dislikes.

Thank you for that... I really wasnt planning on reading that whole thing.

Anyway, IM NOT A GIRL; but in my experience girls dont necessarily love it their first time. ESPECIALLY if theyve never even masturbated before. The first time, whether you be male or female, is a pretty major experience, so I would just give her time. But just because the first time wasnt great, that doesnt mean you should stop, you just have to let her get used to it. And that only comes through experience :)

My first time was a nightmare. I am unable to share further details about it, though.

Crazy guro shit?

Actually I've done this before, I guess she did use it then? lol

As a consolation, I guess I'm glad it was not some guro shit. Only a few people know of this unfortunate incident that happened to me a long while back and I think I'll be putting myself up to being ridiculed by sharing it with you guys. Please be mindful that it'll open up a floodgate of emotions when I do type this down.

I was 15 when I was clobbered with a helmet by my first boyfriend/rapist, then made to submit to have sex. I was a date-rape victim. I'm just glad to get over the whole thing with the support of my family, friends and school back then. Sometimes, I wonder if my life would have been different if that event didn't take place. It affected me in so many ways and it even led to my failed marriage. I think I rather stop here. I have steeled myself from being a self-pitying fool and have made progress in many areas after that. It is my prayer that no girl/woman or boy/man undergo such physical/emotional trauma.




EDIT: I thank x-gen and Argentine for your convictions in treating women right.