Girls: Your first time? Painful, enjoyable?

drsteve1970 · 2010-03-27T19:03:00-01:00

So, my girlfriend finally decided to go through with it, and we had sex, etc etc. Problem was, I don't think she really enjoyed it. She had no experience masturbating before, and even during oral sex/etc, even though she would get very wet, really had no idea what kind of feeling it was. So, long story short, I don't think she liked it that much. She bled, and was in a lot of pain, almost changing her mind halfway through. Even asking her later, what she liked and didn't like, she really had no idea what an orgasm was supposed to feel like. So, question for the *ladies*: How long did it take you to begin enjoying sex? Is learning to enjoy masturbation/getting used to those kind of feelings a prerequisite, or did anyone go from zero to sixty in one night, and still manage to enjoy it? Guys, no need to answer, we all enjoyed out first time (a lot like a manga- came three times, including once before I put it in! Huzzah!). Girls, on the other hand..........is it normal to just not like the first time? Or second/third/fourth?

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x-gen

15 years ago

Nobody in their right mind would ridicule that. I won't pity you since you've overcome that. It's just quite infuriating how so many good guys out there can't get a date, while assholes like this get to do this with impunity.

Argentine

15 years ago

x-gen wrote...

This person speaks the truth.Its any wonder how they even get dates in the first place - - ;;.

Guys who cant respect girls shouldn't be allowed to live

CPOK

15 years ago

Argentine wrote...

x-gen wrote...

This person speaks the truth.Its any wonder how they even get dates in the first place - - ;;.

Guys who cant respect girls shouldn't be allowed to live

Totally agree with both of you there.

Blackraider78

15 years ago

Truly there are some still, who'm apparently cannot foresee the tremendous emotional suffering and pain that such a thing causes.
Too oftenly are woman seen as tools, where they are humans and MUCH to oftenly for this worlds sake, are they treated as such.

A horrible and dispicable deed. In my eyes, a rapist is not worth the title of: 'Human being'.

Going straight back on topic... I have no comments on it. I just felt like putting in my 5 cents.

Kuro1/2

15 years ago

Argentine wrote...

Guys who cant respect girls shouldn't be allowed to live

Lulz you really are ronery.

ps: Do you agree that the oposite could be said, too? Girls that don't respect guys shouldn't be allowed to live?

Alex~kun

15 years ago

I do, with equal treatment and all that jazz. Respect is a basis for many things. Without it, you either have to used to being alone, or be "one serious hard ass".

This is just my opinion though...

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