Help! Even I don't know what to do.
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623
FAKKU QA
miss-esquire wrote...
artcellrox wrote...
miss-esquire wrote...
623 wrote...
Actually, interestingly enough, a user on this site has two wives.My first question to that would be- have these women met eachother?
Yes, actually. The second wife is also a non-blood distant cousin of the husband, and it was the first wife herself that egged them on in the end. Cue polygamy, and a threesome that lasted the entire following night and gave the poor bastard friction burn on his penis.
Also, I believe the correct term is "bachelorette". :]
From a straight Latina's standpoint, I don't get it. One or both of those girls has to be getting seriously short changed, my friend, or have a sadly lacking sex drive. I've yet to meet the man who can give me as much as I want, so another woman would only be in my way. Latina as are many of my friends. Our drives are too high to share peacefully. On the contrary, more than one man would suit well, but there is no scenario that I'd be ok with to actually do it. Doesn't penis burn happen to every guy the first time with a new lover?
Well, it happens. And guys from India can have 5 wives, I met one the other day. Different circumstances, sure. And I'm pretty sure most women aren't "omg sex 24/7" as much as men would want, because your comment is making it seem like all women have these insatiable sex drives that constantly need attention. Just because you can't get enough doesn't mean other women can't.
miss-esquire wrote...
Bachelorette, like stewardess or hostess, is just a lame feminization that only serves to trivialize a woman's position. Running around as a bachelorette just screams 'please marry me, I'm still single.' Being a bachelor is perceived as more a lifestyle choice than being a bachelorette (a sad type of game show contestant) and a lot more respectable. Anything with 'ette' on the end of it is usually the butt of a joke or a punch line. No thanks. I'll pass on that one.I've heard of women disliking the morpheme -ette before because, in addition to it being used to describe and identify feminine things, it's also used to describe diminutive things, which leads to some potentially negative implications. Your reasoning goes over my head a little...but if you're going to call yourself a bachelor on the internet, you're going to be identified as a guy. There's no two ways about it. As far as people are concerned, bachelor=guy, bachelorette=girl. It's not like there's a blanket term such as "waitron" that can be used. Hell, when I first started reading your posts, I got the impression you were a woman, plus the "miss-esquire", then you said you were a bachelor in one, so I abandoned that thought. In real life is different, obviously, but on the internet it'll cause confusion. Whether you care or not is up to you.
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In the end, the relationship end of it didn't work out anyway. I ended up with just the first one.
In regards to to what you were saying, Esquire-san, I have too much sex-drive, so that isn't the problem. hehe...
In regards to to what you were saying, Esquire-san, I have too much sex-drive, so that isn't the problem. hehe...
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623 wrote...
...but if you're going to call yourself a bachelor on the internet, you're going to be identified as a guy. There's no two ways about it. As far as people are concerned, bachelor=guy, bachelorette=girl. It's not like there's a blanket term such as "waitron" that can be used. Hell, when I first started reading your posts, I got the impression you were a woman, plus the "miss-esquire", then you said you were a bachelor in one, so I abandoned that thought. In real life is different, obviously, but on the internet it'll cause confusion. Whether you care or not is up to you.Yikes! Well, when you put it that way, bachelorette it is! Lol. I definitely don't want to gender confuse people. Good point.
Kitsune_no_Suki wrote...
In the end, the relationship end of it didn't work out anyway. I ended up with just the first one.In regards to to what you were saying, Esquire-san, I have too much sex-drive, so that isn't the problem. hehe...
Well, lucky girl No. 1. Hope she keeps up with you :)
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The idea of a love triangle isn't ridiculous, but the idea of falling in love after 5 hours of knowing your EXES girlfriend is a bit dumb. It's honestly not cool.
Love doesn't happen in 5 hours, it takes time, you might think you love her and are just starstruck by her right now.
Don't jump into shit like this until you know someone well enough, personally I think it might work, but only if Christie still loves you, because if she doesn't like you at all than in the end it'll just You&Ann, plus Ann&Christie, which in the end is Ann being selfish, and you kind of being a homewrecker.
Don't propose such a thing, bring up maybe trying a three way relationship, but bringing up marriage right now, just makes you sound like a selfish person.
Love doesn't happen in 5 hours, it takes time, you might think you love her and are just starstruck by her right now.
Don't jump into shit like this until you know someone well enough, personally I think it might work, but only if Christie still loves you, because if she doesn't like you at all than in the end it'll just You&Ann, plus Ann&Christie, which in the end is Ann being selfish, and you kind of being a homewrecker.
Don't propose such a thing, bring up maybe trying a three way relationship, but bringing up marriage right now, just makes you sound like a selfish person.
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Kitsune_no_Suki wrote...
In the end, the relationship end of it didn't work out anyway. I ended up with just the first one.So much for your psychic connection, aye?
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HappyDia01 wrote...
Kitsune_no_Suki wrote...
In the end, the relationship end of it didn't work out anyway. I ended up with just the first one.So much for your psychic connection, aye?
I thought saying that would be like rubbing salt in a wound (at least if I did), but hell if it isn't hilarious.
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Please_don't_ban_me wrote...
I thought saying that would be like rubbing salt in a wound (at least if I did), but hell if it isn't hilarious.You know me. You can always count on me to be that asshole that says some shit nobody else had to the balls to say. :P
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HappyDia01 wrote...
Please_don't_ban_me wrote...
I thought saying that would be like rubbing salt in a wound (at least if I did), but hell if it isn't hilarious.You know me. You can always count on me to be that asshole that says some shit nobody else had to the balls to say. :P
After having found myself on the other end of it... I can't imagine the fact...
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animefreak_usa
Child of Samael
I never understood Polygamy. I understand polyamory or swinging but having two women your married to... fuck it hard with one.
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HappyDia01 wrote...
Kitsune_no_Suki wrote...
In the end, the relationship end of it didn't work out anyway. I ended up with just the first one.So much for your psychic connection, aye?
I only felt the Psychic connection with Ann. And not only was it me, she had felt it as she talked to me. We felt like we knew each other by speech patterns, by personality, looks, and even by voice. But we have not seen each other before.
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The only way to make it work is to be honest. You can't soften the blow, can't sugar the pot, can't beat around the bush. It will all boil down to the truth in her mind anyways, so the only adult thing to do is come clean.
If it's meant to happen, you'll become a triad. If it's not meant to happen, you may lose one or both of them. Love is never easy, and it certainly isn't fair.
If it's meant to happen, you'll become a triad. If it's not meant to happen, you may lose one or both of them. Love is never easy, and it certainly isn't fair.
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miss-esquire wrote...
623 wrote...
Actually, interestingly enough, a user on this site has two wives.My first question to that would be- have these women met eachother? Lol. They call it a 'third wheel' for a reason. It is awkward to maintain. A relationship of two is hard enough! Then throw women and their customarily difficult personalities together and men's natural reaction to women during arguments (duck and cover) which wrecks two person marriages, let alone a trio. Just seems like a recipe for disaster. We aren't even talking about children and society at large. There are a lot of hills to climb there and I have grave doubts about whether it would be all its cracked up to be in the end. But I'm a bachelor. I can't even manage to keep up a relationship with one man, let alone two.
He's in a legitimate triad relationship. He was married to his wife, and his non-blood related cousin essentially mouth-raped him awake. He goes and tells his wife, and she agrees to a triad.
He and his first wife just welcomed their daughter. All three of them.. and.. now four.. are still going strong. They all live under the same roof. They all have threesomes. They all behave as a family.
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Lollikittie wrote...
He's in a legitimate triad relationship. He was married to his wife, and his non-blood related cousin essentially mouth-raped him awake. He goes and tells his wife, and she agrees to a triad.He and his first wife just welcomed their daughter. All three of them.. and.. now four.. are still going strong. They all live under the same roof. They all have threesomes. They all behave as a family.
Sounds beautiful. Incidently, I ended up with one. Although it seems it's still a love triangle: Christie loves Ann, Ann loves me AND Christie, and I love Ann.
It's..... Rather complicated still, and I doubt it will not be, until she chooses.
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SolidShark wrote...
Brace yourself: We're in the internet.
Anybody can claim to be filthy rich or have many wives/husbands. Surprise! Surprise!
I'm not going to fight you on this, because you're kind of obviously a troll, but.. whatever. Run along now, Timmy.
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AvatarEnd wrote...
you know her 5 hours and are proposing the topic of marriage. A bit inane.Fucking Yuno(mirai nikki)
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Gravity cat
the adequately amused
HappyDia01 wrote...
Please_don't_ban_me wrote...
I thought saying that would be like rubbing salt in a wound (at least if I did), but hell if it isn't hilarious.You know me. You can always count on me to be that asshole that says some shit nobody else had to the balls to say. :P
If you hadn't have said it I would, but I didn't know he responded. Even now I'm over a week late.