How can I bring the passion and excitement back?
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artcellrox
The Grey Knight :y
crazymissotaku wrote...
Thank you for your help, everyone. I managed to work up the courage to tell him how I felt and that I was worried about if everything was okay or not, and everything went very well! ^-^ Everyone here helped give me that little push I needed, and I'm grateful for that. You're all wonderful! ^/////^ lols!I bet it was a fun night afterwards, eh? ;)
But seriously, I'm glad the people here were able to help. Hope the spark only grows from here on out, Des. :)
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crazymissotaku wrote...
Thank you for your help, everyone. I managed to work up the courage to tell him how I felt and that I was worried about if everything was okay or not, and everything went very well! ^-^ Everyone here helped give me that little push I needed, and I'm grateful for that. You're all wonderful! ^/////^ lols!Glad to help. xd
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hightide wrote...
You can also focus on your side of life more. Focus on your friends/family/work for some time and see what happens. Sometimes, you just need to let the other person miss you. Other times, your significant other is just preoccupied with something else for the time being.I know crazymissotaku already solved her problem, but in case if someone else is struggling with the same problem, do what hightide said. When living with your significant other you usually spend ALOT time together. So seeing each other naked happens all the time, so its not that exiting anymore. And being together at home all day every day gets boring. Sleeping next to each other naked doesnt get you that exited anymore, because you do it every day and so on. If that happens, there are many things you can do. Like if you like being naked/half naked all the time at home, start wearing more clothes, so your SO doesnt get so used to your naked body. For a few days try sleeping in separate beds if possible. In general spend more time apart.
Or try out a game: neither of you are allowed to touch your own or your partners private parts. So you can only touch your own pussy/penis in a non sexual way, like cleaning, wiping after toilet and so on. And your partner isnt allowed to touch him/herself either. And you cant touch eachothers private parts either. So, the loser is the one who masturbates or touches the partners private parts first. And the fun part is trying to make the other one lose. So suggestive clothing, naughty talk, suggestive touching around your own or his/her body (but not private parts!) and other things to make the other one lose his mind! and do it till either one of you rapes the other out of sexual frustration.
I dont know about other people, but just for fun we've tried this few times, and it really works. The sex after the other one loses is amazing.
But really in similar cases to OPs there are many reasons, and in a good relationship the cheating is quite unlikely. Reasons can be: stress (because of family, friends, work, or anything), depression, lack of time or anything.
And it could have also been because he thinks op really likes being the one in charge, because she did so many things. And really, everyone of us gets a bit selfish and he might have just enjoyed the attention.
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crazymissotaku wrote...
Well... Umm.... This is kind of embarrassing for me to write, but I kind of need help on how to seduce my hubby, and also on how to communicate what I want. You see, when we first started dating, he'd always want me, and would put so much effort into foreplay, but lately, he's been doing a lot less. He touches me for two seconds and then goes straight for the goal. :/ I always try to take my time to please him in every way I can possibly think of. I've tried dressing up and role-playing, messaging him about how much I want him, I've cooked for him wearing nothing but an apron and heels, and even go down on him randomly without expecting anything in return. I also try so hard to exercise everyday and make sure I look my best for him. I am also the only one who puts any effort into initiating sex anymore. I feel like maybe I don't seem as desirable to him anymore. I want to work on this with him because I do love him very much, but I don't really know how to bring it up without possibly offending him (that's definitely NOT my goal), and also any ideas how to bring the passion back and spice things up would be good. Thank you...dam i wish my future wife would be like u. ur husband doesn't appreciate the good things in life.
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ZGeass wrote...
crazymissotaku wrote...
Well... Umm.... This is kind of embarrassing for me to write, but I kind of need help on how to seduce my hubby, and also on how to communicate what I want. You see, when we first started dating, he'd always want me, and would put so much effort into foreplay, but lately, he's been doing a lot less. He touches me for two seconds and then goes straight for the goal. :/ I always try to take my time to please him in every way I can possibly think of. I've tried dressing up and role-playing, messaging him about how much I want him, I've cooked for him wearing nothing but an apron and heels, and even go down on him randomly without expecting anything in return. I also try so hard to exercise everyday and make sure I look my best for him. I am also the only one who puts any effort into initiating sex anymore. I feel like maybe I don't seem as desirable to him anymore. I want to work on this with him because I do love him very much, but I don't really know how to bring it up without possibly offending him (that's definitely NOT my goal), and also any ideas how to bring the passion back and spice things up would be good. Thank you...dam i wish my future wife would be like u. ur husband doesn't appreciate the good things in life.
ya.. who dosen't.. crazymissotaku your husband is lucky 2 hav u... ^^
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artcellrox
The Grey Knight :y
Raparperi wrote...
Or try out a game: neither of you are allowed to touch your own or your partners private parts. So you can only touch your own pussy/penis in a non sexual way, like cleaning, wiping after toilet and so on. And your partner isnt allowed to touch him/herself either. And you cant touch eachothers private parts either. So, the loser is the one who masturbates or touches the partners private parts first. And the fun part is trying to make the other one lose. So suggestive clothing, naughty talk, suggestive touching around your own or his/her body (but not private parts!) and other things to make the other one lose his mind! and do it till either one of you rapes the other out of sexual frustration.I dont know about other people, but just for fun we've tried this few times, and it really works. The sex after the other one loses is amazing.
*takes notes*
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Drifter995
Neko//Night
Raparperi wrote...
Or try out a game: neither of you are allowed to touch your own or your partners private parts. So you can only touch your own pussy/penis in a non sexual way, like cleaning, wiping after toilet and so on. And your partner isnt allowed to touch him/herself either. And you cant touch eachothers private parts either. So, the loser is the one who masturbates or touches the partners private parts first. And the fun part is trying to make the other one lose. So suggestive clothing, naughty talk, suggestive touching around your own or his/her body (but not private parts!) and other things to make the other one lose his mind! and do it till either one of you rapes the other out of sexual frustration.I dont know about other people, but just for fun we've tried this few times, and it really works. The sex after the other one loses is amazing.
but this could go on for days.. my lawd it would be a boring week if we did that.. but i suppose that's why you dress suggestively huhuhu
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Drifter995 wrote...
Raparperi wrote...
Or try out a game: neither of you are allowed to touch your own or your partners private parts. So you can only touch your own pussy/penis in a non sexual way, like cleaning, wiping after toilet and so on. And your partner isnt allowed to touch him/herself either. And you cant touch eachothers private parts either. So, the loser is the one who masturbates or touches the partners private parts first. And the fun part is trying to make the other one lose. So suggestive clothing, naughty talk, suggestive touching around your own or his/her body (but not private parts!) and other things to make the other one lose his mind! and do it till either one of you rapes the other out of sexual frustration.I dont know about other people, but just for fun we've tried this few times, and it really works. The sex after the other one loses is amazing.
but this could go on for days.. my lawd it would be a boring week if we did that.. but i suppose that's why you dress suggestively huhuhu
Thats the idea, both have to make some effort and try to make the other one lose. So at this game its good for girls to remember all of their boyfriends' favorite poses ;D
