how did you confess your love to your girl?

Oh she loved it. Its just such a long story. Its in one of these threads

2 days ago after reading some stories in here realized how much of a coward and idiot i have been since the 9th grade... i let this beautiful girl go who was 80% sure liked me and i never did tell her i liked her.I'm pretty sure i liked her but it may have even been more than that for all i know but I'm just now realizing this and I'm coming down pretty hard on myself for it now but to at least try to make things right, on Valentines day i'm going to tell her and every other girl that i've liked since the 9th grade that i like them (its about 8 of them) even though i already know that nothing too good can even come out of it at this point but what the hell i wont be so mad at myself anymore... but i just wonder what my best female friend Julia will say when i tell her ... hmm...

Same here.

i have confessed a couple of times, but it never worked... it's almost a reason to cry, but im not that kinda guy... besaides im too drunk >=P

im waiting for someone to confess to me, im bored to confess to some one else

I almost did, but she found out first
she wasn't happy

I always got someone else to act as middle man/match maker

Arg. I always found this to be the worse way to do things. Something's bound to go wrong, or you end up screwing something up. Than again, that's just in my experience.

I do not really see why something has to go wrong, and if you are the nervous/shy type this might be the only way to make the other person aware that he/she is special to you.

I do however prefer to be a man about it and just tell the girl.

I usually go with something like a letter, or similar. Like I said, it's just in my experience. If it works, it works. To me however, having someone else do it for you is like saying, "Yeah, I like you, but not nearly enough to tell you myself in some way, shape, or form." I've had people do that to me every now and again (that is, they had a friend talk to me), and rejected them for that very reason. In turn, I learned my lesson the first time when I did the same thing... in High School, as a Freshman. Enough said.

Having a middle man isnt so bad but just on the beginning like introduction if youre too shy...but having a middle man all the time isnt really good...you wont be able to know what the real she is, you're not gonna get that close to her that much...but not all the way, coz sometimes, the girl u like and the middle man you trust sometimes end up together...so its kinda bad for you XD>...

I am super shy when i like a woman. most times a close friend will notice and say something first, and then the 'object of my desire' will hit on me. i don't mind, as i kind of prefer aggressive women.

Never have a Girlfriend. I can't find Ms. Right :)

One of the toughest things to say for you do not know her response. I tell her I like you and I want to date you. Then wait and see if it goes past date seven.

If does, I start to get serious and wait for a response from her.

I asked her one year in our high school Gym class if she wanted to go out with me
(sounds dumb the way I asked doesn't it?) and she said she just liked being friends :(

With my fist to her face.

Chloroform and some rope work well too.

My first... I awaited us to be alone. Then I gave her a cute card saying that I liked her (hey, I was 15... I almost peed on my pants for how nervous was I). She said "I knew it. Sorry". Something more than that, but it was pretty emotionless from both sides. Obviously when I got home I cried like a bitch (when no one was around, I was able hide it too well).

Nowadays, I should say that my confessions are not that romantic. I call the girl to an specific place, with no interruption, and explain her in a very detailed way what I like about her, when I did start feeling that way, and how I think it would be satisfactory for both of us to be a couple. All that in a serious and emotionless tone, as if I were explaining her about some business instead of something romantic. It has proven to be the most effective confession to me, but is not exiting at all...

If I got accepted, the "what shall we do now? must we sign something" aura stays in the air for a while. If I get rejected, it's like "then, no problem" and we keep talking like if nothing happened. She does not feels weird nor I feel depressed, since it was a "business proposal".

Never confessed :/ always wait for the for the other person to do that step lol