how did you confess your love to your girl?

Tried twice "the usual way" e.g "Would you like to go out with me".

Didn't work out on both occasions, since one wanted to be "just friends", another was apparently dating someone.

Ultimately it was a good thing, since both turned out to be more different than I originally imagined...

I'm haven't had any other realtionships since there weren't any women I would want to date, so no.

Really, If I did, would I still be here?