How do you end a online relationship with a cutter/stalker?
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Well, if you took the relationship as serious as any normal one then just end it like any normal one. Just tell her what you would tell her if she was standing right in front of you. Try to express your feelings somehow. I'm sure she would understand if you explained it right.
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Renovartio wrote...
Yea im serious, I already ended the relationship bur im woundering if i could have gone about it differently. I told her she looked like a relative of mines so I just wanted to be friends, she hasnt talked to me since. Im happy but I feel kind of bad. She was crazy and also sensitive and she said she was prone to cutting herself... Should i have gone about it differently?Never met her in person it was online. I also texted her so she has my number. I feel Im going to live to regret this... well maybe not live DX
I am assuming you're posting this because you feel bad about the way that you ended it. First off, I want to ask if you feel like if she cut herself and got seriously injured, that it would be your fault for dumping her? Also, why did you end the relationship? Was it because she was a cutter, or you just wanted to end the relationship, but the fact that she was a cutter weighed on your mind?
Either way, honesty is really the best policy there, I think. If you want to end it, then end it. What she does from there is on her.
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it was online -w- she was taking the relatioship too serious for me, she said she cuts herself when she gets sad, she even got my friends number and tried to get him to cuzz me out, which would have made me cuss him out XD but i told her i didnt want anything swerious and then she... so i wanted to tell her something which made it so we could have a "Normal relationship"
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Be honest. For the love of God though make it clear that you're breaking up. I know many a person who has honestly not been sure whether a girl/guy has been just "needing space" or some such rubbish line they picked off a show or whatnot. Just be honest. No one likes someone who tries to make it out like it's the best for everyone just keep it short and to the point.
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Either you talk to her or you don't. Are you they type of person who makes decisions based on what people on the internet say? Especially a bunch of pervs? You could listen to our input, but ultimately we won't see it from your perspective. You have to weigh the pros and cons of each action your self and live with those consequences otherwise you'll wonder about what if's and you'll have regrets. You want to look back 50 years from now and say, "I would have done it the same way as I did then. No bullshit."
Good luck and God speed.
Good luck and God speed.
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We were never actually going out... I thought it was all just roleplaying... then she started talking about metting me in person and stuff... I freaked out obviously, a complete stranger other then net chats wanted to meet me in person..
Seriously all we ever did was tect, and then she suddenly started calling me... she still texts me once in awhile, but still im freaked..
Seriously all we ever did was tect, and then she suddenly started calling me... she still texts me once in awhile, but still im freaked..