How do you usually feel after rejecting?
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Hmmm... Its funny because I am never the one being rejected or being the one to reject. I have only been dumped really once. I am not normally in the position to reject, I am the one normally asking. Most of the time I don't even get that far with girls since most the time I get the slip from them, in some random sentence convo chit-chat I am currently having with them, that they mention having a bf already, just got out of a relationship, and or are lesbian. I am kind of at the point where I am find with being the friend with benefits kind of guy, which has got me more action as of late then just waiting for Ms.Right to come my way.
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I've been asked out by girls before.
Never once did I see it as an ego booster, but after reading the replies I can understand why.
I felt bad, especially whenever I had to see that person again. In my mind I would say "No hard feelings please"
Never once did I see it as an ego booster, but after reading the replies I can understand why.
I felt bad, especially whenever I had to see that person again. In my mind I would say "No hard feelings please"
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I've rejected two guys: One was a complete doucheweed and I was raging raging RAGING angry at him for insulting me and then, after I rejected him, he actually said this exact sentence: "you can't pass up this opportunity!". KJSDFJKSDJSDFSDBSF LJSDKJGKJDJF RAGE. I did not feel guilty in the least for rejecting him.
I had to reject another guy who was almost perfect: really sweet, we had a lot in common, mature, made me feel like a princess. The trouble was that I had almost zero attraction to him, as much as I tried to force myself to like him. I felt so guilty about it, I cried for that day and the next. He was so good, and he didn't deserve that. :( But a one-sided relationship can't work.
I had to reject another guy who was almost perfect: really sweet, we had a lot in common, mature, made me feel like a princess. The trouble was that I had almost zero attraction to him, as much as I tried to force myself to like him. I felt so guilty about it, I cried for that day and the next. He was so good, and he didn't deserve that. :( But a one-sided relationship can't work.
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Vio wrote...
I've rejected two guys: One was a complete doucheweed and I was raging raging RAGING angry at him for insulting me and then, after I rejected him, he actually said this exact sentence: "you can't pass up this opportunity!". KJSDFJKSDJSDFSDBSF LJSDKJGKJDJF RAGE. I did not feel guilty in the least for rejecting him. I had to reject another guy who was almost perfect: really sweet, we had a lot in common, mature, made me feel like a princess. The trouble was that I had almost zero attraction to him, as much as I tried to force myself to like him. I felt so guilty about it, I cried for that day and the next. He was so good, and he didn't deserve that. :( But a one-sided relationship can't work.
*hugs*
both situations sounded difficult u.u (But I admit I had fun reading the first one HAHAHA)
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I dont like being mean. In fact I hate it. Only when my pride feels threatened or obviously if I get disrespected Im gonna be upset. But I dont think I would reject people in a mean way if I didnt want them~ I try to be kind.
@OT lol I dont feel nothing. I made a bad habit out of letting things go online cause I just dont want to deal with it, being people or websites or groups. I've let quite a few go~ Im trying to stop.
@OT lol I dont feel nothing. I made a bad habit out of letting things go online cause I just dont want to deal with it, being people or websites or groups. I've let quite a few go~ Im trying to stop.
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shinji_ikari
Mustn't Run Away...
While it's a nice ego boost I usually do feel bad ,most of the time though I tell them honestly I don't think we'd go well together ,and offer them a single date to change my mind...i mean everyone deserves a chance right ?
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rejecting someone is a necessary evil, but i usually feel guilty and awkward because i might have done something to cause the situation in the first place and now i have to fix it without making the other person feel horrible.
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mibuchiha wrote...
Unless if you hate that person to the very core.Well, this ..
It must be leaving bad aftertaste ... but we have to remember why we reject her/him in the first place.
Short-duration rudeness is far better than short-duration fake happiness.
Everyone who ever got fake love before must be understand for what i try to imply.
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Amazed almost. Not the fact that I rejected the person, but that the person had the guts to confess. I guess I feel a bit sad after rejecting them, but i always admire people who can express their feelings like that. ^.^
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Vio wrote...
I've rejected two guys: One was a complete doucheweed and I was raging raging RAGING angry at him for insulting me and then, after I rejected him, he actually said this exact sentence: "you can't pass up this opportunity!". KJSDFJKSDJSDFSDBSF LJSDKJGKJDJF RAGE. I did not feel guilty in the least for rejecting him. I had to reject another guy who was almost perfect: really sweet, we had a lot in common, mature, made me feel like a princess. The trouble was that I had almost zero attraction to him, as much as I tried to force myself to like him. I felt so guilty about it, I cried for that day and the next. He was so good, and he didn't deserve that. :( But a one-sided relationship can't work.
the first guys really2 deserve it.... well for 2nd guy you can't help it will ya? but for you to cry for 2 days mean that you have a least a little bit attraction to him no?
well i reject 3 girl as much as i can remember. 2 before i have GF, 1 after i have GF... for the 2 i said to them "why didn't you try harder? maybe someday i can fall for you". well it turn out they become much beauty and one of them become cover girl for megazine. well i didn't fell much went i reject them since i am asshole back then..
and after i get GF i didn't say that anymore so i will just turn her off and said i already have a lovely GF. well i fell bad thought when i reject her..