How late can a girls period get when shes stressed?
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TheDarkStarAlchemist
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film_orange wrote...
he should prolly just talk to his gf.Best piece on this thread.
Edit: This is like the battle of the blues.
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The last time I asked if she cheated on me she cried and im the kinda guy who feels like shit when he makes anyone cry even if they diserve it.
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TheDarkStarAlchemist
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zachwolf wrote...
she criedDoes she by chance go to an acting school?
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TheDarkStarAlchemist wrote...
film_orange wrote...
he should prolly just talk to his gf.Best piece on this thread.
Edit: This is like the battle of the blues.
Lolol. It's hawt. You and I probably edit our threads just as much, too. I edit almost all of my threads at least twice.
zachwolf wrote...
The last time I asked if she cheated on me she cried and im the kinda guy who feels like shit when he makes anyone cry even if they diserve it.Depends how you asked her, zachwolf, lolol. Were you like, "/raises a backhand. DID YOU CHEAT ON ME, BITCH?" Or did you just approach her and ask? And when she cried, was it because she knew that you knew she cheated or because she was trying to make it seem like she has NEVER cheated on you?
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TheDarkStarAlchemist
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zachwolf wrote...
......she wants to be an actressWow. I think I just hit the nail on the head.
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TheDarkStarAlchemist wrote...
zachwolf wrote...
......she wants to be an actressWow. I think I just hit the nail on the head.
I think you have.
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Brittany
Director of Production
Even though I do agree about dating her isn't a good idea, when you know that she's cheated (more than once?) in the past.
But I do want to mention, you're asking a majority of guys, who would also freak out in your position, on whether or not they think your girlfriend is pregnant.
Guys don't know anything about a girls period, typically. Most guys cover their ears and go "Ew, ew, ew, ew, ew! >_<" when you mention blood coming from the vaginal area.
Saying that she's 'gaining insane amount of weight' is soo exaggerated as well, 5lbs? Insane amount of weight? What?
Above everybody judging you, and telling you what to do, even with my first statement that it's dumb to be dating her - you have to do what's right for you.
The asking if she's good at acting, there is the possibility that maybe if she's cheated in the past or done something to regret she wants to make up for it.
Hell, I think most of us can think of at least one time where you can go 'man, I really shouldn't have done that'
However, I'm not at all saying she's innocent and we should accept her and understand more - because we don't know her, the only person who does know her is the thread starter.
The Point:
I think the real issue is the fact that you haven't had sex with her yet, and you're afraid she's sleeping with other men. Would you still have felt like that if she hadn't told you she's cheated in the past after you started dating?
So you're actually letting your insecurities get the better of you, and letting your imagination get the better of you.
She's in a stressful time of exams, her cycle is off due to her hormonal balance being disturbed by stress, and who knows - maybe she's a comfort food eater. Maybe she's eaten extra food to curb the stress she's had and that's where the 5lbs came in.
Instead you're letting your imagination run wild with the possibility she's having sex, and instead of talking to her about it and expressing your insecurities, you're going to a forum who the majority of the site lack sexual experience let alone how a female body runs and operates and letting their decision make yours.
Maybe what you really need to do is take a look in the mirror and ask yourself why you're with that girl, and if you do see some point in it - in order for you to get your relationship to work you need to do some SERIOUS talking and getting an understanding between you two. Otherwise you're going to grow more suspicious overtime and find yourself looking at a very resentful and bitter person in the mirror.
But I do want to mention, you're asking a majority of guys, who would also freak out in your position, on whether or not they think your girlfriend is pregnant.
Guys don't know anything about a girls period, typically. Most guys cover their ears and go "Ew, ew, ew, ew, ew! >_<" when you mention blood coming from the vaginal area.
Saying that she's 'gaining insane amount of weight' is soo exaggerated as well, 5lbs? Insane amount of weight? What?
Above everybody judging you, and telling you what to do, even with my first statement that it's dumb to be dating her - you have to do what's right for you.
The asking if she's good at acting, there is the possibility that maybe if she's cheated in the past or done something to regret she wants to make up for it.
Hell, I think most of us can think of at least one time where you can go 'man, I really shouldn't have done that'
However, I'm not at all saying she's innocent and we should accept her and understand more - because we don't know her, the only person who does know her is the thread starter.
The Point:
I think the real issue is the fact that you haven't had sex with her yet, and you're afraid she's sleeping with other men. Would you still have felt like that if she hadn't told you she's cheated in the past after you started dating?
So you're actually letting your insecurities get the better of you, and letting your imagination get the better of you.
She's in a stressful time of exams, her cycle is off due to her hormonal balance being disturbed by stress, and who knows - maybe she's a comfort food eater. Maybe she's eaten extra food to curb the stress she's had and that's where the 5lbs came in.
Instead you're letting your imagination run wild with the possibility she's having sex, and instead of talking to her about it and expressing your insecurities, you're going to a forum who the majority of the site lack sexual experience let alone how a female body runs and operates and letting their decision make yours.
Maybe what you really need to do is take a look in the mirror and ask yourself why you're with that girl, and if you do see some point in it - in order for you to get your relationship to work you need to do some SERIOUS talking and getting an understanding between you two. Otherwise you're going to grow more suspicious overtime and find yourself looking at a very resentful and bitter person in the mirror.
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TheDarkStarAlchemist
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Wow. You just pretty much punched the topic right in the face. That was an intense read, Zig.
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/end discussion.
Now all that's left is to wait for some updates. I'm putting my money on stress.
/end discussion.
Now all that's left is to wait for some updates. I'm putting my money on stress.
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No way, Ziggy, lmao. You just said in one eloquent post what would've taken us ten each. STILL. What's your bet? Stress or preggo?
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When ever I look in the mirror and ask myself somthing the answer is always the same
"you already have the answer now use it"
but I never do.
....god damnit I'm turning emo
"you already have the answer now use it"
but I never do.
....god damnit I'm turning emo
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Brittany
Director of Production
Stress. I'm biased though, my body is always so tempermental I roll my eyes at all girls that go 'oh my gawwd~ I'm 3 days laaate I'm soo pregnant! My life is like ovarr!'
Though, if they really do speak like that I hope they are pregnant.
In any case, example:
One time in high school I was going through a lot of emotional stress from a dumb ex and I remember my period not showing up for an entire month - with birth control. So it was very weird, and it just showed that even with something to help set my hormones straight, it is possible for my body to still become unbalanced.
I was feeling fatigued, I gained a few pounds, I was getting morning sickness, I was getting sick all day, even when I ate. I was pretty fucking sure at that point I was fucking pregnant.
So I went to my family doctor, got my pregnancy test done and then after the results came back, I lacked any baby fetus things in my body - and that my symptoms were due to stress and that I needed to do something about what was causing the stress and I'll feel better as the stress goes down.
So.
Long Story Short:
I thought I was pregnant and I wasn't.
Though, if they really do speak like that I hope they are pregnant.
In any case, example:
One time in high school I was going through a lot of emotional stress from a dumb ex and I remember my period not showing up for an entire month - with birth control. So it was very weird, and it just showed that even with something to help set my hormones straight, it is possible for my body to still become unbalanced.
I was feeling fatigued, I gained a few pounds, I was getting morning sickness, I was getting sick all day, even when I ate. I was pretty fucking sure at that point I was fucking pregnant.
So I went to my family doctor, got my pregnancy test done and then after the results came back, I lacked any baby fetus things in my body - and that my symptoms were due to stress and that I needed to do something about what was causing the stress and I'll feel better as the stress goes down.
So.
Long Story Short:
I thought I was pregnant and I wasn't.
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zachwolf wrote...
When ever I look in the mirror and ask myself somthing the answer is always the same"you already have the answer now use it"
but I never do.
....god damnit I'm turning emo
I'm sure a lot of us are the same way, zachwolf. But this was kinda emo, lmfao.
Ziggy wrote...
Stress. I'm biased though, my body is always so tempermental I roll my eyes at all girls that go 'oh my gawwd~ I'm 3 days laaate I'm soo pregnant! My life is like ovarr!'Spoiler:
Lmao! I've gone through this scare twice. It ALWAYS happens when I stop keeping track of my goddamn period, I swear.
Day 1 of worry starts with: "Oh, God. Has it already been a month? No... it couldn't have been a month."
Day 28: "Okay, this doesn't look good. Almost two months have gone by."
Day 43: "Oppps. Never mind. XD;"
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look strait up you know what you want to do its the decision that erks you the most the girl is a cheater and im sorry to say but people dont often change over night and the fact she didnt tell you till after you had been dating a while means that she was not being completely honest with you and was basically lying to you. now whether she did this not to hurt your feeling or she felt embaressed or whatever it tells me that shes willing to lie to you. i cant tell you what to do but I would seriously watch out for that chick she sounds like trouble.
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Ziggy wrote...
if she's not a virgin and you're a virgin, what the hell are you still doing as a virgin? Holding onto it for some reason?Ha ha, I like that.
EDIT: one up film orange for making me partly laugh.