How some girls express anger
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Now I'm starting to notice this in my friends' (or maybe others) relationships. whenever a girl finds out her guy did something wrong or similar to that, they'd go ballistic at the first get-go of the talk. others just keep a calm composure but somehow scare you like she's gonna rip your throat when you two are alone.
I experienced this before:
the first with my best friend's girlfriend suddenly arriving at where we were drinking with the guys at, not knowing that he made a promise with her NOT to drink for a month, and she suddenly left as if nothing happened but her words and the anger were flowing out when she said, "I want you to come home, NOW." that somehow sent a shiver down our asses even though we had no part in it. next day found a nice vertical fingernail scratch on his face.
second was when I received a call for my friend in his place that belonged to his girlfriend who at that time had a very scary voice, not scary angry, but scary that your back feels a cold chill when hearing her seemingly calm voice. later found out that he was two-timing and never did get to know what happened to him then.
seriously... how do the girls do that seemingly calm but angry in the inside thing?
I experienced this before:
the first with my best friend's girlfriend suddenly arriving at where we were drinking with the guys at, not knowing that he made a promise with her NOT to drink for a month, and she suddenly left as if nothing happened but her words and the anger were flowing out when she said, "I want you to come home, NOW." that somehow sent a shiver down our asses even though we had no part in it. next day found a nice vertical fingernail scratch on his face.
second was when I received a call for my friend in his place that belonged to his girlfriend who at that time had a very scary voice, not scary angry, but scary that your back feels a cold chill when hearing her seemingly calm voice. later found out that he was two-timing and never did get to know what happened to him then.
seriously... how do the girls do that seemingly calm but angry in the inside thing?
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Spoiler:
It's just how some ladies are. Scary ass bitches. Others hold their anger for a long period of time and lash out about it usually during completely irrelevant times.
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peachnblack wrote...
Spoiler:
It's just how some ladies are. Scary ass bitches. Others hold their anger for a long period of time and lash out about it usually during completely irrelevant times.
well thing is that they actually DIDNT go ballistic on-site... but rather softly said to their boyfriends (the other one is an exception because I relayed a message for the unlucky bastard) to come back so they can talk with this cold, menacing aura- hell I can't describe it that well but she's quite pissed, no doubt about that. I'm a bit scared to ask what happened to that other guy when I relayed the message because he started sweating profusely and my friend who had the vertical fingernail scratches didnt speak for a whole day.
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ZeKeR wrote...
peachnblack wrote...
Spoiler:
It's just how some ladies are. Scary ass bitches. Others hold their anger for a long period of time and lash out about it usually during completely irrelevant times.
well thing is that they actually DIDNT go ballistic on-site... but rather softly said to their boyfriends (the other one is an exception because I relayed a message for the unlucky bastard) to come back so they can talk with this cold, menacing aura- hell I can't describe it that well but she's quite pissed, no doubt about that. I'm a bit scared to ask what happened to that other guy when I relayed the message because he started sweating profusely and my friend who had the vertical fingernail scratches didnt speak for a whole day.
To be honest I think your friends get caught up with some twisted women. :< I feel for them.
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peachnblack wrote...
ZeKeR wrote...
peachnblack wrote...
Spoiler:
It's just how some ladies are. Scary ass bitches. Others hold their anger for a long period of time and lash out about it usually during completely irrelevant times.
well thing is that they actually DIDNT go ballistic on-site... but rather softly said to their boyfriends (the other one is an exception because I relayed a message for the unlucky bastard) to come back so they can talk with this cold, menacing aura- hell I can't describe it that well but she's quite pissed, no doubt about that. I'm a bit scared to ask what happened to that other guy when I relayed the message because he started sweating profusely and my friend who had the vertical fingernail scratches didnt speak for a whole day.
To be honest I think your friends get caught up with some twisted women. :< I feel for them.
still... they really scared the hell out of me. guy with the fingernail scratches only had that. no punches, bites or anything of physical contact other than that the vertical stripe wound on him, and he wouldnt talk to us about it.
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Condescending and passive-aggressive or Violent and loud. You decide.
We will let out anger fester into the pile of shit we throw on you men inappropriately or not. Or we can let it out at that instant.
Surprisingly enough, I never knock my bf's head off every time he tells me that I have no reason to be upset when everything we do and eat I pay for, he lets me down, puts our friends over me like they have more say in our relationship (he's fucking me not a bunch of dudes), never tells me when plans change (45 dollars a month no one calls me but you and you can't tell me that shit changed? oh shits about to get real!) makes lite of everything I do for him (as if he carries the relationship), never wants to train with me (when I'm the one who's helping his pudgy ass get into shape), or just hurts my feelings (By threatening to break up with me over dumb shit).
I'm violent (though I cried when I punched him with full force, he was sore for days). But I don't like feeling as though every dollar I get from Toys r Us is wasted on nothing, every day with me is too much time away from home, or ever effort I make to make you better is a wasted effort.
How do you think women (who aren't bat-shit insane) feel whenever they say what's on their minds they are labeled "Total Bitches"?
We will let out anger fester into the pile of shit we throw on you men inappropriately or not. Or we can let it out at that instant.
Surprisingly enough, I never knock my bf's head off every time he tells me that I have no reason to be upset when everything we do and eat I pay for, he lets me down, puts our friends over me like they have more say in our relationship (he's fucking me not a bunch of dudes), never tells me when plans change (45 dollars a month no one calls me but you and you can't tell me that shit changed? oh shits about to get real!) makes lite of everything I do for him (as if he carries the relationship), never wants to train with me (when I'm the one who's helping his pudgy ass get into shape), or just hurts my feelings (By threatening to break up with me over dumb shit).
I'm violent (though I cried when I punched him with full force, he was sore for days). But I don't like feeling as though every dollar I get from Toys r Us is wasted on nothing, every day with me is too much time away from home, or ever effort I make to make you better is a wasted effort.
How do you think women (who aren't bat-shit insane) feel whenever they say what's on their minds they are labeled "Total Bitches"?
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I'll have to say it's affected by women's perception of what's right or wrong, which they subconsciously concluded from their environment along years of growing up. And it's proportion is apparently very significant.
My conclusion isn't quite specific, but i noticed a phenomenon in my female friends in medical college; that they rarely act like those "scary-ass bitches" you mentioned, given the equal scenarios you described. They acted equally rational like any other guy.
Just like any other case of human behavior, i think the key lies in the particular perspective.
We will let out anger fester into the pile of shit we throw on you men inappropriately or not. Or we can let it out at that instant.
Surprisingly enough, I never knock my bf's head off every time he tells me that I have no reason to be upset when everything we do and eat I pay for, he lets me down, puts our friends over me like they have more say in our relationship (he's fucking me not a bunch of dudes), never tells me when plans change (45 dollars a month no one calls me but you and you can't tell me that shit changed? oh shits about to get real!) makes lite of everything I do for him (as if he carries the relationship), never wants to train with me (when I'm the one who's helping his pudgy ass get into shape), or just hurts my feelings (By threatening to break up with me over dumb shit).
I'm violent (though I cried when I punched him with full force, he was sore for days). But I don't like feeling as though every dollar I get from Toys r Us is wasted on nothing, every day with me is too much time away from home, or ever effort I make to make you better is a wasted effort.
How do you think women (who aren't bat-shit insane) feel whenever they say what's on their minds they are labeled "Total Bitches"?
you know, for someone who could weight things reasonably you sure sound like you unreasonably picked a guy for boyfriend...
pardon my english
My conclusion isn't quite specific, but i noticed a phenomenon in my female friends in medical college; that they rarely act like those "scary-ass bitches" you mentioned, given the equal scenarios you described. They acted equally rational like any other guy.
Just like any other case of human behavior, i think the key lies in the particular perspective.
BlueRoseEmpress wrote...
Condescending and passive-aggressive or Violent and loud. You decide.We will let out anger fester into the pile of shit we throw on you men inappropriately or not. Or we can let it out at that instant.
Surprisingly enough, I never knock my bf's head off every time he tells me that I have no reason to be upset when everything we do and eat I pay for, he lets me down, puts our friends over me like they have more say in our relationship (he's fucking me not a bunch of dudes), never tells me when plans change (45 dollars a month no one calls me but you and you can't tell me that shit changed? oh shits about to get real!) makes lite of everything I do for him (as if he carries the relationship), never wants to train with me (when I'm the one who's helping his pudgy ass get into shape), or just hurts my feelings (By threatening to break up with me over dumb shit).
I'm violent (though I cried when I punched him with full force, he was sore for days). But I don't like feeling as though every dollar I get from Toys r Us is wasted on nothing, every day with me is too much time away from home, or ever effort I make to make you better is a wasted effort.
How do you think women (who aren't bat-shit insane) feel whenever they say what's on their minds they are labeled "Total Bitches"?
you know, for someone who could weight things reasonably you sure sound like you unreasonably picked a guy for boyfriend...
pardon my english
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Yeah? What about it.
The majority of times I've witnessed similar behavior the male in the heterosexual relationship is a callous ass.
The majority of times I've witnessed similar behavior the male in the heterosexual relationship is a callous ass.
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Some people just have issues. Everyone gets shit thrown at them in life, some are incapable of dealing with it like everyone else. I'd avoid violent ones like the plague, never know when she might pull a weapon on you.
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Takerial
Lovable Teddy Bear
It's because women tend to be more about subtlety and shit than guys. It's stems a lot from the social standards that we developed overtime, though partially because of hormonal differences and such.
If you work on your subtlety, you would find that you can do the same thing to. It's mostly just about using certain tones in conjunction together to help create a tone that sounds calm but with an angry subtext.
If you work on your subtlety, you would find that you can do the same thing to. It's mostly just about using certain tones in conjunction together to help create a tone that sounds calm but with an angry subtext.
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Drifter995
Neko//Night
I know the feeling of it... I've had a few of these moments in life... Not fun :/
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colbert wrote...
you know, for someone who could weight things reasonably you sure sound like you unreasonably picked a guy for boyfriend...
pardon my english
Your english is fine but I think you meant to say a "Bad" guy for a boyfriend.
I wonder that sometimes but when I look at the men around me, I think I'm better off.
I mean come on its like I got hotter when I got a boyfriend and my self-esteem was still in the shitter! As soon as I said "oh hey guys I'm dating!" every dude I knew or just met was all over me. Awkward situations with every one I knew.
Back on topic: I would have killed everyone else I know because somethings they do as my friends just irk the shit out of me and things would be worse if I dated them.
"Get better friends"? Yes that would have helped if people weren't afraid of me since high school because I fought two bullies (one gang-raped a girl in junior year, the other one wanted to sleep with me because I fought back an no one else did? Not sure how that worked...). Also I learned boxing for self defense and people spread it around then I some how became crazy...
I'm not insane, I'm defensive (watch out guys this is dangerous sometimes because she'll forget why she is mad).
Look, I'm stating the bad about my guy, but there is worse around me, like one who takes an hour long turn in Yu-gi-oh (an example) or in making important decisions in life but can ask his first girlfriend for a blow job for his birthday at the drop of a hat(sigh stupid virgin)...
I love my boyfriend so much but hurting HIM physically is just impossible for me to do and feel good so I take the condescending and passive-aggressive route.
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BlueRoseEmpress wrote...
Condescending and passive-aggressive or Violent and loud. You decide.We will let out anger fester into the pile of shit we throw on you men inappropriately or not. Or we can let it out at that instant.
Surprisingly enough, I never knock my bf's head off every time he tells me that I have no reason to be upset when everything we do and eat I pay for, he lets me down, puts our friends over me like they have more say in our relationship (he's fucking me not a bunch of dudes), never tells me when plans change (45 dollars a month no one calls me but you and you can't tell me that shit changed? oh shits about to get real!) makes lite of everything I do for him (as if he carries the relationship), never wants to train with me (when I'm the one who's helping his pudgy ass get into shape), or just hurts my feelings (By threatening to break up with me over dumb shit).
I'm violent (though I cried when I punched him with full force, he was sore for days). But I don't like feeling as though every dollar I get from Toys r Us is wasted on nothing, every day with me is too much time away from home, or ever effort I make to make you better is a wasted effort.
How do you think women (who aren't bat-shit insane) feel whenever they say what's on their minds they are labeled "Total Bitches"?
The question is why are you still with him if all he's doing is clearly taking everything you do for him for granted. You're creating undue stress by being with him.
A woman who speaks what's on her mind doesn't have to be violent or come across as a "Total Bitch" just a matter of using the right wording and tone.
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spectre257 wrote...
BlueRoseEmpress wrote...
Condescending and passive-aggressive or Violent and loud. You decide.We will let out anger fester into the pile of shit we throw on you men inappropriately or not. Or we can let it out at that instant.
Surprisingly enough, I never knock my bf's head off every time he tells me that I have no reason to be upset when everything we do and eat I pay for, he lets me down, puts our friends over me like they have more say in our relationship (he's fucking me not a bunch of dudes), never tells me when plans change (45 dollars a month no one calls me but you and you can't tell me that shit changed? oh shits about to get real!) makes lite of everything I do for him (as if he carries the relationship), never wants to train with me (when I'm the one who's helping his pudgy ass get into shape), or just hurts my feelings (By threatening to break up with me over dumb shit).
I'm violent (though I cried when I punched him with full force, he was sore for days). But I don't like feeling as though every dollar I get from Toys r Us is wasted on nothing, every day with me is too much time away from home, or ever effort I make to make you better is a wasted effort.
How do you think women (who aren't bat-shit insane) feel whenever they say what's on their minds they are labeled "Total Bitches"?
The question is why are you still with him if all he's doing is clearly taking everything you do for him for granted. You're creating undue stress by being with him.
A woman who speaks what's on her mind doesn't have to be violent or come across as a "Total Bitch" just a matter of using the right wording and tone.
Lol tone! I raise hell after letting shit stew man! Its like fix it now or feel my wrath later and just wait for my monthly! SEX CAN'T SAVE YOU NOW!!! RAWR!!!
Just being silly but still there is worse for me. At least he has yet to hit me... THEN THAT'S WHEN THE PROVERBIAL VASELINE COMES OUT AND I'LL SHOW HIM HOW TO HIT!!!!
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animefreak_usa wrote...
Heaven hold no scold for a bitch scorned.but with an aura that may as well look like a demon on her shoulders? god no.
@Empress: well THAT even I can take into account but I sure as hell dont want to feel what happened to those two because they were SCARED SHITLESS. but based on your description... now I NEVER want to know what really happened to ol' stripeface when they talked.
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Drifter995
Neko//Night
I have yet to tell my girlfriend something, and i'm afraid to tell her.. so i plan on hiding it.. :|
Odds are, if she found out, she'd rage, and be pissy for ages.. but the upside, is she's probably help me pay it off (i put something on layby, and it's taking me ages to pay it off cause i lack funds :/ good thing the guys at the shop are really nice, so the are allowing me to take my time to pay it off)
but yeah.. my current girlfriend is great compared to the other ones, they were horrible in subtle aggression :|
Odds are, if she found out, she'd rage, and be pissy for ages.. but the upside, is she's probably help me pay it off (i put something on layby, and it's taking me ages to pay it off cause i lack funds :/ good thing the guys at the shop are really nice, so the are allowing me to take my time to pay it off)
but yeah.. my current girlfriend is great compared to the other ones, they were horrible in subtle aggression :|
