How some girls express anger
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but still, CAN you call a girl who is like that batshit insane bitch?
one of memories I just remembered (two of them caught in a photo op) when I saw an old photo of my schoolmates and his girlfriend together. right before we were about to shoot, we clearly heard her say, "clench your teeth" with that unnerving smile that still looked sweet.... and yeah... we felt something there... SOMETHING thats... well, I can't explain it properly
one of memories I just remembered (two of them caught in a photo op) when I saw an old photo of my schoolmates and his girlfriend together. right before we were about to shoot, we clearly heard her say, "clench your teeth" with that unnerving smile that still looked sweet.... and yeah... we felt something there... SOMETHING thats... well, I can't explain it properly
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Drifter995
Neko//Night
I mean, it's understandable why they get like that sometimes... but if it were how they acted ALL the time, i'd be inclined to call them a bitch... unless of course the boyfriend is an idiot and annoys the shit out of her 24/7 and pisses her off to no end... that i'd understand.. but not understand why she would still be with him.
Tl;dr shit's goin' down.
Tl;dr shit's goin' down.
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I see lots of girls express there anger, simply by being quiet. Oh man can you see it in their eyes though, scary
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Well personally I prefer to be clam angry, because when you're ballistic guarantee the guys won't ever take you serious cause face it you just look stupid and usually your logic goes out the door cause your furiously trying to sputter words.
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We will let out anger fester into the pile of shit we throw on you men inappropriately or not. Or we can let it out at that instant.
Surprisingly enough, I never knock my bf's head off every time he tells me that I have no reason to be upset when everything we do and eat I pay for, he lets me down, puts our friends over me like they have more say in our relationship (he's fucking me not a bunch of dudes), never tells me when plans change (45 dollars a month no one calls me but you and you can't tell me that shit changed? oh shits about to get real!) makes lite of everything I do for him (as if he carries the relationship), never wants to train with me (when I'm the one who's helping his pudgy ass get into shape), or just hurts my feelings (By threatening to break up with me over dumb shit).
I'm violent (though I cried when I punched him with full force, he was sore for days). But I don't like feeling as though every dollar I get from Toys r Us is wasted on nothing, every day with me is too much time away from home, or ever effort I make to make you better is a wasted effort.
How do you think women (who aren't bat-shit insane) feel whenever they say what's on their minds they are labeled "Total Bitches"?
I'm not sure what you were trying to prove but you're pretty bat-shit insane because you're staying with a guy with that.... If he's everything you just listed up there he's just a emotionally manipulative person, and you should get out of there pronto. Usually it takes two for a relationship you know?
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BlueRoseEmpress wrote...
Condescending and passive-aggressive or Violent and loud. You decide.We will let out anger fester into the pile of shit we throw on you men inappropriately or not. Or we can let it out at that instant.
Surprisingly enough, I never knock my bf's head off every time he tells me that I have no reason to be upset when everything we do and eat I pay for, he lets me down, puts our friends over me like they have more say in our relationship (he's fucking me not a bunch of dudes), never tells me when plans change (45 dollars a month no one calls me but you and you can't tell me that shit changed? oh shits about to get real!) makes lite of everything I do for him (as if he carries the relationship), never wants to train with me (when I'm the one who's helping his pudgy ass get into shape), or just hurts my feelings (By threatening to break up with me over dumb shit).
I'm violent (though I cried when I punched him with full force, he was sore for days). But I don't like feeling as though every dollar I get from Toys r Us is wasted on nothing, every day with me is too much time away from home, or ever effort I make to make you better is a wasted effort.
How do you think women (who aren't bat-shit insane) feel whenever they say what's on their minds they are labeled "Total Bitches"?
I'm not sure what you were trying to prove but you're pretty bat-shit insane because you're staying with a guy with that.... If he's everything you just listed up there he's just a emotionally manipulative person, and you should get out of there pronto. Usually it takes two for a relationship you know?
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BlueRoseEmpress wrote...
Your english is fine but I think you meant to say a "Bad" guy for a boyfriend.
I wonder that sometimes but when I look at the men around me, I think I'm better off.
I mean come on its like I got hotter when I got a boyfriend and my self-esteem was still in the shitter! As soon as I said "oh hey guys I'm dating!" every dude I knew or just met was all over me. Awkward situations with every one I knew.
Back on topic: I would have killed everyone else I know because somethings they do as my friends just irk the shit out of me and things would be worse if I dated them.
"Get better friends"? Yes that would have helped if people weren't afraid of me since high school because I fought two bullies (one gang-raped a girl in junior year, the other one wanted to sleep with me because I fought back an no one else did? Not sure how that worked...). Also I learned boxing for self defense and people spread it around then I some how became crazy...
I'm not insane, I'm defensive (watch out guys this is dangerous sometimes because she'll forget why she is mad).
Look, I'm stating the bad about my guy, but there is worse around me, like one who takes an hour long turn in Yu-gi-oh (an example) or in making important decisions in life but can ask his first girlfriend for a blow job for his birthday at the drop of a hat(sigh stupid virgin)...
I love my boyfriend so much but hurting HIM physically is just impossible for me to do and feel good so I take the condescending and passive-aggressive route.
i really think that something's really wrong with all the guys around you.. maybe you should start checking out undesirable guys.. desirable people, guys or girls, usually take things for granted..
Dr Shaneman wrote...
Women are more hormonal so I'm told, so it's to be expected.indeed..
subtlety aside, one thing that won't get along with hormones is rational thinking. proven on any gender. however girls tend to fluctuates lol
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colbert wrote...
i really think that something's really wrong with all the guys around you.. maybe you should start checking out undesirable guys.. desirable people, guys or girls, usually take things for granted..
I consider myself mildly (at best) attractive. I noticed from the neck down I get attention...
I unfortunately reside in New Jersey (City to be precise) so I'm surrounded by wanna-be-gang-bangers, drug addicts, lazy ass men, and ignorant assholes...
I have standards, though not high, I do have them...
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iMoloko wrote...
Or maybe you guys are just hanging out with shitty girls.What she said. Or the flip side would be that the girls are fine but driven to anger by shitty guys. I mean, the first dude broke his promise not to drink, and the second dude cheated. Those are perfectly rational reasons to be angry at someone.
Some people--both women and men--are just scary when angry. For some, it's because they're usually very calm and placid, so when they're angry, you really feel the difference even if they are not ALL CAPS RAGE angry. For others, it's scary because you know they want to lash out, but can control themselves. It's really a personality thing, although like Takerial says, women are a bit more likely to be this way because of strong societal forces that say women shouldn't be angry, or that women should have more control over their emotions than men.
Also, I hate the fact that people seem to equate hormones with irrationality. Nope, it's not true. If you are already a rational person, hormone fluctuations i.e. "PMS" or whatever the fuck the equivalent is for guys (yes, guys get hormone fluctuations too!) will NOT suddenly make you irrational--it's just that your temper will be shorter. I'm pretty sure everyone here has had moments where you're just sick and tired of dealing with bullshit, and the things that bother you but you normally can ignore seem like a bigger deal. Chalking it up to "PMS" or "hormones" is a lazy thing to do, because it's easier to invalidate a woman's feelings instead of working on the underlying problems.
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Nekohime wrote...
iMoloko wrote...
Or maybe you guys are just hanging out with shitty girls.What she said. Or the flip side would be that the girls are fine but driven to anger by shitty guys. I mean, the first dude broke his promise not to drink, and the second dude cheated. Those are perfectly rational reasons to be angry at someone.
Some people--both women and men--are just scary when angry. For some, it's because they're usually very calm and placid, so when they're angry, you really feel the difference even if they are not ALL CAPS RAGE angry. For others, it's scary because you know they want to lash out, but can control themselves. It's really a personality thing, although like Takerial says, women are a bit more likely to be this way because of strong societal forces that say women shouldn't be angry, or that women should have more control over their emotions than men.
Also, I hate the fact that people seem to equate hormones with irrationality. Nope, it's not true. If you are already a rational person, hormone fluctuations i.e. "PMS" or whatever the fuck the equivalent is for guys (yes, guys get hormone fluctuations too!) will NOT suddenly make you irrational--it's just that your temper will be shorter. I'm pretty sure everyone here has had moments where you're just sick and tired of dealing with bullshit, and the things that bother you but you normally can ignore seem like a bigger deal. Chalking it up to "PMS" or "hormones" is a lazy thing to do, because it's easier to invalidate a woman's feelings instead of working on the underlying problems.
still Neko... how some of you girls do that calm but emitting the thirst for blood thing both amaze and scare me at the same time.
now I dont really wanna know what happened for them to be so perplexed, especially my boy who was silent and had the look that he got attacked by a succubus and suffered a nightmare. strange thing is that no physical injuries save fingernail scratch were present, ruling out that she beat the shit out of the guy. cheating guy... well that was the last time I saw him... sweating profusely and having a face that looked like he just triggered a Hannya's wrath
